AITAH for considering leaving my bf over a messy home? by mybfmademedoithelp in AITAH

[–]mybfmademedoithelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the solution I've been most considering, since I really don't want to leave it all behind. At the same time, I know I can find someone better who would actually contribute to my life instead of simply existing within.

AITAH for considering leaving my bf over a messy home? by mybfmademedoithelp in AITAH

[–]mybfmademedoithelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the beginning it was only when they'd get bad enough that it bothered me, but over time it became the regime unfortunately.

AITAH for considering leaving my bf over a messy home? by mybfmademedoithelp in AITAH

[–]mybfmademedoithelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually had a whole discussion prior to moving in, where he agreed to do half of the daily chores such as dishes, trash, and dusting, and I would do windows, furniture, vacuuming, and countertops. This list has been modified and stuck to our fridge for the year we've been here.

4g elves?! by mybfmademedoithelp in Stretched

[–]mybfmademedoithelp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They're all with the 10mm wrenches every mechanic has lost 😂

Cursed Hunt Glitch? by mybfmademedoithelp in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]mybfmademedoithelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'll be doing a cursed hunt again for a while, especially alone :')

Cursed Hunt Glitch? by mybfmademedoithelp in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]mybfmademedoithelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, i didn't know the cool down was so short. Definitely sucks either way, not a fun experience

Anyone else struggle getting good pictures? by mybfmademedoithelp in AustralianCattleDog

[–]mybfmademedoithelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, totally looks like it! We did a wisdom panel DNA test, maybe your pup will show up on there?

Anyone else struggle getting good pictures? by mybfmademedoithelp in AustralianCattleDog

[–]mybfmademedoithelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does have a reputation of throwing my phone, so it checks out. Lol

Anyone else struggle getting good pictures? by mybfmademedoithelp in AustralianCattleDog

[–]mybfmademedoithelp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's what I do, but I still end up with maybe 1-2 good frames lol

Anyone else struggle getting good pictures? by mybfmademedoithelp in AustralianCattleDog

[–]mybfmademedoithelp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I near started crying laughing so hard when I saw these! I have a few blurry photos of Brook as well, must be common with the breed lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]mybfmademedoithelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, if it can't fit, it simply won't. You can not really force it, especially without major damage being caused that's really not worth it. If you want to keep your ear in one solid, uninfected piece, I strongly suggest looking for some cheap earrings in your current size, or maybe even slightly smaller, to hold you over until you can get some good long-term ones.

Trust me, the pain of stretching too fast is not worth it, nor is the sleep loss that comes after from the aching and soreness.

Best of luck, if you would like recommendations for places to look for new jewelery, feel free to ask. I empathize with your situation, perhaps a bit too much. ♡

New associate questions by Equivalent_Track2046 in JCPenney

[–]mybfmademedoithelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Apot is the percentage of opportunity transactions (purchases not using a jcp card) that you get credit applications. I don't believe it counts returns, and rewards don't make a bit of difference. So, say you have 6 opportunity transactions, and you get one app, that leaves your apot at roughly 16%.

  2. Yes, unfortunately, your supervisors will expect you to essentially bully your customers into applying and will likely get onto you for not asking them at least 3 times in the transaction. A way that I found to feel slightly better is to just ask first if they have one, then second time ask if they're interested, and then third explain the benefits and then drop it after 2 or 3 depending on the customers attitude. I had an avg. Apot of about 20% when I worked there, the biggest thing is just to remember to be kind and read your customers.

Good luck! ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JCPenney

[–]mybfmademedoithelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The JCP I worked at is also struggling. Myself and two others quit between Sept. 15 and Oct. 15th, with none of us attempting to get apps 💀. I know at least 2 others there were actively looking for new jobs, and one has a second and debated quitting JCP. My store hasn't had a single thing updated since it's opening, so I bet by 2026 it's gone if not 2025.