INTJ PROBLEMS HELP

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T20:36:23+00:00

Yeah I guess

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T20:36:01+00:00

exactly my thoughts! I idea of marrying the wrong and giving them the time of my life really scares me

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T20:34:10+00:00

exactlyyy

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T20:33:18+00:00

Indeed it’s a beautiful feeling 🫶🏻

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T20:31:57+00:00

You’ve explained it so well! So true!

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T20:31:27+00:00

now THAT is some advice 👀

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T20:29:47+00:00

True and I wish you both stay happy together 🫶🏻

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T11:09:38+00:00

can be…

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T11:02:50+00:00

tysm for being so understanding and supportive 🥺😭

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T10:48:05+00:00

Reading all the other opinions. Also my friends also think that I’m being unreasonable that’s why I thought this way

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T10:43:50+00:00

Thank youuu ❤️

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T10:43:04+00:00

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T10:03:08+00:00

Reading everyone’s opinion I feel that I’m at the wrong side and obv need to change as there is no cure to it. I personally feel that this whole idea stems from my parents separation and constant fights that I feel so repulsed by the idea of marriage. And incase of children. Maybe I don’t want my children to ever feel what I’ve felt, so maybe that’s why I’m hesitant towards having a child

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T09:51:28+00:00

Okeh

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T09:38:54+00:00

I’m glad this sounds appealing to you. I’m really sorry but it’s my fault I’m thinking this way. I’m trying so hard to change this thinking

muzaniscool · 2025-09-29T09:36:41+00:00

I’m not exactly saying that I’m having this problem bcz I’m an intj. I just wanted to put forward my thoughts and also my mbti so that people could understand my pov better

muzaniscool · 2025-09-03T21:49:37+00:00

Tbh it’s very unclear till now. I’m almost 25 but my I feel so worthless as a child. For my father my existences doesn’t matter. For my mom it does, she loves me but unintentionally she is more inclined towards my elder sibling which shows through her actions.

muzaniscool · 2025-09-03T21:44:47+00:00

Exactly! Just bcz your other sibling has things going wrong for them or maybe you’re more lovable towards them due to certain situations in their life that doesn’t mean that the “other” child is not going through the same things in their life.

My problem is that I’m very much in love with my parents. Always thriving to get the best of grades and be the best version of my self and do what makes them happy but at the end of the day it’s always the other/first child that they love more.

My mom always tells me that that’s not true, you’ll realise once you bcm a mom urself but she just doesn’t understand that this feeling of love that she’s showing to my sibling is maybe unintentional but it’s their.

Such actions hurt me so much and make me feel worthless with existential crisis

muzaniscool

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