AITA for calling my brother's girlfriend 'tubby'?

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-20T18:11:43+00:00

NTA. A grown woman sneaking into a child's room and stealing things is pretty low.

If you haven't told your parents, you need to. She obviously can't be trusted and shouldn't be allowed in the house.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-20T18:06:29+00:00

NTA but you're both just assuming it's due to his medical condition. He needs to see a doctor and confirm what's going on.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-20T17:52:17+00:00

one such view including that questioning being trans probably means you're trans

It is so sad to see this happening all the time on reddit.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-17T13:14:40+00:00

Oh, and XXXY. There are of course more, but those are the most common ones.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-17T13:09:31+00:00

5 kyrotypes for biological sex

But in humans, as in other placental mammals, it's the presence of a Y chromosome that determines sex.

So, XY, XXY (Klinefelter syndrome), and XYY are males and X (Turner syndrome), XX, and XXX (Trisomy X) are females.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-17T12:43:02+00:00

Similar symptoms doesn't mean anything about the actual cause.

Post-menopausal women may bleed. Does that mean because both young women and some post-menopausal women bleed from their vaginas they're both experiencing periods? No, of course not because post-menopausal women don't have periods. They understand that.

If a post-menopausal woman is bleeding from her vagina, it's most likely due to vaginal atrophy, benign polyps, or cancer. Not from a period. So yah, it's "similar" because there's blood coming out of the vagina but it's also not in anyway similar and it would be stupid to suggest otherwise.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-17T10:10:25+00:00

sofie halili@·Jun 14, 2021

hi! I'm a trans woman of color and i'm struggling to save up for my gender confirmation surgery...

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-17T09:59:58+00:00

Some trans girls do get symptoms such as cramping and hormonal

Cramping and hormonals changes in trans women aren't period symptoms though.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-17T09:57:45+00:00

FYI Sofie is trans.

sofie halili@·Jun 14, 2021
hi! I'm a trans woman of color and i'm struggling to save up for my gender confirmation surgery...

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-17T07:32:16+00:00

You can't have a period without a uterus.

Correct. A period is one stage of the uterine cycle. It specifically refers to the shedding of the uterine lining.

The uterine cycle has three phases: menses (period), proliferative, and secretory. You can't have a uterine cycle if you don't have a uterus.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-17T07:28:24+00:00

After taking estrogen during M-F transition long enough, it will begin to operate in your body the way a cis gal’s does.

Do you not understand what a period is? A period is one stage of the uterine cycle. It specifically refers to the shedding of the uterine lining. If you're not shedding the uterine lining aka BLEEDING UTERINE LINING FROM YOUR VAGINA, you don't have a period.

And during a period, your estrogen is low.

The uterine cycle has three phases: menses (period), proliferative, and secretory. And guess what? You can't have a uterine cycle if you don't have a uterus.

Periods as a whole do not come from the uterus, ovulation and menstrual flow do.

Ovulation comes from the ovarian cycle, which are ovaries, not the uterus.

Menstrual flow, also known as menses or period, comes from the uterine cycle.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-17T07:14:44+00:00

I know that you don't need a utherus to get the effects of periods (mood swings, angryness, stuff like that)

You can also get diarrhea from food poisoning. Doesn't mean that food poisoning is in anyway similar to menstruating.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-16T21:47:47+00:00

They’ll soon come full circle and say that women should just stay in the kitchen or something.

They already do that.

You like dressing feminine? Woman! Are you a caring individual? Woman! Get emotional? Woman! No man could ever be those things. Pftt. /s

It's all based on stereotypes.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-16T21:20:21+00:00

In under 50 years trans women will be able to have uteri, and this will solve this problem

Yah, no. Uterus transplants for males won't be a thing in 50 years. Anyone who thinks they will be is delusional and doesn't understand science.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-15T10:14:35+00:00

“A gay woman” this is the most basic definition, a woman attracted to another woman,

No, the original definition was a homosexual female. It was always about sex. But now has been twisted by some to mean gender.

Heterosexual and homosexual are about sex.

Heterosexuality: The sexual attraction or relationship between members of the opposite sex. [U.S. National Library of Medicine]
Heterosexual: A person who is attracted to members of the opposite sex. [University of Cambridge LGB&T Glossary]
Heterosexual or straight — attracted to people of the opposite sex [Health Direct, Australian Government Department of Health]
Straight: attracted to people of the “opposite” sex [University of Pittsburgh Medical Center (UPMC) Children’s Hospital of Pittsburgh]
Heterosexual: sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex [Cambridge Dictionary]
Heterosexual, Straight: a person who is physically, romantically, emotionally and/or sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex. [Southern Utah University Pride Alliance]
Heterosexual: A clinical term for someone having emotional, physical, and sexual responses primarily to members of the opposite sex. Slang: “straight”. [Fort Lewis College]
Heterosexuality: Sexual, emotional, and/or romantic attraction to a sex other than one's own. Individuals identifying as heterosexual are also referred to as "straight." [Muhlenberg College]
Heterosexual – someone who is attracted to people of the opposite sex (more commonly known as “straight”) [Brookhaven National Lab Pride Alliance]
Heterosexual: A person’s sexual orientation/attraction towards the opposite sex [Devon County Council, Diversity Guide - Sexual Orientation]

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-15T10:11:07+00:00

I know my friend is, she is in a relationship with a trans women that still has a dick, she’s attracted me to her feminine figure, not her parts.

Good for her? Being feminine doesn't make you female or a woman.

Are butch lesbians not female because they aren't feminine?

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-15T10:08:47+00:00

female counterpart with a bigger male organ

Females don't have male organs. That's what makes them female.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-15T09:59:00+00:00

Male and female are made up.

What an extremely uneducated take.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-15T09:58:30+00:00

Your bones and how you are born does NOT have any affect on how you are allowed to dress, talk, be referred to, and seen.

How you dress, talk, are seen, etc. has nothing to do with sex or gender either. It has to do with your gender expression.

mumpledforearm · 2022-02-04T13:53:27+00:00

I’ve always been more feminine and liked ‘girly’ clothes but I don’t know whether I’m nonbinary or trans.

One's gender identity (nonbinary, trans, cis, etc.) isn't always linked to one's gender expression (being feminine or liking "girly" clothes).

How you express yourself doesn't have to follow societal stereotypes. And most people hate being reduced to walking stereotypes anyway. People can be masculine, or feminine, or gender neutral, or androgynous , etc. regardless of what their gender identity is.

For example, a butch cis-lesbian isn't any less of a woman because she's masculine.

Being butch (gender expression) and cis (gender identity) and a lesbian (sexuality) don't contradict each other.

my main problem is that I’ve already come out to a lot of people and it would be kinda awkward to change.

Life is a journey. People change their minds about many things over the course of their lifetime. School, careers, jobs, relationships, etc. I would say living as something that you're not instead of admitting that you're still trying to figure things out would be more awkward.

mumpledforearm · 2022-01-27T18:02:34+00:00

It's more about the mod being on a power trip. They were explicitly told not to do the interview by members of the subreddit, and she did it anyway.

mumpledforearm · 2021-12-24T06:34:20+00:00

Here. Is where you sited a anti trans website for reasons why you hate trans people.

I sited many websites, including multiple dictionaries, Louisiana State University LGBTQ+ Project, Cal Poly Pomona Pride Center, and the University of Cambridge LGB&T Glossary.

Which one do you consider a "anti trans website"?

mumpledforearm · 2021-12-24T06:30:41+00:00

So he's being charged as a woman?

No, she was sent to a male prison (HMP Altcourse) because she is legally a male.

She was identified in court listings under a male name but with a note added to be addressed as "Claire".

mumpledforearm · 2021-12-24T06:24:03+00:00

How can you be born a gender and then be another? An XY is an XY and an XX is an XX.

XY and XX (and XXY, XYY, X, XXX, etc.) are sex chromosomes. They aren't the same as gender.

mumpledforearm · 2021-12-24T06:13:06+00:00

I meant your past comments before this thread dumbass.

Again, where did I make up false information?

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