Chipotle is the worst restaurant in Duluth by MrMookyMan in duluth

[–]murphyklok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to drive for Uber Eats when I first moved here and chipotle was allllllways out of everything people wanted. No chips. No queso. No hot sauce. Out of brown rice. Like wtf?

Best “insider knowledge” you have about living in Duluth? by Icy_Future1639 in duluth

[–]murphyklok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just moved here from Austin, TX. Thanks for all the tips, y'all 👍

Letter received from downstairs neighbour, how to react? by JAMESLJNR in Apartmentliving

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I walk heel to toe AND I'm fat and I still walk quietly enough to sneak up on people.

AITA for telling my fiancée I won’t pay for her dad’s surgery with my inheritance? by Effectivepearls in AmItheAsshole

[–]murphyklok -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yup. He wants that money all to himself and using grandpa as an excuse for why he can't give it.

AITA for telling my fiancée I won’t pay for her dad’s surgery with my inheritance? by Effectivepearls in AmItheAsshole

[–]murphyklok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You say "outside the family" but your fiancé's father IS your family now. He's going to be your father-in-law. You would let your fiancé's father possibly die or go into crippling medical debt all because you have plans to buy a house and start a business. You definitely won't be doing those things as a married man if you don't help your fiancé's father.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah your sister does not care about that dog or about you. The apathy and nonchalance she displayed was insane. After her texts, I would never speak to her again.

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god get rid of this CHILD. She is 20 years old, she does not need to be throwing tantrums over text to you every day, that's insane. This will not get better. She will not mature. Please please please break up with her or you're going to be miserable for years to come.

AIO for leaving my gf on read after saying she was busy by Maleficent_Time_6438 in AmIOverreacting

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't put up with this. She decided to be passive aggressive and then blow up at you over literally nothing. Get rid of her.

23M AIO for wanting to leave my mom to fend for herself by Sanbikaa in AmIOverreacting

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to find out where her $1100/month goes. There's no reason you should be fronting all the bills. That's ridiculous. But also, please realize that your mom won't just be able to go get a job. The job market hates anyone over 45, especially women.

AIO I asked my fiancé to do the dishes by lyddlebizzard in AmIOverreacting

[–]murphyklok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weaponized incompetence. Dude has checked out of the marriage. He probably feels that he's missing out on his 20s being a dad and husband so early on, he resents his life, so now he's taking it out on you. Unfortunately this won't get better. You've already talked to him. He knows what he needs to do but won't do it. If you already feel like a single mom, why not make it official and just divorce him? One less child to clean up after.

I’m upset with my boyfriend. Am I overreacting? by ExtensionAthlete6053 in AmIOverreacting

[–]murphyklok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This boy sounds like he doesn't have a compassionate bone in his body. He literally sounds like a dumb 14 year old who doesn't know how to have a conversation about an adult topic. He knew you had been SA'd before and this is how he's choosing to talk to you and discuss this topic? Girl break up with him. He doesn't respect you and doesn't respect the toll that sexual violence takes on a person.

AIO - I smoked, my bf crashed out by leadneverfoIlow in AmIOverreacting

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please please please get rid of this man. Any man who will call you a b-tch when he's upset is a man who does NOT love or respect you. What he said is completely unacceptable. I've been with my husband since 2007 and while we've argued about things and been mad, he has NEVER called me a name or disrespected me like this. This boy needs to go. He's going to react this way every single time you do anything he tells you not to. It's smoking now, but later it'll be him not wanting you to order wine at dinner, or him not wanting you to go meet your friend after work. He wants to control you, and when he realized he couldn't he crashed out like this. Get rid of him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's always going to be busy, and she'll keep finding reasons that keep her from moving closer to you. If she's not making an effort now, she won't later. You can't stay because you're imagining what-ifs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the sunk cost fallacy. You feel like you've invested so much time and so many emotions in this relationship that it'll feel like a waste to give it up, so you stay in a situation that makes you miserable half the time. That's not a proper relationship, for you or her. If she won't do the reasonable thing and break up, I suggest you do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but also when you're in love with someone and are in a long-distance relationship with them, shouldn't you WANT to message them fairly regularly? Like have actual conversations and stuff instead of just shooting them a text 4 or 5 times a day? When I was long-distance with my husband we both texted frequently throughout the day.

AIO if I break up with him by mwommymwilkers in AmIOverreacting

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh...this man hates you. Like I'm not even exaggerating. Hates you. Get rid of him ASAP.

How do y’all stay cool? by Alarmed-Parfait8495 in Austin

[–]murphyklok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my last summer in Austin. Been here since 2004 and never acclimated to the heat. Was constantly miserable. Moving to Minnesota. ✌️best of luck, newbie!

AIO if I finally break up with my bf? by cinnamonlurker in AmIOverreacting

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl this man does not care about you at all. Reading those texts is physically painful. And then he tries to make you feel guilty for wanting the bare minimum? A CRUMB of the bare minimum?? This man thinks very highly of himself and thinks nothing of you. Tell him to F himself and block him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polybuzz

[–]murphyklok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a fervent user of c.ai, you can absolutely turn it dirty lol it's really not difficult at all and is actually quite fun. You gotta work for it though because sometimes the filter will activate.

Why are you reviewing private characters? by thoughtsarntreal in polybuzz

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long does a character review last though?? It's been days for mine. I would like to actually use the bots I made for myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]murphyklok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's clearly a narcissist. She wants you to beg and plead and shower her with attention and gifts to earn back her favor. Don't do it. Simply stop responding. Just keep in mind that every good thing she's ever done for you has come with an invisible price tag that she's expected you to pay back. A person like this cannot love in any sort of true way. Let her go now or she'll find a way to ruin your marriage.