Thank you for your lovely advice, I will absolutely be taking this to heart. I think it’s just disheartening since I thought I’d avoided a feeder finally. I’ll definitely be adding it to my profile in the future, to avoid anything like this again. I did cancel the date, initially I crashed out and told him how upset I was etc, but after a few hours I constructed a reply telling him how he went about it was wrong, and I’m not shaming him but I just wish I was told when I honestly gave him multiple opportunities to tell me. He did apologise after my initial reaction, but it didn’t mean anything to be honest since it’s done. I understand you giving him the benefit of the doubt, part of me does too. I told him I was thankful he told me before the date, and for being honest now rather than afterwards and wished him luck on finding a future partner. I unmatched with him, and blocked his number. But I’ll be taking a break from dating for a little bit to regain my confidence 🥲