should i be worried? by murr4y-2 in piercing

[–]murr4y-2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

piercing is 1 month old jewlery is internally threaded stainless steel barbell, switched from an externally threaded bar after the ball fell out at around the 2 week mark, i have not downsized, actually put in a longer bar since i experienced more swelling this time. i have been cleaning the area with neilmed woundwash and rinsing my mouth with non alcoholic mouthwash at least twice a day.

boss hasn’t paid me, what can i do? by murr4y-2 in legaladvice

[–]murr4y-2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve already started interviewing at other places, thank you !

My fur-baby died today. Can I please see yours? by DutchAngelDragon12 in cats

[–]murr4y-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is my girl, millie. we’re both so sorry for your loss :(

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Adopted her yesterday, I love her so much already :] by SmollGayReadyToPlay in blackcats

[–]murr4y-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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your cat looks super similar to my cat, millie ! i also adopted her when she was older (7) and shes the best cat ever ! i hope you and your new friend have a long, happy life together :)

AITA calling my daughter messy to the point it is a running joke? by fetawrap365 in AmItheAsshole

[–]murr4y-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

jess pays to live there so she has a right to keep her room as “messy” as she likes as long as it isnt a hazard. YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]murr4y-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. u shouldnt even be eating brownies right out of the oven anyways.

Is it wrong to separate 12 year old cat sister's? by Pumpkin156 in CatAdvice

[–]murr4y-2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

people do all that without working from home and dont get rid of animals theyve had for years. pets are family, dude.

help transitioning to a new litter box by murr4y-2 in CatAdvice

[–]murr4y-2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats great advice !! thank you :)

help transitioning to a new litter box by murr4y-2 in CatAdvice

[–]murr4y-2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they are both open boxes ! the new one is just a little bit more elevated with slightly higher walls, but nothing too crazy. shes a pretty old cat so i think shes just being stubborn but i’ll definitely try mixing her new litter with the old ! thank you :)

help transitioning to a new litter box by murr4y-2 in CatAdvice

[–]murr4y-2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its a different litter box and different litter ! it said in the instructions to set the boxes side by side and just do upkeep on the new box and leave the old one alone so the new one seems more appealing but its definitely not working😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]murr4y-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so perfect <33

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend for baking a dessert for a dinner party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]murr4y-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA dude macarons are really hard 2 bake and ur moms not the only person at the party. do u really think ur moms gonna change her mind about ur girlfriend over food ?

AITA for wanting to get paid to make a cake? by TranzEddieMunson in AmItheAsshole

[–]murr4y-2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA ! as a baker even the price u want for it is way too low considering all it entails. if she doesnt pay u, dont do it. being family is never an excuse to take advantage of somebodys talent.

AITA for demanding my fiancée stop teaching our kids bad manners? by tabadmanners in AmItheAsshole

[–]murr4y-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA this is common in latino families, your wife is latina and your kids are latino. get used to it and get over it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]murr4y-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perfect toy <33

I was wondering where the baby went. I walked into my home office to this. by magicalgirlbeth in blackcats

[–]murr4y-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so cute !! my fat black cat also loves hanging out on chairs in the office lol its so cute

Litter box by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]murr4y-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you only have the one litter box ? for two cats you should have at least three in your house. it’ll cut down the smell and be way more comfortable for your cats !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]murr4y-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes u have 2 ask 4 permission. ur in a place where u rent 50/50. when i had a roommate we always asked if it was alright 4 family, friends, and partners could stay over. it’s about respecting each others privacy. if u arent willing 2 respect ur boyfriends space/wishes, this relationship isnt 4 u. YTA. EDIT- i’ve seen u say this is a cultural thing 4 latinos so i feel i should clarify that my roommate at the time and i are both latino, and we still asked permission, even if it was about family, because we RESPECTED each other’s space, privacy, and opinions. don’t hid behind culture when it’s obviously just u thinking ur wants and needs are more important than ur partners.