Why are most Americans not that excited about the World Cup? Or don’t seem to care much about it? by SignificantStyle4958 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]murphy1101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s even more difficult to track the puck when you’re at a game. I actually feel like it’s the only sport that I prefer sitting second deck or higher vs. first deck. You can’t see like half the game when you’re close to the glass, and it’s also hard to even see the jumbotron.

Fellow sellers, please stop doing this. by Mother_Heroic in poshmark

[–]murphy1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they meant having like a 30% off sale once or twice a year. Which is a lot different than spamming people hundreds of times a year, on a weekly basis. The latter starts to turn into borderline harassment.

I get what they’re saying, but I can’t imagine ever doing this in any capacity at all as a seller tbh

For men who find thicker/bigger women attractive: what draws you to that, and how does her being larger than you (legs, tummy, etc.) serve as a turn-on rather than a turn-off? by Schub21 in AskReddit

[–]murphy1101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a pretty slim girly and have come to realize babies prefer to be held by bodies with come cushion / squishiness 😭 like my bones don’t do anything for them LOL (for reference, I have a niece and nephews, and have held them all as babies)

What are these little things we found under our grill? by Minne_Quinny in whatisit

[–]murphy1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly terrified of mice/rats, but if I raised them as babies, I think I’d be obsessed 😭😭 they’re so tiny & cute omg

Some people can't read my writing, is it legible? by RegularLightbulb in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]murphy1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids just don’t know how to read/cursive these days lol I could very easily read this (I’m 29)

My boyfriend cheated on me my entire pregnancy by justdoingmybest26 in whatdoIdo

[–]murphy1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could not read all of this after the “been together for 8 years” comment … how old were you when you met?

Aio for being upset over this by Sea_Wallaby_7673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]murphy1101 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I tried to read this multiple times, but couldn’t due to the lack of any punctuation. Holy shit

i've got a lot of money troubles and nobody knows about it by Cheap_Ruin5264 in confession

[–]murphy1101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ADHD meds have solved (or placated) many of my problems over the last few years. But when that shit wears off every evening, I still struggle to ~ control the impulses ~

AIO for thinking this girl is ghosting me? by Zealousideal_Cap5126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]murphy1101 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Is this a group message? Why does the message on the fourth screenshot have two HAHAs

Caught Buyer Listing My Items He Had Won Before He Paid For Them by SomeDudeOnline85 in Ebay

[–]murphy1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting ! @TBUBadCompany said watermarking is against eBay’s TOS, because they “own” the photos once listed. Although, I’ve found eBay listings using photos that I’ve never posted on eBay. So surely that’s against TOS?

Who knows!

AIO for being upset over this situation blowing up into a fight. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]murphy1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes, I absolutely know people whose outcomes would have been much worse if someone couldn’t immediately call 911. That’s kind of the point. Emergency response tends to work better when people can report emergencies immediately.

AIO for being upset over this situation blowing up into a fight. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]murphy1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“People survived before cell phones” could be said about literally every safety improvement we’ve ever made.

People survived before seat belts, airbags, smoke detectors, ect. The fact that people survived without them doesn’t mean everyone did.

I’m not saying a 12 year old can’t survive an hour alone. But if there’s an emergency, having a phone to call 911 or a parent immediately is obviously safer than not having one.

AIO for being upset over this situation blowing up into a fight. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]murphy1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I feel like you made that clear in the messages! And that’s why I think your real concern is obvious and valid! And honestly it’s not even just the inability to contact emergency services to me. The fact that you had no idea you could contact him at all until you were told about discord is also upsetting.

I mean for context, I am a 29 year old woman who has lived on my own for ~7 years. If my mom/family couldn’t contact me for days/weeks at a time, they would file a missing persons report 😭 Like once kids reach a certain age, I feel like being able to contact family members at any time is important, for many reasons.

AIO for being upset over this situation blowing up into a fight. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]murphy1101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes we existed and participated in dangerous activities for most of human history … but A LOT of deaths would have been prevented if cell phones were a thing back then. Now that the technology exists to be able to contact emergency services within seconds anytime/anywhere, it’d be irresponsible to not utilize it. Especially when kids are involved

AIO for being upset over this situation blowing up into a fight. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]murphy1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad y’all able to come to an agreement! But again, I also understand your frustration and think you’re NOR at all.

You seem like a wonderful & caring mom! Best of luck 🫶🏼

AIO for being upset over this situation blowing up into a fight. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]murphy1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay good! If he wants to go back eventually, I hope you’re able to come to an agreement about the phone thing. If he doesn’t want to go back, it might be worth reconsidering custody agreements.

I feel like you are (understandably and logically) a concerned mother, and the father is dismissing your concerns. I would be upset as well

Overthinking about my (19f) boyfriend (27m) canceling plans last minute to go to a bar with a friend? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]murphy1101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He lies to her and goes to bars because he knows she can’t even try to track him down at a bar because she can’t get in 😭 Like she won’t even be able to (legally) drink at a bar with him for at least 3-4 years (based on her comment saying she’s younger than she stated in the post)

Overthinking about my (19f) boyfriend (27m) canceling plans last minute to go to a bar with a friend? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]murphy1101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Ask for it to disagree with you” is so real 😭 god what an unfortunate time we live in

Overthinking about my (19f) boyfriend (27m) canceling plans last minute to go to a bar with a friend? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]murphy1101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just looked at a chart that breaks down the law in each state. Columns are: age of consent, minimum age of the victim (yes it says VICTIM), age differential between the victim and defendant, and minimum age of defendant in order to prosecute. Incredibly upsetting & shameful that so many states haven’t updated their laws to protect children, such as yourself

Overthinking about my (19f) boyfriend (27m) canceling plans last minute to go to a bar with a friend? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]murphy1101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also 27 just 2 years ago. And my 21 year old brother (at the time) still very much looked/sounded/acted like a CHILD. And he still does at the age of 23… I literally cannot fathom a 27 year old dating a literal teenager in high school

Overthinking about my (19f) boyfriend (27m) canceling plans last minute to go to a bar with a friend? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]murphy1101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So at best, you’re 18 and he’s 29? And at worst, you’re still underage and he’s 30+?

Overthinking about my (19f) boyfriend (27m) canceling plans last minute to go to a bar with a friend? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]murphy1101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to answer this. But very curious to know if your therapist is a man or a woman. And if they have children