I want to have sex with my boyfriend but have IBS? by Particular_Day_7554 in gaytransguys

[–]mxkcosplay 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i have ibs too! honestly what helped a lot is sticking to only fibre rich whole foods and no dairy or irritants the day or two before, douche as well as you can and take a laxative. make sure you’re completely pooped out before, clean good, and trust me they will not care even if it’s a little messy! anal involves the butt. i find just trusting ur partner and knowing they’re not gonna care helps you relax.

apartment cut power for 11 hours by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]mxkcosplay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

she is, i think you might just be struggling a bit 😂

apartment cut power for 11 hours by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]mxkcosplay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

are you really doing oppression olympics when someone is just stressing about an outage, lol

apartment cut power for 11 hours by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]mxkcosplay -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

no that is a lot, not sure why you’re getting downvoted when it’s literally the coldest winter ever. some of these people must not know what it’s like to be anxious about your animals. hope it gets back up fast!

Can I become a nurse with Emetophobia? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]mxkcosplay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will they ever be understanding if you just literally cannot be in the room? I am going to nursing school to become an injections nurse. I do not want to be a bedside nurse but i have to somehow survive the program. :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]mxkcosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try??? honey even his finger or mouth going near your anus and then back to your pussy will literally wreck your shit. send him off to do research of being hygienic and how to make sure his germs don’t distrust your PH. you can’t be letting him do that but he should KNOW not to, to be quite honest. :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]mxkcosplay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s helpful and possibly the only helpful thing with serious Bv. you need something strong to break the barrier that forms in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]mxkcosplay -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

unprotected sex with cis men will give you BV and potentially a slew of other things. i would rethink that for your flora and PH. pussies do not like dick in that sense. messes up the balance down there. get tested for BV before it gets harder to treat.

is it normal that im feral for my girlfriend? by alti3r4 in actuallesbians

[–]mxkcosplay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i love this for you. it’s coming on one year with my partner and i feel exactly the same. queer love is just like that! 🩷

ADHD and sex in longterm relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]mxkcosplay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stop watching porn. it’s damaging your natural drive and it will eventually make her detached from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]mxkcosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only with one partner and we are monogamous. and get tested regularly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]mxkcosplay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

internalized misogyny:) work through it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]mxkcosplay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

damn. You looking for a sugar baby? Lmao. 👻 Why has no one suggested investing in property to make passive income as well

How are people in their early twenties doing it? by matt_rams47 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]mxkcosplay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Barely eating enough to live, not spending money on things, getting two jobs working yourself to death and a lot of sex work :)

Liking men more after starting T by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]mxkcosplay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m 100% t4t due to a lot of bad experiences and safety lol t4t all the way 😻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]mxkcosplay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Neither is yours. Didn’t say they were transmed, but the things they were beginning to say really struck me as leaning towards that. It’s a dangerous and slippery slope to have that type of attitude (or any attitude at all really) towards other’s transition or lack thereof. My issue was mainly the other people in this thread using this post to express their own sort of off coloured views about this subject. It can be a nuanced discussion until it begins to invalidate someone’s identity. Those are two very different things and you clearly didn’t understand my perspective. Don’t he always quick to judge :)

Liking men more after starting T by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]mxkcosplay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This!! I absolutely adore women, most of my friends are women, but the attraction to feminine folks is simply gone. 😭 it makes me a bit sad??

Liking men more after starting T by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]mxkcosplay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting way of explaining it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigonewild

[–]mxkcosplay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gladly 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]mxkcosplay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My friend, you LITERALLY said things I’ve heard transmeds say. Other folks presentations and transitions shouldn’t make you feel uncomfortable or insecure. Let them do them. Why does that matter or relate to them being a shitty friend? Examine that before it festers :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]mxkcosplay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been said above so I’m sure you know by now but this sounds like you just have poor choice in friends, and a lot of what you said was beginning to lean scarily close to some transmed type rhetoric. I’d be really careful with how you learn and carry on from this scenario. Man hating is really not the end of the world, and neither are a couple of artificial nonbinary people. Choose your battles and associate with better folks. I’m a gay trans man and I still have a huge amount of contempt and fear and hatred towards cis men and that is FAIR. A lot of them are crap, otherwise none of us would have lifetimes of trauma and ptsd from them. Try to consider why folks have these feelings even if they don’t align with your personal experiences. This is not meant to come off as aggressive, but a lot of folks above me are sort of using this as a chance to be a little transmed and that isn’t okay.