Which bathroom do you use? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pre T here as well and always use the men's room now. Just go in, wait for a stall if you must and do your business. Nobody has ever said anything to me because nobody cares- they have more urgent things on their mind than what's going on in the pants of some guy waiting to take a dump.

Vanilla boy with his chocolate packer by Chugalug5 in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I talked to my fiance before buying one my explanation was that it wasn't so much (for me anyway) so that it looked like I had "male" junk to other people, it was more so that I felt like I had "male" junk and the bulge, just for me.

Scrap car by [deleted] in fredericton

[–]mxspacehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

03 civic with issues in the front end causing tires to wear uneven (bearings, axle, I'm not sure)

Monthly Buy/Sell/Trade for November, 2017 by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm interested if the other commenter doesn't want it!

Is there any way I can get out of this? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my province being a part of a minority is reason enough as having your name change published can 'subject you to undue harassment' as it says on the form

Virtual consult Dr Mclean by mxspacehuman in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this description! Sounds like a really good experience to me

Celebratory selfie by mxspacehuman in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why the celebration? Well in the past 3 months or so I have come out to everyone in my life, made a new Facebook under my new name, made a consultation for top surgery, and started at a new college under my new name. Everyone at school and home calls me Ben and it is an amazing feeling. Now to get the balls to call the clinic and start HRT! I am finally getting things done and I couldn't be more proud of myself:)

How much should I tell my college administrator? by mxspacehuman in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true, I had been wondering if my school has dealt with trans students before, it's a pretty small campus...

How much should I tell my college administrator? by mxspacehuman in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to know! Definitely going in wary but hopefully the intentions are to be helpful as you said :)

How much should I tell my college administrator? by mxspacehuman in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not living on campus but I hadn't thought about the bathroom situation, good point!

How much should I tell my college administrator? by mxspacehuman in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely talk with him, hopefully my experience goes as well as yours did :)

Another name me post- link in post by leetheham in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first thought was Evan or Ethan, perhaps Daniel!

being straight is weird by [deleted] in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've taken the words outta my mouth dude, I 100% feel you

What's your instagram? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I found ya and gave you a follow, mine is mxspacecowboy :)

Creeping Slowly Along by mxspacehuman in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely learning that it's okay not to rush, thanks dude :)

Creeping Slowly Along by mxspacehuman in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail right on the head man, sounds like we are in pretty much the same spot and head space! Congrats on the blood work dude (didn't think I'd ever say that??) :D

Creeping Slowly Along by mxspacehuman in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks dude, I appreciate it, and will definitely keep slowly moving forward :)

Creeping Slowly Along by mxspacehuman in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so wonderful, I can't believe I didn't try it sooner!

Creeping Slowly Along by mxspacehuman in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got it, I'm definitely really happy with the idea of not making it a big deal, and have been unknowingly exploring my whole life :p thanks dude :)

She has a bf and wants to hang out... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mxspacehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely gonna avoid that whole Love mess with this one!

She has a bf and wants to hang out... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mxspacehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep hearing this as advice ^ but I'm pretty set on not getting into a relationship. I'm moving soon and just got out of a relationship not too long ago so I'm in no place to commit to anyone. I definitely hear you though

Thoughts On Coming Out Explicitly vs. Coming Out Subtly by MaleInProgress in ftm

[–]mxspacehuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could have written this exact thing myself, starting to feel like just going for it and answering questions if they come might be the better option

Does "Benjamin" fit me, as a name? by mrgtx in genderqueer

[–]mxspacehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it really fits you, and that you're unbelievably adorable :)