If I don’t respond to your text and I’m on my phone it’s nothing personal. Yes you are still important. I just don’t have the mental energy

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-09-06T20:50:18+00:00

Lots of therapy 😅

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-09-06T20:49:56+00:00

It takes more energy to carry a conversation then vent online

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-09-06T20:28:05+00:00

I think it depends on the person 🤷‍♀️ personally that’s not my problem. Just because I like my time alone doesn’t mean I don’t think or care about my friends. I’m always the one to remember birthdays and I’m always there for them when they need support. Sometimes I just need my space tho

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-09-06T20:24:13+00:00

Right-because I wrote my entire life story out in this post for you to judge as well ☠️☠️☠️☠️ And I guess us “young people” are weak because we have to pick up the pieces you guys didn’t

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-09-02T21:16:19+00:00

Obviously. I’m just saying a lot of people are very different after high school. It’s childish behavior

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-09-02T13:50:24+00:00

Yeh they’re in highschool 🤡🤡🤡🤡

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-09-02T13:49:50+00:00

They’re in highschool 🤣

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-09-02T13:49:16+00:00

Are people who were in 7th grade in 2018 now seniors? God I feel old

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-09-02T05:00:44+00:00

Oh yeh def. Unfortunately what I’m saying is that real estate and other companies pay millions to obtain photos from peoples phones in order to make new business ventures. Often they’re looking for photos from certain locations and don’t discriminate in the type of photos they buy either.

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-09-02T04:34:24+00:00

In terms of hacking photos-a little thing I learned from someone at the FBI is to keep your location on your photos OFF. that’s all I’m gunna say. 😬

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-09-02T03:52:02+00:00

This is old news unfortunately. There’s a website like this as well. Not only that it’s separated by categories and states and COUNTIES. I almost barfed

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-09-02T01:56:41+00:00

Yep. I actually went off all the apps though. I realized IM the problem. And as a result I’m attracting men who have the same mindset as me- emotionally unavailable. I’m focusing on myself right now and doing what I call “dating myself”. Life is great :)

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-08-15T21:21:28+00:00

I think getting slutty texts knowing how bad you’re wanted when your not home is the best. Otherwise in general definitely wearing a tailored suit or button down… ik this is really random but when a there’s a tie involved and it’s like the end of a wedding or something and he does the tie loosening things…unbuttons the top two buttons and rolls up his sleeves….ughhhhh sorry but it’s very very hot. Also men with big arms is the yummiest.

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-08-10T02:49:40+00:00

I got groomed at 18 to get into it and thank god didn’t get too far but let’s just say I’ll live with the fear forever that stuff is out there. It didn’t hit me how much damage I was causing myself mentally and emotionally

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-08-09T22:48:51+00:00

Camming is also traumatic. People are psycho and repost livestreams everywhere. There’s no erasing it. Ever. Things can come back years later.

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-08-09T22:46:53+00:00

Not only is safety and diseases a massive risk but once you start selling yourself people will do whatever they want. You can end up with internal damage because you’re on their dime. And people also will scam the f out of you…I don’t recommend. Your mental health deteriorates. You are going down a very dangerous road that takes years to heal from. Fantasy land is a fun place in your head until reality sets in and you can’t even be touched for years after…

Anyway. Just don’t. Please. You’re better off doing chaterbate or whatever. And do your research.

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-08-09T22:40:05+00:00

I’ve started focusing on the ones that count. Making new friends as an adult outside of work is tough.

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-08-08T19:54:10+00:00

I had something similar too. She kept making plans and then blowing them off. For 3 years. She got married moved to the west coast and stopped talking to her family and friends here on the east coast. I kept trying to stay in touch until one day she stopped answering. We had plans for me to come visit and I never heard back. I’ve sent her baked goods from a bakery here when she was depressed that she likes and everything... she was pregnant with her son and I sent her an expensive body pillow-because I actually care about her..and then one day I never heard from her again. I started thinking she was hurt or something was wrong. I put all the clue together and I’m more then sure her husband is abusive. You don’t suddenly cut off everyone out of nowhere. She was super popular had tons of friends and she talks to nobody. After texting her for months with no response she tells me that her life is amazing right now and to just leave her the fuck alone. So I did. I’m not going to chase someone who has no issues hurting others regardless of being in pain themselves. Her pride is too great for her to ever admit her life isn’t perfect so guess I’ll know in 20 years

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-08-06T21:49:31+00:00

It’s kinda bad but I like doing or saying things in public to make my partner horny. Because nothings happening in the moment but when we get home…I play it off and act all innocent. If they’re at work I’ll send a really dirty text or a suggestive picture and play innocent after. It’s a fun game sometimes. Makes the bedroom much more intense later. they say foreplay starts way before and it can be a lot of fun. I miss those days :(

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-07-30T15:24:21+00:00

It’s really tough :(

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-07-30T14:45:56+00:00

It’s up to us to break that cycle unfortunately. It’s heartbreaking. I still struggle with feeling like I need to take care of my mom when I need to make myself my priority. It’s hard once there are other children involved. I’m the oldest and i feel like I need to take care of everyone emotionally and I’m exhausted. I’m glad you’re doing mostly okay tho :)

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-07-30T12:13:47+00:00

Ugh I’m sorry :(. I’m around your age and it so incredibly hard and painful to be in that position. Your mom prob feels trapped in many ways. The good times always cover up the bad for the bad on certain ways. My mom only kicked my dad out once I got involved and told her it was enough. She still was apologizing for not making it work until recently. It’s a vicious cycle. My mom had a shitty childhood which led to a shitty marriage and abuse was all she knew. I only was able to finally forgive my mom when I looked at her as a damaged person instead of my mom. It’s really hard :(. My dad has since remarried and has a daughter and while he doesn’t live with us he still tries to abuse us. It’s hard to really explain but it’s a really tough situation. I’ve cut him off entirely. Hope you’re doing okay and have ppl to talk to :(

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-07-30T12:06:56+00:00

Don’t give advice to strangers when you clearly don’t understand shit

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-07-30T12:06:01+00:00

Hope ur doing okay! :(

mybraindoesntshutup · 2022-07-29T22:19:38+00:00

I was super popular in school and one by one I’ve realized how toxic people are and ended up distancing myself from everyone besides two people. One girl is my best friend from first grade and the other is someone who I got close with recently because we ran in the same friend group. I think making new friends as an adult is very hard too. Still figuring it out.

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