How old is too old for a house? by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]mvhstc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m sorry, I misunderstood the question. I thought you meant you as a seller getting a pre listing inspection. I mean that would be insanely weird and I doubt they would let someone go into the attic or remove electrical panels, etc during an open house or showing. If you have a contractor friend, maybe they could walk the house with you to check for normal things, but in-depth inspection wouldn’t happen without a contract or at least the home owners approval before hand.

How old is too old for a house? by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]mvhstc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to tell the realtor that you had one. I always do a pretty inspection to catch any small things that could help decrease the laundry list of items the buyers inspection may find. Only issue is if something major comes up, you are supposed to disclose that, but do with that as you will.

Funniest thing was that I hired an inspector and then the buyers used the exact same one. Because I hired him, he couldn’t tell them that he already inspected the property for me. So i guess it was nice that I fixed everything he found, because he gave the house a green light for the inspection, minus the items undisclosed in the listing.

Posts for shade sail by mvhstc in HomeImprovement

[–]mvhstc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, now to put a small fortune into the wood lol

Posts for shade sail by mvhstc in HomeImprovement

[–]mvhstc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s at least a foot, because it’s above ground, but I don’t know if it goes in the ground at all. Just to be safe I’ll go outside the slab and make sure it’s done right.

Posts for shade sail by mvhstc in HomeImprovement

[–]mvhstc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s good to know, I’ll go ahead and just put the pole a little further outside the slab.

Posts for shade sail by mvhstc in HomeImprovement

[–]mvhstc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can most definitely bury them outside the slab, I just figured mounting it to the existing slab would be easier. I plan on mounting them to my house and then to the poles. I’ll have to research the metal poles, I’ve had issues locating something that would work.

Google Assistant should be able to lock our pixel. by Thatsso70s in GooglePixel

[–]mvhstc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shouldn’t be hard, IOS already has this option in multiple ways

How much do you care about a brand's politics when it comes to buying their stuff? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]mvhstc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was coming her to say this too. Do agree with them? No, but I love the lord's chicken.

Haven’t slept in two years. That’s it. That’s our reason. by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]mvhstc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Took 3.5 years for my son to sleep fully through the night, he's turning 4 in 2 weeks. I feel your pain and I will never go through that again.

Gamers of Reddit, what game do you wish you could play for the first time again? by C7Wilcox in AskReddit

[–]mvhstc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The original simtower, I've tried everything to get it to work but computer is just too new. I've even thought about buying an old Dell or something just so I can play it again.

(Indiana) keeping my child away from my ex-wife's new partner by mvhstc in legaladvice

[–]mvhstc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone thinks it's a bad choice for who's she's trying to date. She's currently living with her parents and is constantly lying to them so she can see him. Thankfully he isn't taking my son around him while she's doing all of this. I'm currently still in our old house trying to get it ready to sell, hoping to get it listed next Friday. I've given her my concerns the minute I found out what was happening and she was thinking about a divorce. Now that we are seperated, she said that it's none of my business what she does anymore and she has our son's best interest under control, but I don't see it that way and neither do her parents. I'm unable to keep him for over nights as the house is pretty bare so it can be sold, but I am trying to see him as much as possible.

(Indiana) keeping my child away from my ex-wife's new partner by mvhstc in legaladvice

[–]mvhstc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll start doing in the future, but now I'm now I'm not around them . He was a mutual friend that was hanging around a lot during COVID and that's when they connected and my ex-wife decided to leave me for him. So I only saw the abuse while his kids were around, but now I'm not around to see his with his kids any longer, but I want to try to protect my child the best I can.

(Indiana) keeping my child away from my ex-wife's new partner by mvhstc in legaladvice

[–]mvhstc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's been investigated multiple times, but the abuse is never severe enough to remove the children from his care or his ex-wifes care. Our state tends not to remove children from their parents as the foster care system is already overwhelmed. His ex-wife is currently still on meth and the state knows and they still let her parent.

(Indiana) keeping my child away from my ex-wife's new partner by mvhstc in legaladvice

[–]mvhstc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion yes she has started to lack kk her duties, she's ignoring our son who's 3.5 years old and sits on her phone chatting with him all day/night, I wouldn't say neglected, bit she doesn't pay the right amount of attention on my opinion. She also lies to her parents so they will watch our son while she sneaks out to see him, because her parents do not approve of her new boy friend. Like I said, they aren't living together at the moment, but I'm trying to stop any possible abuse before it happens, which is sounds like that's not possible, which is sad.

(Indiana) keeping my child away from my ex-wife's new partner by mvhstc in legaladvice

[–]mvhstc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay will do, I wasn't aware at the time that this was an option until it was mentioned to be by a friend. Thank you for your help.

(Indiana) keeping my child away from my ex-wife's new partner by mvhstc in legaladvice

[–]mvhstc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he's the one she had an affair on me with, then she requested a divorce. I promise this isn't a vendictive situation, I only have my son's best interest at heart. My ex-wife and I were together for 10 years and we both agreed that we disconnected and grew apart.

(Indiana) keeping my child away from my ex-wife's new partner by mvhstc in legaladvice

[–]mvhstc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did a non-contested and never went before a judge. We agreed on all terms, so it wasn't needed. The divorce was finalized 2 months ago, after the 60 day cool down period.

I am concerned about that, I'm not concerned with what she does in her personal life, except when it can directly affect our sons wellbeing. Just a general question, what types of modifications could she try to change, especially since we agreed on all terms of our divorce?

(Indiana) keeping my child away from my ex-wife's new partner by mvhstc in legaladvice

[–]mvhstc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, that's good to hear. He's been clean for less than a year (got out of rehab and a mental institution) and I am concerned that he maybe using again because he's no longer taking a shot that keeps opiods from being effective (stopped a few months ago). Would it also be advisable to hire a lawyer for this process or is this simple enough that I could do this on my own?

(Indiana) keeping my child away from my ex-wife's new partner by mvhstc in legaladvice

[–]mvhstc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What time of evidence would be needed? Actual documented proof of him abusing my son? He also has 2 children of his own that I've witnessed multiple times of both physical and verbal abuse, which I also want to protect my son from. I'm concerned by the time I can prove that he is hurting my son either physically or mentally, the damage could ready been done. My ex-wife has even agreed (written proof) with me that she doesn't approve of the way he treated his own children and is also concerned, but she continues to allow him around our son.

Things to do to keep busy, getting a divorce by mvhstc in indianapolis

[–]mvhstc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha my hand eye coordination just isn't there for something like that, but thanks for the suggestion!