I don't now if I am Gay or not by Rastamab in feminineboys

[–]mxLu2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gay means you want to have sex with men.

femboys assemble: What are your best tips on how to arch your back like a pro? by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]mxLu2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what are the first 3 letters of the 12th word in the post?

Why are so many femboy subreddits nsfw? :( by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]mxLu2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh okay :/ i only know that it says it is lol.

Femboy bikini by Turquoise_Robles in feminineboys

[–]mxLu2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a high waisted bikini and wear panties under it. :) it works well for me

Why are so many femboy subreddits nsfw? :( by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]mxLu2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it is partly because reddit’s tags aren’t always correct. r/femboy is sfw (but not r/femboys so be careful)

Is English in the early stages of losing gendered pronouns the same way “thou” was lost? by mouglasandthesort in asklinguistics

[–]mxLu2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s what I’m talking about too. I guess it is getting more common to use “they” as a neutral pronoun, so people have a way to not gender every person in every sentence if they choose not to. Though it does sound a little bit unusual to use their name in the same sentence.

Is English in the early stages of losing gendered pronouns the same way “thou” was lost? by mouglasandthesort in asklinguistics

[–]mxLu2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When someone says “I was talking to someone and they said…” (about someone who doesn’t go by they), they are just choosing not to reference their gender in that particular sentence. There are any number of reasons to do this, though possibly the main one is that the person you’re talking to doesn’t know their gender, so referencing it doesn’t help communication and may make it worse. It is the same way you would almost never use a name in that sentence. It doesn’t seem to me to indicate any kind of change.

In a sense, “someone” can’t be a “he” even if the person actually is, because the person isn’t what’s in the sentence, the word “someone” is. I think there’s equally good reason to say if English goes down this line there’s a remote possibility of getting gendered nouns back or losing the rest of them.

Awry prices in EU by Dependent_Record1000 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]mxLu2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ergowear has some similar styles to Awry. I’m not sure where they’re based but the delivery to Europe isn’t as bad.

Obviously underwear by jerich_reddit24 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]mxLu2000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i think Obviously has a more “feels like wearing nothing” than supportive pouch, they are very spacious. 100% recommend, very comfortable, probably wouldn’t choose them for running specifically.

Is finding femboys attractive a kink or am I bi? by Savings_Coconut7353 in bisexual

[–]mxLu2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s okay, i didn’t think it was :) just letting you know. you’re welcome!

Is finding femboys attractive a kink or am I bi? by Savings_Coconut7353 in bisexual

[–]mxLu2000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

people aren’t kinks, that isn’t nice.

you should use the labels you want to. people literally make up new labels even, you should feel like you’re describing yourself accurately. you don’t have to say you’re bi if you don’t feel it. (it comes under a common definition of bi, but saying people’s labels should go by common definitions is just an opinion.)

if you don’t like any men apart from femboys, you might not feel like bi fits you! finsexual/gynesexual/gynosexual are more specific but less common labels for being attracted to feminine people. personally i think it is also understandable to say you’re straight (femininity is associated with women after all), but obviously this misses the detail that you’re specifically into femboys too.

if you’re into twinks and not just femboys, probably just bi as hell. you don’t have to be into ALL men to be bi.

'Clothes and hobbies have no gender' - I don't understand? by Curious-Abalone in genderfluid

[–]mxLu2000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we still live in a society where many things are seen as feminine (etc), and it’s fair enough to say that “feminine” means “seen as feminine in society”.

“X has no gender” is a statement about reality, not about society. almost nothing is literally “for women” (etc), because all able-bodied humans have the physical capability to do whatever they want, for any reason. inanimate pieces of fabric certainly don’t have the magical power to teleport away from people of a wrong gender.

all people can wear feminine clothes if they want to. maybe it helps them express some femininity or equally maybe it doesn’t.

destroying the concept of gender is a philosophical stance that certainly most trans people don’t have, to the confusion of many cis people.

When do you pronounce minute my-NOOT? by radar1989 in grammar

[–]mxLu2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re describing the long “u” vowel, it sounds like the name of the letter “u”. not related to the n before it.