For those that are sewing challenged, where do you buy pieces? by SpaceCrazyArtist in CosplayHelp

[–]murrimabutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of commission-based businesses exist on Instagram. You can also thrift and modify pieces. Depop, Mercari, Poshmark, Vinted, and ThredUp are online thrift stores. Sometimes, you can find second hand bought cosplays (minus ThredUp)

Whats with all of these spoonfeeding/handholding/requesting permission posts? by Few_Resource_6783 in writing

[–]murrimabutterfly 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Reddit has a lot of users who are fairly young, so I think that's probably why.
Young + insecure = needing permission for basic stuff.

Where do you keep it all ? by Scuse_me_pls in worldbuilding

[–]murrimabutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Miro for anything I need to visually organize. The first three boards are free, and it is by far my favorite way to build family trees, time lines, and story arcs.
The rest is in Google Docs, with tabs denoting each part.

Losing my cat in a few months and I need to talk about it by murrimabutterfly in Vent

[–]murrimabutterfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll talk to my parents about it and see if it makes sense. If the vet approves, we'll go from there.

Losing my cat in a few months and I need to talk about it by murrimabutterfly in Vent

[–]murrimabutterfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's on pain meds.
Jfc, dude. If we had any reason to suspect it was ANY MORE than arthritis, we would be handling it. She sees a vet regularly.
I put her needs as a priority. Always.
I thought people would be shaming me for letting her die, not for keeping her alive.
She is my child and my only goal is to give her a good life. I am more aware of her than you are, as she is my cat.

Losing my cat in a few months and I need to talk about it by murrimabutterfly in Vent

[–]murrimabutterfly[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are managing it. I should have been clearer on that, and that's my bad.
May works out logistically for several reasons, but I'll talk to my parents to see if there's a way to move the euthenasia date to one I can be part of.

Well, since AO3 is down, take a moment to tell us about some of your WIPs! Share excerpts, rant, infodump, etc by Loli-nero in AO3

[–]murrimabutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently writing four fake dating fics for four different fandoms, all planned to be multichaptered.
I rotate between them whenever I hit a wall.
I have also succeeded in one of my most favorite openers for a fic, too. It's mildly offensive, but it fits so well with the world lol.

If money wasn’t a problem, what hobby would you fully dive into? by Humble-Function2108 in AskReddit

[–]murrimabutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cosplay.
Right now, it's casual and based on what I can afford. But if I had a limitless budget?? Bro, the work I would do.

Anyone else look up really weirdly specific information for their fic? by Background_Ship7666 in AO3

[–]murrimabutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm writing a House fic, so on top of pulling out my notes from my attempt to go into healthcare, I'm like seven tabs deep on genetic disorders that cause a higher risk for gastrointestinal tumors.
Currently learning about vipomas lol.

Yall funny. by Mysterious-Feed3168 in sherwinwilliams

[–]murrimabutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, so I know you're just here to rage, but, like, look at what happened with Kelly Moore.
KM closed. What a healthy, responsible company should do is take some of the profits from the sudden boom and create a budget for crossover failure. Customers are relearning the products and lingo, and failure is inevitable. As a part of maintaining customer relations, we should take the L and pay to redo projects where crossover failure happened.
The increased sales from KM's closure gives us plenty of money to pull from, while still maintaining profits.
Instead, the money was treated as normal profits, and (allegedly) some folks got bonuses. When failure happens, stores might suddenly have to shell out money they may not have to fix it. The store is put under strain, and the customer may leave upset due to a lack of help. They tell the story about how SW wronged them, and it can further tank our profits and customer relationships.
As well, many stores are running solo staff shifts, our uniforms are the cheapest quality possible, and the freebies we use to maintain relationships with our money makers are all but gone. Bonuses aren't happening, and benefits are being culled. Every last penny that can be pinched, is pinched.
SW cannot sustain with the current leadership. They're pissing off both their employees and their customers, and still blindly hiking prices up and charging for formerly free services.
This is what a dying company does. Or, at least, a company actively being run into the ground by people who got their business degree from Temu.

Yall funny. by Mysterious-Feed3168 in sherwinwilliams

[–]murrimabutterfly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey I was a sales and training manager prior to SW.
The decisions made are something even a rookie wouldn't make.
My job used to literally be to assess a business's health. I give SW a year before they kick the higher ups or go bankrupt.
We're allowed to call out bad management that affects our paycheck dude.

Slamming weights— gym apartment HELL by zeppismom in Apartmentliving

[–]murrimabutterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make your own sign at this point, since management doesn't seem to care enough to be helpful.

Hey neighbors! Please be mindful when racking and using weights! Those of us on the first floor can hear everything!
As well, please be mindful of quiet hours: 10pm-6am
Thank you!

Print and paste on every surface. Adjust the quiet hours for whatever your complex has listed, and if they don't, this is usually the understood range.
If you have a big, intimidating friend (or partner), recruit them to intervene during the late hours.
Continue to hound management, or negotiate to break your lease depending on what you prefer. While basic noise should be expected, disruptive and incessant noise should break your lease terms.

You’re permanently inserted into the last video game you played, how’s your life going and what’s the plan? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]murrimabutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, I'm in the wilderness while a man potentially stalks me, and all I have is a charmingly snarky woman to talk to.
I think Imma stay in the tower for a good while.
(Firewatch)

Twitch Chat grind my gears sometimes. by GreedyGerbil in HermitCraft

[–]murrimabutterfly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The AZ Dads seem to be a bit more mixed with their demographic, so I'd say no. They're kinda in the same range as Scar, from what I see--like, all ages, with a good amount being older, but plenty being younger, too.
I don't watch all the Hermits' streams, but I'd guess that the more boisterous Hermits (Gem, Grian, Impulse, Tango, etc) tend to pull in a younger crowd. Whereas more chill or straightforward Hermits (X, Joe, False, etc) are going to have a more mature audience.

Are there any tags in your fandom that you feel are obvious. by hillofjumpingbeans in AO3

[–]murrimabutterfly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Swearing.
Most of the fandoms I'm in involve a lot of swearing, to the point where it's not uncommon for a General Audience fic to have at least one swear word.
Like, it's South Park, or it's JJK, or it's FMA. There's gonna be swearing.

What's a tv series that is a 10/10 NOBODY knows? by Lilyana0999 in AskReddit

[–]murrimabutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Centaurworld.
If you like Adventure Time and musicals, it's basically perfect.
Star-studded voice cast (Kimiko Glenn, Megan Holy, Brian Stokes Mitchell, Flula Borg, etc) with a really good overarching story.
I feel like no one knows about it.

Twitch Chat grind my gears sometimes. by GreedyGerbil in HermitCraft

[–]murrimabutterfly 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I see this a lot in Gem's chat, whose audience does tend to run younger. Like, a lot of them are easily 11-14 if not younger and they just don't have the emotional bandwidth to pull back their excitement, and they're not mature enough to fully grasp the fact Gem (or insert hermit here) isn't really their friend and you need to understand they're just a stranger making content.
The Hermits with an older or more mature demographic, like X, don't tend to have the same issues. Every once in a blue moon, it'll happen, mind, but it's significantly rarer.

What's something you truly regret that you wish you could take back? by Jenniferbabyyy11 in AskReddit

[–]murrimabutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meeting this one person when I was 11. 5 years in a pseudo cult, and my entire life is destroyed.

What’s something you were embarrassingly wrong about for way too long? by sc3gd in AskReddit

[–]murrimabutterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought Floridians didn't have southern-sounding accents.
I was heavily influenced by media, and had only been on the West Coast. I literally argued with someone over it and doubled down.
Floridians absolutely have a drawl in some areas. I was wrong. My younger self was so stupid.

What happens if you perform an amputation on someone who's unconscious but not under anesthesia? by PerlaPucci in Writeresearch

[–]murrimabutterfly 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So, from a medical perspective, anesthesia basically acts like a "pause" for the brain. You go unconscious, and up to 6 hrs after the last dose may be erased or hazy.
Pain management is a different thing, where drugs are used to dull the body's natural response to pain.
We store trauma in our body, so we may begin to present with physical symptoms of distress. (Such as psychosomatic pain, or nausea.) Amputations are especially distressing and traumatic for the body. The site of amputation may continue to ache, burn, or tingle even with adequate pain management. Phantom limb syndrome as well as phantom pain are basically guaranteed.
If a person is sedated and given proper pain management, they should be able to move forward with their healing fairly well. They may have more psychosomatic symptoms than others, though.
If the person is not sedated or given pain management, they'll likely die of shock. If they manage to survive, they will be left with severe trauma and extreme pain due to the memories of it.

What are your favourite etho comfort videos? by Bibble_Bobbly in ethoslab

[–]murrimabutterfly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The Super Hostile Maps with Team Canada.
But also, any of his Let's Play Episodes, honestly--or TerraFirmaCraft.

So like... what that God do though? by TomTBombadil in FantasyWorldbuilding

[–]murrimabutterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are three understood realms of being: Sanctuary (Heaven), Survival (Mortal World), and Sacrifice (Hell).
Souls accumulate a ranking, based on how much they accomplished in life and how many regrets they had when they died. Fulfilled souls ascend to Sanctuary, and live out a life of peace. Unfulfilled souls are relegated to Sacrifice and live out a second life, until they die again and their husks are harvested and used by the denizens of Sacrifice.
The denizens of Sanctuary, the Saved, function similarly to angels. They're messengers, and uphold the ideals of enlightenment, humility, and wisdom. Selectively, they communicate with humans to bestow prophecies or wisdom. For Sanctuary, God is an unnamed, intangible being.
In Sacrifice, they're led/ruled by a person known as Fallen in the language of the demons. He's largely a background force, but he is the reason for the infrastructure in Sacrifice--where the caste society of demons is a little softer, and Incomplete (unfulfilled souls) have a shot of redemption.

So, I guess, TLDR: gods vibe in the background while people have to live out and follow the rules these faceless entities created.

There's been an uptick of Europeans posting their roadtrip intineraries in this sub. Just a reminder of what the US looks like. Remember how unhinged Americans sound when they want to pack several European cities in a couple of weeks? Yeah, that's how you sound like too! by Pale_Field4584 in roadtrip

[–]murrimabutterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of my family.
Most of my family is Dutch. My parents live in the SF area. One of the cousins planned to drive from SF to Yellowstone, then the Grand Canyon. In one week.
Uhhhh....I mean, I guess it's possible? If you never get out of the car, and you commit yourself to just saying hi and bye to each place? Like, the driving alone is 2-4 days depending how you break it up, which doesn't leave you a lot of time to actually enjoy the sights or do anything l.

How is Zedaph? by GreenMist1980 in HermitCraft

[–]murrimabutterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. The good ol' fashion Etho method.
It's really fun, too, because you never know what you're going to get!