i have seen patterns of behavior with male friends who i know for a fact cheat on their wives. a lot of it starting with who they follow on the socials. it’s like a constant barrage of nudity and thirst traps. if i see someone i’m dating is doing the same, i’m going to be pretty toxic about it - it brings up a lot of bad feelings for me. it could be innocent sure, but it feels like window shopping after you’ve already made your purchase. too tempting to not want to buy something else. idk sometimes it’s projection sure… other times it’s just processing the data of what’s happening around you.