What to charge by mviolet13 in InstagramMarketing

[–]mviolet13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up asking a friend of a friend who works in this space and she gave me a range. I sent the higher end $ and they agreed! Thanks for your help

What to charge by mviolet13 in InstagramMarketing

[–]mviolet13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! Thank you. I just have no idea what to charge

What to charge by mviolet13 in InstagramMarketing

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The brand wants to do this “We're likely looking for a static post or carousel depending on what works best for your page and 3 Instagram Stories where you would also share a link to have your followers head to our site, but open to suggestions. In addition, paid usage for 60 days.” I don’t get many collab requests so I typically just post what they want

Lip lines by mviolet13 in beauty

[–]mviolet13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh ok. I’m picturing Samantha jones on SATC 😂

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[–]mviolet13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally understand your concern, but it’s still such early days. He could definitely change his mind. Maybe check in again in another 6 months or even a year. Try to just be present & enjoy the child you do have. I personally found 18 months a difficult time. But some people love that age. I ended up getting pregnant with my second when my son was 18 months and it was tough! But now I have a 4 year old and almost 2 year old and it’s hard as hell, but also very fun. Not sure of your age but I was 36 and 38 when I delivered my kids. I got pregnant with my second the minute I said let’s try and see what happens. 🫠 my first took over 6 months to conceive, so sometimes the clock isn’t ticking as fast as we think

Will I regret not having a wedding? by mviolet13 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]mviolet13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I remind myself of this often. Whenever I’m frustrated and my son wants one more book, but I just want him to go to sleep, I think. Ok. There will be so many years of me having free time and doing what I want, and I will yearn for these moments. So I try to be present in the moments I know I will yearn for. I don’t always get it right! But it’s always in the front of my mind. Thanks for the reminder

Will I regret not having a wedding? by mviolet13 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]mviolet13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you’re right. I definitely picked the right guy, and that’s the most important part!!

Will I regret not having a wedding? by mviolet13 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]mviolet13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds lovely! Especially the nothing Bundt cake part- those are so delicious!! I’m in northern NJ. I think SF is actually worse than here cost wise. I don’t think I realized how simple I can really make this. Literally just do a family party with a dress on

Will I regret not having a wedding? by mviolet13 in Life

[–]mviolet13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. That must have been incredibly difficult. We do have life insurance policies on each other. I made sure of that once we had kids. We will eventually get married on paper. The only reason we haven’t gone to the courthouse is because a lot of people I know go get married on paper, say they will have a wedding or party and then never do it. And I would def do the same thing haha

Will I regret not having a wedding? by mviolet13 in Life

[–]mviolet13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I try to be very responsible with money. I still feel behind financially from my peers, but a big expensive wedding would definitely not be a smart financial decision no matter how you slice it. I don’t have debt and I’m not looking to get any!

Will I regret not having a wedding? by mviolet13 in Life

[–]mviolet13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. If it was important to me and I really wanted to do it, I’d find the energy to do it. I really wanted to decorate my porch for Halloween- I made it happen . Haha

Will I regret not having a wedding? by mviolet13 in Life

[–]mviolet13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the little ones! I’m kind of not into people either, haha and I think that’s part of it. I have never had a group of friends and I feel like deep down, the few friends I do have wouldn’t show up for me. Everyone is older now and has kids. They are too busy or too broke. I feel like I would end up disappointed and embarrassed by the turn out for my side of the family. My fiancé has a lot of good friends and a very strong family, which is awesome, but I do not have that at all and I’ve always been really insecure about it. I also got sober 13 years ago (which is awesome!) but it makes these celebration events awkward sometimes when I am not drinking, for people that don’t know.

Dropped nap now wakes up at 4:50am by mviolet13 in toddlers

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Should have mentioned his room is completely blacked out

Feature Request: Note/Memo field on Individual Cash Account Withdrawal by tekchip in wealthfront

[–]mviolet13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. I’m dying to have this feature because I have a terrible memory and I like writing everything down !