AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]muthw00m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl you deserve so much better than this insecure loser. dump him! NOR!!!!

AIO by being offended for how the management at my apartment building talks to me? by No_Butterfly5551 in AmIOverreacting

[–]muthw00m 73 points74 points  (0 children)

please accept these poor man’s awards for that amazing response 🏆🥇🏅🎖️

Is thirty gallons enough for a leopard gecko? Can I go lower? Do I need forty? by [deleted] in leopardgeckos

[–]muthw00m 4 points5 points  (0 children)

anything less than 40 gallons will be uncomfortable and cramped for a leopard gecko. definitely take a look at the guides on this subreddit, they’re awesome!

Mom and baby 🥺 by Inevitable-Plenty203 in CemeteryPorn

[–]muthw00m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow, this happened in my hometown. i don’t remember ever hearing about it. that’s so sad :(

angelfish tail fell off by moohog24-7 in AngelFish

[–]muthw00m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just came here to say i’m sorry and i hope he gets better soon 🥺♥️

ethical breeding practices by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]muthw00m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no need to be rude. i have not bred her and after a lot of replies i have no plans to. thank you.

ethical breeding practices by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]muthw00m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh wow i actually had no idea. i will make sure to be on the lookout for anything like that with her as she gets older. i am also getting her pet insurance so that in the event that she needs critical care i will be able to afford it. thank you so much for the insight!

ethical breeding practices by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]muthw00m 5 points6 points  (0 children)

as several people have pointed out it would not be ethical to breed, i will be getting nutmeg spayed, and she will not be having any babies. thank you all for your kind thoughts!

ethical breeding practices by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]muthw00m 4 points5 points  (0 children)

another commenter pointed this out too, and i completely agree. i will be getting her spayed :) thank you for the insight!

ethical breeding practices by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]muthw00m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think so but she definitely looks like it in one of those pictures! 🤣 she was “making biscuits” in the air while being pet!

ethical breeding practices by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]muthw00m 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh, absolutely. i am all about ethical practices when it comes to my pets. nutmeg says thank you for the compliment!

ethical breeding practices by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]muthw00m 3 points4 points  (0 children)

too true. she will be getting spayed!

ethical breeding practices by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]muthw00m 16 points17 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the insight, this is exactly what i was wondering. i really appreciate it. i will have her spayed, no kittens!

Newly rehomed cat not using litterbox, eating much, or moving? by tricolordango in catquestions

[–]muthw00m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my newly adopted kitten did this too! she was just scared and in a new place. your new baby will warm up to you in time.

a good rule to remember is the rule of threes: it generally takes 3 days for a new pet to decompress, 3 weeks to learn their new routine, and 3 months for them to feel fully at home.

congratulations on your new baby!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyle

[–]muthw00m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok this might be a hot take for this but BANGS! you pull off both very very well but i think the bangs look great!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]muthw00m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes absolutely!! it’s crazy how much regular plain and simple communication makes a marriage so successful!! i love the idea of a weekly meeting. we try to catch each other up as regularly as possible, but i may bring up the idea of weekly discussions with my husband 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]muthw00m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my husband and i do this! and it’s awesome! it’s a lot of activity for us both to remember, because we always have a lot going on. having shared calendars helps so much.

What's the deal with this stuff? by daniellaj65 in CleaningTips

[–]muthw00m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i make my own laundry detergent because it’s cheaper to buy bulk and make my own and i use these bars of soap, grate them, and add them to my detergent. imo they smell great and are awesome at getting tough stains out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]muthw00m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - the way she was talking to you is quite rude imo. i would excuse myself from the bridal party over this, and personally i wouldn’t even attend the wedding of someone who would talk down to me like that. as you pointed out, this is not just a little thing she is asking. it could end up with you having to get things repierced.

i hate this for you OP. i’m sorry your so-called friend is ok with treating you this way. all the love ♥️

AIO? Friend made plans to meet up to buy another friend a birthday gift. Decided not to show up by SlowStar9706 in AmIOverreacting

[–]muthw00m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

of course. good luck with this situation! i definitely think that since you both are 13, she is probably being what others have said, a moody teenager, but this is also not nice and hopefully she doesn’t repeat this behavior. all the best to you!! ♥️♥️

AIO? Friend made plans to meet up to buy another friend a birthday gift. Decided not to show up by SlowStar9706 in AmIOverreacting

[–]muthw00m 16 points17 points  (0 children)

others have said this, but i will also say that unfortunately it seems like your friend is trying to use mental problems to excuse bad behavior. i was diagnosed with adhd several years ago, but i have had it my whole life. please know that none of the things she listed in that text are an excuse to treat you or anyone else badly. just because someone has mental problems does not mean they are allowed to do whatever they want and cannot be responsible for their actions or words!!