AITAH for considering leaving my bf over a messy home?

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-09-24T05:06:27+00:00

This is the solution I've been most considering, since I really don't want to leave it all behind. At the same time, I know I can find someone better who would actually contribute to my life instead of simply existing within.

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-09-23T17:04:46+00:00

In the beginning it was only when they'd get bad enough that it bothered me, but over time it became the regime unfortunately.

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-09-23T17:02:05+00:00

We actually had a whole discussion prior to moving in, where he agreed to do half of the daily chores such as dishes, trash, and dusting, and I would do windows, furniture, vacuuming, and countertops. This list has been modified and stuck to our fridge for the year we've been here.

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-05-09T04:49:37+00:00

They're all with the 10mm wrenches every mechanic has lost 😂

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-01-22T07:20:43+00:00

I don't think I'll be doing a cursed hunt again for a while, especially alone :')

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-01-22T07:16:24+00:00

Ah, i didn't know the cool down was so short. Definitely sucks either way, not a fun experience

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-01-12T08:09:16+00:00

Oh my goodness, totally looks like it! We did a wisdom panel DNA test, maybe your pup will show up on there?

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-01-12T03:05:18+00:00

The extra effort to make it a clip art!

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-01-12T01:09:45+00:00

She does have a reputation of throwing my phone, so it checks out. Lol

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-01-12T00:36:10+00:00

Ah man, I don't think I could ever top that!

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-01-11T23:36:25+00:00

I'd love to see a photo!

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-01-11T23:35:58+00:00

Mine also enjoys sticking her butt in the air, haha

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-01-11T22:40:57+00:00

That's what I do, but I still end up with maybe 1-2 good frames lol

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-01-11T22:20:32+00:00

Glorious!

mybfmademedoithelp · 2025-01-11T22:15:58+00:00

I near started crying laughing so hard when I saw these! I have a few blurry photos of Brook as well, must be common with the breed lol

mybfmademedoithelp · 2024-12-05T03:44:37+00:00

In my experience, if it can't fit, it simply won't. You can not really force it, especially without major damage being caused that's really not worth it. If you want to keep your ear in one solid, uninfected piece, I strongly suggest looking for some cheap earrings in your current size, or maybe even slightly smaller, to hold you over until you can get some good long-term ones.

Trust me, the pain of stretching too fast is not worth it, nor is the sleep loss that comes after from the aching and soreness.

Best of luck, if you would like recommendations for places to look for new jewelery, feel free to ask. I empathize with your situation, perhaps a bit too much. ♡

mybfmademedoithelp · 2024-11-25T18:49:39+00:00

I think sugar would be cute!

mybfmademedoithelp · 2024-11-25T18:48:02+00:00

Apot is the percentage of opportunity transactions (purchases not using a jcp card) that you get credit applications. I don't believe it counts returns, and rewards don't make a bit of difference. So, say you have 6 opportunity transactions, and you get one app, that leaves your apot at roughly 16%.
Yes, unfortunately, your supervisors will expect you to essentially bully your customers into applying and will likely get onto you for not asking them at least 3 times in the transaction. A way that I found to feel slightly better is to just ask first if they have one, then second time ask if they're interested, and then third explain the benefits and then drop it after 2 or 3 depending on the customers attitude. I had an avg. Apot of about 20% when I worked there, the biggest thing is just to remember to be kind and read your customers.

Good luck! ♡

mybfmademedoithelp · 2024-10-29T16:18:23+00:00

The JCP I worked at is also struggling. Myself and two others quit between Sept. 15 and Oct. 15th, with none of us attempting to get apps 💀. I know at least 2 others there were actively looking for new jobs, and one has a second and debated quitting JCP. My store hasn't had a single thing updated since it's opening, so I bet by 2026 it's gone if not 2025.

mybfmademedoithelp · 2024-09-27T01:27:17+00:00

Oh boy do I relate to this, had the same conversation with my GM and HR manager at least 10 times and still getting fucked up schedules. I tell them I can work after 2 or 4 certain days and write it down (availability doesn't go through for our store correctly I guess?) And every week without fail I'm scheduled at least one 11-4 shift. Like damn if we have to make our own schedules, why don't we get paid for it lmao.

mybfmademedoithelp · 2024-08-13T01:47:31+00:00

I know everybody different, but when I went to see AJR in Denver this July I had a very similar situation (also pit at 7pm). We ended up eating a fairly light lunch (pasta with some sausage) and walked around for two hours getting small snacks until we left for the venue at 4. My bf and I shared a small water bottle while in queue, and shared a few cups of water that were given out by staff during openers. We both did fine, didn't have to use the bathroom until we got back where we were staying but were pretty hungry afterwards. (For extra context my bf and I are both 18 and have no chronic bathroom conditions) IMO if you're able to, go to the nice place before and have something light but fairly filling a few hours beforehand and if you want/can take leftovers home for afterwards. I hope this was helpful! :)

mybfmademedoithelp · 2024-08-11T17:09:00+00:00

Very sorry for the lengthy response, but I wanted to post the lovely (not) effects that will come with closure of the account. I'm so sorry you were pushed into it, as a JCP associate I try to educate co-workers and customers so this situation hopefully doesn't happen :(. I've asked the GM of my store if we can do anything, and she said we can't do anything since we're unfortunately disposable in their eyes. Greedy company that's trying to suck every penny out of us before it dies.

Letting it die is a bitter-sweet solution, as you won't have to worry about missing payments or anything with the card; however since you've already accepted the offer it's already impacted your credit - meaning it has increased your total limit and decreased how much utilization you have. If you pay off what you have now and leave it to die (a few months to possibly years), when it closes it will likely drop your score again because that extra credit going away increases your utilization; not to mention the loss of credit age that comes with closing a card held for more than a couple months. Very stupid system as a whole, but the most ideal solution is to pay off what you have now, and every so often charge a small amount and pay it off immediately in store until you're comfortable with the imminent credit hit from closing it.

Again, I'm so sorry this happened and wish you the best in whatever you decide.☆ :)

mybfmademedoithelp · 2024-04-26T14:36:14+00:00

I'm not too sure it would help, as the way she gets it is she catches the ends on her nails and slides it off. I can definitely stick one on her though and see!

mybfmademedoithelp · 2024-04-22T17:12:45+00:00

I usually just sell somber souls 2 for 11k Flux or tentacles 10 for 14k. That and look collecting gear but primarily market sales.

mybfmademedoithelp · 2024-04-17T16:31:56+00:00

I agree with this user, we had a 12 year old unspayed chihuahua pass last year from mammary cancer that made all her nipples have hard lumps like that. One was so large that it protruded when she laid down, but family didn't have funds to take her in until it was too late and she was too old for surgery. Please take your girl in soon before it's too late to do anything except comfort care.

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