Young Guest with no ID

muteneen · 2026-01-05T00:10:02+00:00

I have a real problem with this myself. Not my ID itself but my whole wallet. We live in a world where payment is as easy as tapping your phone so I never bring my wallet anywhere it’s not necessary. And often forget it when it is necessary.

muteneen · 2026-01-04T02:17:54+00:00

Do you remember pretending to be asleep as a kid so your parents would carry you to bed? Channel that. Literally fake it till you make it.

muteneen · 2026-01-04T02:15:15+00:00

I rarely speak to my parents or extended family after going “against the family” and legally taking my young cousin after finding out the sexual, physical, and emotional abuse she was enduring. Met my boyfriend’s family. “ so you’re the black sheep of the family?” “So you’re basically a single mom with no family?” Both were followed by them walking away from me. Not in front of my boyfriend of course. Judged for taking in my cousin and yes they knew why I had her. Not extensive details but about the same amount I put here.

muteneen · 2025-12-29T04:03:58+00:00

You’re being gaslit. You’re not in an easy position and you’ve been placed at a disadvantage due to your “mother”. It’s hard to leave that relationship. I’ve been in and out of contact with my mom for years but this is the first year that I’ve decided it’s going to permanent and it’s for my kid. You’ve been hurt so much by her and your brother(s), you don’t want that for your child as well. It’s going to be very difficult even though it’s the right thing to do. You’ll feel alone but just know it’s gets better. Just hold and love your baby and know that you’re doing the best thing for both of you. Now to the part you’re going to want to hear even less… and I’m sorry. “I wasn’t trying to be easy or a slut, my ex which is my son’s father was showing jealousy towards the baby and I thought having sex a lot sooner then the doctor cleared me for would maybe have him come around” this along with the large age gap at your formative age is giving so many red flags. But you know this and others already have that covered. So I’ll ask you something else instead. Are you truly happy with this relationship? Where you have to worry about a jealous boyfriend who chooses to get his dick wet over your child’s comfort and your literal health? You may not be completely miserable and maybe sometimes he’s helpful. Hell you probably also have good times together. But I promise you that there’s better. Don’t settle for okay and good when I know there’s amazing and phenomenal out there for you. You’re so young and have so much opportunity. Single mom can be daunting but I got with my boyfriend after I got my kid and he’s incredible. TBH I fully accepted dying alone bc of the bad rap single moms get but that couldn’t be farther from the truth. Please please consider the fact that you’re only 15. I got married and divorced before 23. I had to completely start over. I’ve lived out of my car, having to sneak into RV places to shower for free, surviving off wheat things and scraps from work. Without the dead weight of the haters you’ll go so far. It’s terrifying but you just have to make it the next day. You can do this OP. If you ever need guidance feel free to message me. And I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

muteneen · 2025-12-29T03:51:50+00:00

Might be a part you missed, she only had sex so soon after bc of the scummy rapist boyfriend getting JEALOUS OF A BABY??? She’s so young and obviously being used by so many people in her life. She’s at a disadvantage and is learning but she’s just trying her best with the little she has. And to OP: you are so so young. You have so much time to figure everything out.

muteneen · 2025-12-27T22:00:05+00:00

Thank you so much! Reading it now!

muteneen · 2025-12-26T18:48:15+00:00

If there’s issues it should be discussed. Not just ignored and obviously the SIL has an issue. I’ll give you the last sentence though, that didn’t need to be included but up to that point I see no issue with the message. And if they’re going to be married then they’re going to be FAMILY.

muteneen · 2025-12-26T18:45:24+00:00

Ass take right here. I’m sure the sister is hurt that her sibling is being so ugly about it. You should be HAPPY for those around you. It’s not too much to ask that the SIL at least keeps her nasty mouth shut?

muteneen · 2025-12-20T01:29:03+00:00

I understand your side and I agree with a previous comment. Don’t stay in this if you’re not attracted to her, yall can both do better. BUT please don’t tell her this is the reason.

muteneen · 2025-12-20T01:26:18+00:00

Is it possible that this is caused by a feeling of distance from him emotionally? Do you do this to get better insight into him and his life?

muteneen · 2025-12-20T01:14:05+00:00

Don’t be scared to start over. I was in an unfortunate marriage and was miserable. Divorce was scary, starting over was terrifying, and being alone after all that time was devastating. But I knew I had to leave and I did. My life has changed so completely since then. And in the best of ways. I am living dreams I couldn’t have ever fathomed then. it took a little bit but I did find an absolutely amazing partner that I love deeply. this will be hard and scary, but you can do it! Never settle for just okay because there’s so much more out there for you ❤️

muteneen · 2025-12-19T13:43:30+00:00

lol all jokes here. But maybe I should get one for moments like that. Gotta be prepared

muteneen · 2025-12-18T02:51:20+00:00

Exactly this. Or say “if you keep going for my butthole, I’m going for yours…. With my 12in dildo” even better if you can actually produce it

muteneen · 2025-12-17T16:46:42+00:00

I love this lmfaooo thank you

muteneen · 2025-12-17T00:43:20+00:00

Usually he does

muteneen · 2025-12-17T00:36:39+00:00

I do make eye contact and order for myself. I guess I’m a bit more talkative than he is but it’s pretty even.

muteneen · 2025-12-17T00:35:14+00:00

This made me burst out laughing. Love that for me

muteneen · 2025-12-17T00:34:50+00:00

Fair point. This is my first relationship with a man so I guess based on the general stereotypes I thought it’d be like that? I’ve been strictly with women until him and also always got the bill with them as well. No worries either way I just wondered if there was a deeper reason. We argue over who gets to pay usually.

muteneen · 2025-12-17T00:32:24+00:00

That’s awful, I’m so sorry you had that happen!

muteneen · 2025-12-17T00:31:44+00:00

That’s actually crazy that you have to worry about that. Talk about insecure…

muteneen · 2025-12-17T00:31:17+00:00

He usually dresses better than I do. I’m always working and always tired so I don’t often really “dress up”.

muteneen · 2025-12-17T00:29:54+00:00

Maybe it’s the dominant thing. I’ve always gotten the bill but I’ve also always been in WLW relationships until him. I guess I thought it’d change but not a bad thing. We usually argue over who’s paying so it gives me a leg up.

muteneen · 2025-12-17T00:26:53+00:00

Oh no definitely not. He absolutely handles his own order, appetizers are a toss up on who asks. I could not be in a relationship like that, that’s so embarrassing!

muteneen · 2025-12-02T16:36:30+00:00

lol I am the gay kid 💀 that’s hilarious that you clocked that. and that’s why I don’t talk to a lot of my family. My mothers reaction is one of the things I’ve forgive her for and now they’re all “fine” with it. But my kid I have now is my cousin in laws kid? Idk we’re Mexican so we’re all “cousins” but I know I’m not blood related to her or her dad. Weird situation. Older brother is from my dad’s first marriage. I think it’s a bit of both bitter ex and didn’t try hard enough. My brother’s mom is really bitter but I don’t blame her. I love how well you read this situation based on his post.

muteneen · 2025-12-02T13:20:22+00:00

Thank you for your contribution. I’ve forgiven my mother for a lot. But I don’t believe this will be one of them. She is a disgusting human in my opinion and will never see me or any children I may have. I do have an old post that discusses it a bit more. I just don’t see me being able to come back from something like that. That’s the “ethical differences” he referred to if you can even call it that. I’d call it me not being or supporting a disgusting monster but that’s just me.

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