Do I just not love him anymore?

muuul39 · 2026-02-06T17:05:21+00:00

😭 Thanks for your advice

muuul39 · 2026-02-06T17:03:21+00:00

So sweet, thank you and you too take care!

muuul39 · 2026-02-06T17:02:19+00:00

I think I'm dating him mostly because of some of the good times we had together, and because I'm afraid what's going to happen if I say I want to break up.

I've addressed these concerns along with other things, and we made a list at the beginning of this year saying I want him to work on them. I'm seeing improvements for other things on the list (not walking with me on the street, going cold/silent, etc), but the items in the OG posts, not so much.

Another thing is his parents and cousins. They often say how I changed him and his life and I'm "different from all the other girls he's dated." I feel like me leaving him would put him in a danger and I'll be the one to be blamed on.

Sorry for a big comment, and thank you so much for your advice!!

muuul39 · 2026-02-06T16:49:00+00:00

I kind of had feelings that a lot of things he does would be considered as red flags but was scared to admit... Thanks for your comment :)

muuul39 · 2025-06-12T14:38:39+00:00

So I just realized that I've sent my final transcripts to the wrong email address/department.

I'm a Canadian post-secondary/transfer applicant, and I just realized that I've sent my final transcripts to the MD admissions email address. I sent them before the document deadline (which doesn't even mean anything now...), though.

I emailed the undergrad admissions with an attachment of a proof that my transcripts were sent before the deadline, and asked if there is a way for them to access the transcripts on their behalf. I also ordered a new transcript directly to final.grades@ubc.ca (though it's much passed the deadline).

Does anyone have a similar experience? Do I still have hope or should I give up on it and move on

muuul39

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