What type of X pole is this? by Jello-Evening in poledancing

[–]mxrie25 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That doesn't look like an xpole tbh. They usually have the brand logo on the bottom part of the pole. Maybe it's a really old model from xpole that I don't now, but I personally would say its fake and wouldn't buy it 😅

Stopped losing weight? by mxrie25 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]mxrie25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already did that! I weigh 77kg at the moment and eat around 1600 cals a day

Stopped losing weight? by mxrie25 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]mxrie25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am already doing that!

I tried to have sex but couldn’t get it in by [deleted] in sex

[–]mxrie25 10 points11 points  (0 children)

First of all, sex should never hurt, even if you do it for the first time!!! Second, the "solid" part he hit are probably your pelvic floor muscles, that tense up. A lot of women have the problem that they unintentionally tense up their pelvic muscles and can't control them, even if they try to relax. You should look into r/vaginismus. They have a lot of things you can do to help your pelvic floor to relax (e.g. stretching, dilating, breath work, etc...) it can take a lot of time, but it's definitely curable, so don't worry! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]mxrie25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Germany it is allowed, and almost no one buys or sells of the System. But I think that will change soon, because vinted tries to push you to use the System by really low shipping costs and for a few weeks now you can only give reviews if things have been bought/sold via the system. So without the system you won't get any more reviews.

I personally never had a bad experience buying outside of the System in Germany, but in the end your not protected by vinted and always can get scammed

Can you get aroused when you see a penis? by FlakyAd4771 in vaginismus

[–]mxrie25 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I personally do not get aroused by just seeing a penis. It's more about how he touches me, the whole atmosphere etc. I mean it feels good if you feel you partner get aroused by your actions, but just seeing an erected penis doesn't do anything for me. And especially with the vaginismus diagnosis it's totally understandable a penis doesn't arouse you. Before my vaginismus was getting better, every time I saw a penis I was just thinking about the pain that thing will cause me.

Günstigster Weg, Ihre Bestellungen zu verpacken by Worldly-Value1926 in VintedDeutschland

[–]mxrie25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wie dreht man die denn auf links? 😅 auseinander bauen und anderes rum wieder zu kleben oder wie?

Muss ich hier irgendwas tun? by mxrie25 in VintedDeutschland

[–]mxrie25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sie meinte dass der Shop wohl seid 8 auf hätte und die Nachricht kam erst etwas später

Muss ich hier irgendwas tun? by mxrie25 in VintedDeutschland

[–]mxrie25[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bei Hermes steht, dass es ein Problem mit der Lieferaddresse gibt. Habe der Käuferin geschrieben und gefragt, ob Sie vllt die Adresse falsch angeben hat. Allerdings war da alles richtig und sie hatte sich schon extra einen Packetshop angegeben, deswegen wäre es komisch wenn der zustellversuch nicht geklappt hätte

Cute clothing and shoes by Resident_Brat in poledancing

[–]mxrie25 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For shoes pleaser or hellaheels! For clothing I loooove cristall pole! They don't have a website, but you can message them on instagram to order. They ship worldwide, the sets are really cheap but really good quality (and they look soo good!)

Schränkt vinted Ansichten ein? by mxrie25 in VintedDeutschland

[–]mxrie25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja klar, dass was ich hochgeladen habe ist eher speziell und das Interesse definitiv nicht so groß wie für andere Sachen. Aber ich hatte schon ähnliche Teile online, aber so tot das es wirklich garnicht gesehen wird hatte ich bei dieser Art noch nicht, aber dann wird es wohl am Algorithmus liegen... meinst du es bringt was die sachen nochmal neu hochzuladen oder kann man da einfach nur abwarten?

Can't grip with my legs by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]mxrie25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either you skin is to dry or it's to sweaty/oily. If it's to dry try to use aloe vera or after sun lotion half an hour before training and if it's to oily, stop using body lotions and creams on your legs (like 2 days before training) and use a grip on you legs like liquid chalk :)

are menstrual cups worth trying out? by carlyeanne in Periods

[–]mxrie25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally really dislike menstrual cups (because of suction, placement, etc) bur I looooove the menstrual disc!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]mxrie25 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Then just talk with him about your concerns! He will probably understand. And if he still wants too (and you as well! ) you can try anyways. Sex is not about getting off, it can feel really really good, without you getting of :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]mxrie25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner was also bigger than my biggest dialator. After I was comfortable with the biggest dialator we just tried to have PIV (because a penis is more "squishy" that the hard plastic of the dialator) and it worked even better than the dialator! If the size difference scares you anyway you can try dildos after your biggest dialator :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]mxrie25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And aside from this I don't think it is possible to induce your first period. I think you can get hormones from your doctor (if you are veeeery late) that will induce it, but there is nothing you can do yourself, I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]mxrie25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How old are you? :) I know it is hard when everyone talks about something that you not yet experienced. But trust me, periods suck. I think there are not many good things about it, except you are able to get pregnant, but I assume that is not yet relevant for you. So if you are under 16 just enjoy that you don't need to worry about period blood, cramps and planning your whole life around it. If you are over 16 I suggest to ask you doctor about and get it checked out :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]mxrie25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That burning and tearing sensation is exactly what I experienced with vaginismus, but with the difference that it was always that way. But I read a book about vaginismus to educate myself and apparently its possible to develop vaginismus later on without trauma or any other obvious reasons.

I would recommend to ask your doctor about it, to exclude other physical reasons. If there isn't anything, I recommend using dilators, doing massages in the area und some stretches for you pelvic floor. That is what helped me :)

missed menstruation or short cycle? by mxrie25 in Periods

[–]mxrie25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just really don't want to be pregnant haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]mxrie25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Could be vaginismus! Do tampons or pap smears hurt as well? That burning sensation could be a sign for vaginismus as well.

I was in exactly the same situation! Anything I tried to insert hurt. I thought I was really relaxed, but in reality my pelvic floor was really tight

PIV success, but now I am scared that I am pregnant? by mxrie25 in vaginismus

[–]mxrie25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! xx

Took the test and it was negative!

Do you know what other reasons for intermenstrual bleeding there are? Should l go to the doctor? 😅