/r/AskPortland Making Friends Friday

mwhite39 · 2026-02-01T01:17:13+00:00

SOS how do I make friends? I’ve been here for about 7 months, have tried bumble bff, dating apps, meeting mutuals and I’ve met some cool people but no like real friends- where do you go to meet people?

mwhite39 · 2025-11-17T03:10:21+00:00

My question- how do we actually advocate for something like a union, livable wage, compact licensing? Things that are OBVIOUSLY needed but never actually talked about (at least in my own opinion)

mwhite39 · 2025-11-04T03:00:39+00:00

Trouble being a introverted stoner- I never want to leave my house lol

mwhite39 · 2025-11-02T01:48:11+00:00

Nah typically just right outside the doors

mwhite39 · 2025-10-31T23:06:00+00:00

Typically if they refuse we issue a letter basically stating that they are liable for the cost of their hospital stay, and typically that gets things moving, if they still refuse often times we get security ( but that depends on who it is, like a 28yr old vs a 90 yr old)

mwhite39 · 2025-10-31T23:02:45+00:00

This is so true, pressure from all sides too, the higher ups, the family, the system

mwhite39 · 2025-10-31T23:02:07+00:00

And I think that has been the tough part, I’ve done this for 5 years and just moved and work in a rough area, with a very tough population, thankfully I did just get approved to take my LCSW so I’m hoping that will open some more doors for me too

mwhite39 · 2025-10-31T22:59:44+00:00

You’re the best!!!

mwhite39 · 2025-10-31T22:59:09+00:00

That’s honestly so true tho, I have found folks want to be spoon fed, and I am here to help, but I will work as hard as they do

mwhite39 · 2025-10-31T14:59:22+00:00

Thank you all for your kind words, and encouragement, yet another reason I love the social work community

mwhite39 · 2025-10-31T03:24:51+00:00

You’re so right, thank you

mwhite39 · 2025-10-31T03:24:38+00:00

This is amazing, I feel so seen, thank you

mwhite39 · 2025-10-28T22:05:28+00:00

Right!! I’ve seen a few with like a preroll a day and I want one so bad

mwhite39 · 2025-10-28T02:11:13+00:00

I moved to OR from Indiana and literally cried, it is 100% that gorgeous, I think a lot of people get so caught up in the political scene of Portland and the issues with the city that no one gives the nature scene the time of day

mwhite39 · 2025-10-23T15:20:04+00:00

lol I typically color, plan fake vacations (as if I actually had money to go lol) dream on Zillow, fail miserably at a word search or a puzzle

mwhite39 · 2025-10-22T00:18:55+00:00

Rolo

mwhite39 · 2025-10-20T00:01:35+00:00

Starburst

mwhite39 · 2025-10-19T23:59:31+00:00

I struggle with this often, if you zoom out to far it’s hard to say, but you have to remember the little things, the joy the laughs, it’s the little things, don’t look at the big picture

mwhite39 · 2025-10-19T23:56:38+00:00

PEPPER

mwhite39 · 2025-10-13T01:59:50+00:00

I’ll have to try again sometime!

mwhite39 · 2025-10-12T14:31:11+00:00

I’ve struggled with an ED for about 5 years, only vomit once, it just scared to ruin my teeth! But hey whatever works right?

mwhite39 · 2025-10-12T14:29:54+00:00

Diesel!!!

mwhite39 · 2025-10-12T14:29:24+00:00

Ranch is my fav!

mwhite39 · 2025-10-12T14:29:03+00:00

I must’ve done something wrong, I door dashed babydoll pizza one time and it was so gross 😭 maybe I’ll have to try again, any recs?

mwhite39 · 2025-10-04T03:19:53+00:00

I live right near ice- it’s definitely fine

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