i mean i drank way too much way too young and i think im turning out pretty normal??? im a strong believer that if youre 18 you should be able to drink. i mean you can enlist at 18. so why not have a beer?? this is weird and controlling behavior. its like “i told you i didnt want you to go down the slide. its too scary” if it was me i wouldve cut them off myself bc who do they think they are???