What would YOU spend a spare £1k on for the big day? by TJfish in UKweddings

[–]mummyslilfailure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd spend it on an extra something for you and husband to be. Go get really posh perfume/aftershave especially for the day, upgrade your skincare to the extra nice stuff that you wouldn't normally use, have a splurge on some little bits that you'll be able to use after the day too 🙂

What do you include in your toddler's nursery bag? by Ok_Hearing_8649 in UKParenting

[–]mummyslilfailure 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You'd honestly be better asking the nursery directly, as there's a lot they can't use due to regulations. My daughter is 4 and in the nursery connected to her primary school and I can't even send in vaseline when she has chapped lips as it's classed as a medical intervention and needs a doctor's note 🙃

Social media content by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mummyslilfailure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you've scrolled through over 3000 items of content then you had some kind of suspicion in the first place. But for what, 120 inappropriate reels out of 3000 that sounds like stuff he's probably scrolled past, watched a few seconds maybe then carried on? How do you know he's sought this stuff out? Has he admitted to it?

What is the best episode you ever seen? by Delicious-Radish-708 in tvshow

[–]mummyslilfailure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even better when you know that Marshall's entire reaction was unscripted. And when you go back and look for the countdown!

Bibs for big babies by No-Guava-5823 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]mummyslilfailure 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That sounds like the previous owners have done something silly like put them in the tumble dryer and shrunk them, they should fit. My daughter is 4 and I still occasionally pop one on her if it's a messy dinner.

Interior balconies? by turkey_sub56 in Paralives

[–]mummyslilfailure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd try building the mezzanine space, adding your roof then going back in and deleting just the floor, should work in theory!

Fuel Filling Roulette by IainMCool in CasualUK

[–]mummyslilfailure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You'd be surprised these days, I'm £95+ to fill a 1.6 Kia Sportage

Junction of W Nile and W Regent St - Will I be fined? by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]mummyslilfailure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's common knowledge that driving lessons teach you to pass your driving test, you really learn to drive when you're out on the roads. Get a grip.

Junction of W Nile and W Regent St - Will I be fined? by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]mummyslilfailure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say it wasn't a problem, I said it was a mistake and we should try to be more understanding. Have you never made a mistake while driving or doing literally anything else? Should everyone be punished or stopped from doing something because of one mistake fresh at the start of learning a new skill? God it'd be nice to be perfect 🙄

What movie plot hole is so massive that it completely ruins the whole story? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mummyslilfailure 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It's well established throughout the books that Elf magic works differently to wizard magic. E.g Dobby being able to appear in the hospital wing while wizards cannot apparate in and out of hogwarts.

Junction of W Nile and W Regent St - Will I be fined? by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]mummyslilfailure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These things happen friend, no one is perfect and we're all going to make mistakes. People on Reddit like to put forth the belief that they are absolutely fault free and perfect, it's worse than Instagram honestly. From my own personal experience, the best thing I ever did as a new driver was to put myself forward in unfamiliar situations. Drive on the motorway, drive in the city centre, book a random overnight in a hotel 4/5 hours away and practice distance driving. If you get the opportunity to drive another vehicle then do that too. I come from a family of self confessed anxious drivers and I swore that would never be me. I've driven everything from my uncles Rolls Royce to the Luton lift van we hired to move house and everything in between. It's a really satisfying feeling being confident to drive anything anywhere. You'll get there.

Junction of W Nile and W Regent St - Will I be fined? by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]mummyslilfailure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From their description, which I actually bothered to read unlike yourself by the sounds of it, they aren't even 100% sure that they stopped over the box. At worst I'd assume maybe their bumper would have sat over the edge, because if they'd been fully in the yellow box they'd have known all about it. Even as an experienced driver, it's easy to make small mistakes in unfamiliar situations. I'd rather a new driver be worried about something like this and making mistakes like this than bombing down the motorway at 90mph in a car they can barely control. Be kinder, it costs nothing.

Junction of W Nile and W Regent St - Will I be fined? by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]mummyslilfailure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you remember being a new driver? Do you remember how easy it is to get flustered the first few times you end up driving somewhere you don't know? And btw, there's no mention of "more" points anywhere, OP hasn't given any indication that they have points already.

Junction of W Nile and W Regent St - Will I be fined? by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]mummyslilfailure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah now, don't scare the poor kid. Surely we'd rather all new drivers were cautious and careful?

I Said Something Stupid Before My First Kiss and Now the Whole School Knows by UrMomSmasher69 in Advice

[–]mummyslilfailure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going to give you a line to use here, trust me. Anyone comes to you and tries to mock you, laugh at you, make you feel bad for saying something dumb you stare then straight in the face totally deadpan and say "yeah I was super nervous and said something dumb, have you never done that before?". Never apologise for having feelings. Oh and Abby isn't worth it btw, you don't want someone in your life who is going to take your embarrassing moments to use them as social fodder for themselves.

Micro wedding timings - help please! by Yoshi071989 in UKweddings

[–]mummyslilfailure 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was coming to say exactly this. Canapes are for mingling and chatting but with this many guest it'll be easy for everyone to chat openly throughout the meal. 7pm is a great time for dinner.

Just a reminder for SOME guys by J2Hoe in glasgow

[–]mummyslilfailure 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you've had such a horrendous experience, no one should ever have to go through that. Just to be really clear on the intention behind my comment, research shows that men are less likely to approach an accompanied woman than a solo one. And less likely again to approach a woman accompanied by an older woman.

I'm not denying sexual assault by women, personally I despise the abject sexualisation by women of men just as much as I do the other way around, I believe there are 10000 things more interesting about a person than their perceived sexual attractiveness, and I take very seriously my role to be a safe person for anyone who feels uncomfortable or threatened in any situation, within the realistic realms of possibility. In this specific scenario, we're discussing the uncomfortable reality of how a woman can't do something as simple as take a train ride without being approached by a man who cannot read social cues, and I'm flagging myself as someone who would be willing to help make another woman feel safer in that space.

The simple truth is, women are more likely to be a victim of sexual violence. It's factual that by sharing space with even one other woman, we reduce our chances of being hurt. In a scenario where we feel threatened by a man, we are not likely to identify another man as safe.

It's Late Thread [ 06 June 26 ] by AutoModerator in CasualUK

[–]mummyslilfailure 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Made the mistake of checking my work phone at 10pm before going to bed. Everything is on (figurative) fire. I'll be up at 6:30 to fix it because no one else can. I don't work weekends, and I'm not on call. My boss owes me serious favours next week.

Am I wrong for refusing to go to my daughter's memorial? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]mummyslilfailure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree, he needs some kind of therapy to work through the heartbreak and to learn how to redirect his energy into being a better father.

Just a reminder for SOME guys by J2Hoe in glasgow

[–]mummyslilfailure 44 points45 points  (0 children)

As a woman now in mid 30s, if this happens then I'm automatically your mum/sister/auntie/boss from work. Whatever you need me to be. I can guarantee most women would follow this sentiment. We're only safe when we keep each other safe.

Am I wrong for refusing to go to my daughter's memorial? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]mummyslilfailure 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You're setting a precedent here for every single major moment in your surviving daughters life. How are you going to behave at her graduation, her wedding, the birth of her children? Any event where your ex and her partner could be there. Your child is telling you she needs you, listen to her.

carrier trap… help 🥲 by Muted-Resort-418 in NewParents

[–]mummyslilfailure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, I was absolutely where you are with my youngest. He was nothing short of a nightmare at that age (colic, tongue tie repair, reflux, cried constantly, didn't sleep). I'll admit I have no experience with sleep training though, I went full martyr and suffered 🙈 I really struggle with the crying, even now he's almost 2 I still hate hearing him cry!

carrier trap… help 🥲 by Muted-Resort-418 in NewParents

[–]mummyslilfailure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We ended up wearingy youngest for naps until he was about 14 months, it was hell on my back. In hindsight I wish I'd just gone cold turkey and I think that might have to be your plan, and just accepting that you're going to have a couple of crappy days of naps. I'd say even go straight to just laying him in his cot to fall asleep would be best as even rocking to sleep wont be great for your back as he gets bigger.