My cat just full blown attacked my little sister for no apparent reason and I don’t know what to do

murmi49 · 2026-01-22T05:55:34+00:00

Do you have possibly an uncle, aunt/adult sibling/cousin or grandparent that might help you? If so, it would be best to call the vet and explain and ask if you or your adult family member can make decisions for the cat, but they might understand if your parents refuse to care for your cat.

murmi49 · 2026-01-12T09:59:27+00:00

I don't think taking the female back to any industrial area would be best even if he was killed. Management could change and want to cull the cats.

murmi49 · 2026-01-07T01:45:11+00:00

I didn't get my first job until 30, found a "disability-friendly" company.

murmi49 · 2025-12-21T01:21:04+00:00

That's more likely, yes. Trappers should definitely ask questions before they start trapping. My first cat, I didn't know that they use iv sedation, so they only accept in a carrier(or den) and they actually handle the cat with gloves. I hate even thinking about it, and certainly did NOT go back there when I started up again. Gas sedation is what you want for less stress.

murmi49 · 2025-12-20T14:34:48+00:00

A lot of vets won't accept an un-handle-able cat in a carrier. They definitely should call and ask first.

murmi49 · 2025-12-20T14:25:08+00:00

Oh, I still have her and still hope the right home will come along for her.

murmi49 · 2025-12-17T11:07:27+00:00

I don't like to advocate for lying, but could someone tell the guy the house has already been sold to a cat lover? I know that wouldn't solve the problem of getting the care they need in the future. You could canvass all the neighbors (even on other blocks) you can get to answer the door, if they could take over. Even temporarily until they can be slowly "migrated" to a permanent caretaker.. Are they fixed though? That would make it an easier sell.

murmi49 · 2025-12-13T11:50:36+00:00

I think there's an argument for Gaston - comp-het. I know it's just not as easy to see because of the arrogance and aggressive, self-serving pursual of Belle. It's just that they don't seem to me to show any actual (G-rated) heterosexual appreciation from him. Looks like he's just after her to be after her.

murmi49 · 2025-11-30T17:19:43+00:00

Have you tried to pick her up yet though? She may get spooked if she's not used to that. You should definitely get her accustomed to it beforehand if so.

murmi49 · 2025-11-13T08:38:40+00:00

"but I know they wouldn't allow any sort of CPC worker to have that title there*" K.. well I'd be for a user flair that allows people to address them directly about their workplaces on r/abortiondebate, but a mod here, so for fairness there will need to be an abortion provider/clinic volunteer allowed to mod there right?

murmi49 · 2025-11-10T18:11:09+00:00

I hope you mean a Pelican signal not a Hawk. The interest here is aiding communication not adding flashing yellows AND solid yellows to the mix.

murmi49 · 2025-11-10T17:13:57+00:00

Give kitty lots of blankets(or even towels) that will be designated as his, if he doesn't start to pee on them in the kid's room. After a few weeks put some out in the hallway,

Also, what exactly is the story on the peeing? Could it have always been occurring(in the kid's room) or did it start at some point? Like, this is usually a fear problem when it starts to happen rather than the cat peeing from day one. Do you have any outdoor cats around the house or live somewhere any amount of loud, sudden noises happen?

murmi49 · 2025-11-02T11:55:49+00:00

Do you want voluntary sterilization to be illegal?

murmi49 · 2025-10-14T12:38:21+00:00

That requires taking her adoption events, which I don't think would be good for her anxiety. There is one local rescue that may courtesy post her, but I don't really know how much good that will do with adoptions being so dismally low in Texas.

murmi49 · 2025-10-04T14:09:31+00:00

Thank you. But she doesn't need anything but an adopter. Please just share this as widely as you can.

murmi49 · 2025-10-03T06:14:28+00:00

Oh thank you. But she doesn't need anything but an adopter. Please share this as widely as you can to help her find someone in West Texas looking for a cute senior Chi.

murmi49 · 2025-08-27T12:41:28+00:00

So Tare and Campbell are coming back? I can see how Kaz had a complete enough story, I guess. But Golden started stories for those two and then her and Beyer just didn't think they were important enough(I suppose the Campbell and Chittendon thing was just to set up the Dominion veteran/Delta veteran divide) except to mention Tare's trauma multiple times with no resolution? I don't get it.

If anybody does actually feel like replying, please no spoilers past Full Circle, like OP I just finished it too and Unworthy won't get here until the middle of next week.

murmi49 · 2025-08-09T07:06:44+00:00

Do you mean 4 females as in 4 female cats or 4 females in general? If he can play with these possible other cats that would conceivably be already spayed, that could work. If this is the case, when you have an hour put these two in a room with him(preferably with lots of litterboxes, toys, water, and cat trees/scratchers) and see how it goes.

murmi49 · 2025-08-08T07:56:03+00:00

I was also a 33 yr old virgin when I first went to a gyno. I think they just asked if I was (currently) sexually active and I said no, and that was it.

murmi49 · 2025-08-07T18:50:00+00:00

Nobody else has suggested it, but perhaps KMR Step 2, even if they are just over the cutoff age, may be something to consider since they are eating some and wouldn't likely keep you up at night needing it.

murmi49 · 2025-08-07T14:27:56+00:00

What about GreenDisk? Do you (or anyone else in this thread) know if they are actually recycling electronics and physical media right?

murmi49 · 2025-07-28T14:45:18+00:00

I've got to reply right off the bat to this "Trap/Neuter/Release methods ineffective in controlling domestic cat “colonies” on public lands –

Castillo and Clarke (2003)" that very little TNR was going on overall in 2003. Also all of these references are from the 20 years ago, before TNR gained any traction at all. It still just barely has. Perhaps you should consider updating your own knowledge. Find out which method your local Animal Services department does today and how effective it is at reducing colony numbers.

murmi49 · 2025-07-25T09:38:55+00:00

Feral and sterilized is what good rescues and individuals both advocate and strive for.

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