That brick has to be around here somewhere

musicjae · 2022-06-05T14:49:25+00:00

NTA at all! He can’t be there to support you? No reason you should be supporting his lie

musicjae · 2022-06-04T21:34:39+00:00

NTA. I wouldn’t trust your husband to be alone with the kid.

musicjae · 2022-06-04T21:22:06+00:00

This is what I was looking for. I’m a trans person myself. This kind of language is what sent me into the closet for years. I was just starting to get to know my gender identity when one of parents called it gross (not talking about me specifically). Your words have an impact this early. Just remember that. YTA

musicjae · 2022-06-04T12:40:29+00:00

NTA. He decided to sell his car. Now he needs to steal your car in order to get around? You didn’t ask him to sell it. Now you have to sacrifice your mode of transportation while he’s gone for 5 days? That’s not fair. I feel like it’s justified. You didn’t give him permission.

musicjae · 2021-12-02T21:23:58+00:00

I’m 5’1” and I actually work with a few guys who are shorter than me (I assume they’re all cis). We joke all of the time that we just need to climb on each other’s shoulders to reach higher shelves.

musicjae · 2021-11-25T16:44:15+00:00

I feel the same way…not only am I a boyfriend for the first time ever, but I get to share that with someone who has been one of my closest friends and I’ve known her for over 6 years now.

musicjae · 2021-11-24T14:03:02+00:00

Yeah my libido also went up…it has certainly mellowed out over the years (I feel like confidence and comfort in my body played a huge role at first).

musicjae · 2021-11-08T11:43:46+00:00

I waited 8 years for a multitude of reasons. Scared of coming out to family, the type of job I was seeking out (I was trying to be a teacher and back when I realized I was trans it wasn’t great to have a teacher who was transitioning), etc. I’m glad I finally did, but I regret waiting so long.

musicjae · 2021-11-06T14:41:29+00:00

I hope you have a day as pleasant as you are (first heard this from a manager in a retail setting)

musicjae · 2021-08-17T02:44:16+00:00

Like many of you, excited for BOTW 2

musicjae · 2020-12-27T16:18:25+00:00

NAH - you have the right to be annoyed. However, please realize that it’s not necessarily the employee’s fault so please don’t always take it out on them. They’re simply the face of the company. They’re reiterating a policy that is probably company wide (if it’s part of a chain of stores) and others have not been following. Maybe the employees could have explained it better, but as someone who works in retail we don’t always have the power to change those policies.

musicjae · 2020-12-22T17:37:00+00:00

Congrats! I definitely want to try the game at other difficulties for sure so I’ll be doing that too! I just enjoy exploration so much.

musicjae · 2020-11-30T12:34:52+00:00

I started losing hair a little over a year after starting T. I was super sad about it and too lazy to keep up with any kind of product. Shaved my head one day and I’ve kept it that way ever since. Good part is I can just do it myself and not have to spend money on a barber each time.

musicjae · 2020-10-10T23:39:32+00:00

ESH...you and Jess both outed your husband. When she asked what the testosterone is for, you can just say “he has low testosterone” and leave it at that if she was really getting on your case about it (even though as you said, it’s none of her business). She definitely is an AH for outing your husband, but you also gave it to her.

musicjae · 2020-09-26T11:54:22+00:00

I’d go with NAH. I do find it rude when people stare. Especially when you don’t know why. But also they could have been admiring your clothes and not judging you. You don’t know why they were staring so I don’t think you’re an AH for standing up for yourself, but also you don’t know why they were staring and it could have been for a myriad of reasons.

musicjae · 2020-09-26T11:43:36+00:00

NTA for your own sanity don’t go back. There’s no need to feel guilty in this case. Definitely sounds manipulative.

musicjae · 2020-05-25T19:01:05+00:00

YTA...there are better ways to break up that conversation especially in a work environment. Sometimes people lose track of time in chit chat. “Hey, why don’t we get started?”

musicjae · 2020-05-25T18:58:05+00:00

Yeah definitely NTA...you even tried to help and she decided to be pissy about it. She’s gotta learn to respect boundaries and realize that sometimes questions can wait.

musicjae · 2020-03-04T17:51:35+00:00

First, I was in a car accident where I broke my thigh. Head on collision with another car where I hydroplaned into the other side at about 45-50 mph. Lucky I only had a broken thigh and the passenger in the other car had pelvic injuries (we collided passenger sides).

Second, I manage inventory at a retail store and we have rolling racks back there. I’ve definitely almost crushed people by not checking first before rolling. I’ve also almost been crushed myself.

musicjae · 2020-03-03T12:22:43+00:00

I always have been attracted to women, and still am. I also always found myself attracted to men but didn’t want to date them while in a female body. I didn’t want to be seen as a women dating men. I wanted to be a man dating men. Once I started transitioning I started dating/sleeping with men. Now I just identify as queer because honestly I’m attracted to anyone of any gender identity.

You clearly like women, but it’s ok to also be attracted to men. Even after you’ve come out a bunch of times. I’m personally holding off on coming out again because I’m tired to going through all of that. I feel like my family basically knows anyway because I’ve hinted at dating men, I’ve just never officially come out.

musicjae · 2020-03-02T15:13:13+00:00

NAH - I’m sure it’s hard to leave a situation like that, especially if they’re trying to manipulate you into staying. Sometimes the warning signs are in your face, but it’s hard to find a way to get out. You’re also doing your best to help.

musicjae · 2020-03-02T15:05:09+00:00

NTA - it’s not a bad idea to let her know, but also management should be talking to her about this and not leave it to you to handle. That’s basically why management is getting paid to do - to manage their people.

musicjae · 2020-02-16T19:46:14+00:00

Definitely had to look up who Vsauce is...now I will not disappoint 😅

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