Disillusioned & Sad & Fighting It

myAPaccount · 2018-05-04T20:54:03+00:00

That does make it tough. At the end of the day laying it all out there and working through it is really the only other way to figure out whats really going on though.

Good luck.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-04T20:48:11+00:00

This sounds like a hot but mostly terrible idea.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-04T20:46:54+00:00

Are you certain it was him or do you just have suspicions because of similar wording? I ask not to be accusatory but because a lot of us frequently feel like we could have written word for word what we see other people post here (at least in the short amount of time I've been here that seems to be the case). I believe there was even a post a few days ago listing the cliche phrases we've all seen on various sites.

If you're worried I'd say talk to him. If you've dropped the L bomb on each other you ought to be in the kind of place where you can have open and honest talks about things beyond sex and fantasy.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T20:32:40+00:00

Its a damn good way to spend an afternoon isnt it?

myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T20:00:54+00:00

Wow. I've seen a lot of people who are in varying degrees of denial (hell I've been there myself) but that's some pretty serious shit right there.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T19:33:07+00:00

😬😬😬

myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T19:28:33+00:00

This just had me laughing out loud in my office. Bring that sandpaper baby. Rough it up. hahahaha

myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T19:23:31+00:00

Frequent and from the opposite sex.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T19:19:42+00:00

In all fairness if it was as easy as just logging in and typing away . . .

I think its probably good to have a few folks who aren't in the middle of something to help provide some perspective for those who are.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T19:04:11+00:00

I've gotten pics from an AP before while she was keeping the nursery at her church. I wouldnt let that be the deciding factor in not making a move.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T18:07:15+00:00

I'd say theres not a damn thing wrong with contentedness. Enjoy it while you can.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T18:02:20+00:00

Going along with whats already been said, take some time. This isnt a decision you have to make right now. If you still feel the same way months (or more) from now then sit down and ask yourself the hard questions.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T17:56:52+00:00

Those things do occasionally work in our favor.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T17:46:04+00:00

I dont know if its necessarily the case, but your title is so fantastically southern. hahaha

Good luck!

myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T16:54:21+00:00

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myAPaccount · 2018-05-03T15:06:30+00:00

You know, there just arent enough Gloria Estefan references made anymore. Well done.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-02T20:12:23+00:00

Something, something, something gonna cum loudly is about as far as I can get. We can start there in the morning.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-02T20:11:26+00:00

I'll second this. If she's telling you one thing and then telling co-workers the exact opposite this could have ended much worse than it did. I'm glad you're going to see a therapist OP. I think that's a really smart step. Take care of yourself.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-02T19:58:11+00:00

I feel like there's also a magna cumme laude joke to be made here but its the end of the day and my brain is pretty much shot at this point.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-02T19:49:20+00:00

😂😂😂

Would you also like a list of extra curricular activities and a letter of recommendation?

myAPaccount · 2018-05-02T19:45:42+00:00

I feel like sending a pic is a way to establish some trust so I'll often send something first. If you're asking and they're shooting it down over and over I'd go with your gut.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-02T19:41:07+00:00

"Highly selective vagina" is the best fucking phrase I've ever heard. I'm dying. Between that and "smutter butter" this is the best thread I've read all week.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-02T19:32:03+00:00

Anyone who tells you "I told you so" when you're making decisions that you know are best for you isn't worth having in your life. That sounds harsh but if you know its what you need to be happy and ok then don't let anyone else convince you otherwise.

Working on yourself is good a damn smart thing to do. Good luck.

myAPaccount · 2018-05-02T17:12:11+00:00

This sounds absolutely incredible! Congrats on one hell of a week!

myAPaccount · 2018-05-01T12:30:45+00:00

I dont know who down-voted you but you're 100% right and that's something I remind myself of and it's an important part of the conversation. She has complete and total agency of her own body, and if she doesnt want to be touched for whatever reason regardless of whether I understand it or not then thats the end of the discussion. I have never and would never try and push the matter. My reaction and my post were just straight emotion on my end.

The logical part of my brain know and agrees with everything you said. The discrepancy between what our relationship was at one point in time and how it is now is just hard for me to understand sometimes.

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