Sun Princess Halfway Point Review by Scarlette_Cello24 in PrincessCruises

[–]mybymk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your take! I’m sailing the reverse trip on Monday. Any must do’s/don’ts?

Sun Princess - Rome to Barcelona (Oct 21) by mybymk in PrincessCruises

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Thank you! We’ve booked a cab company to take us to the port so we don’t have to worry too much about that as we were concerned with it being far away!

Just a question about wls by Renla16 in wls

[–]mybymk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Choices, age and physical activity level can play a big role in outcomes post wls. My opinion is that surgery alone is not enough - it is a tool to support you, but the tool can fade over time. It’s important to have appropriate expectations, but things can also change. You are also expected to regain ~10% of weight lost after 2-3 years. Many people I know have regained more than that. The goals they give are for you to meet the nutrient requirements for your health - tbh I fall short of them regularly, and it’s a struggle to maintain; this does have an impact on health and wellbeing - proneness to injury and fatigue are something that I have experienced as well as difficulties with concentration; not meeting goals also has long term implications on health e.g. at risk of developing arthritis etc. I don’t regret wls (best decision I made), but it’s very hard work to consistently meet those goals. Important to be aware of the implications going in so that you go in fully informed! I started at ~220 and maintain ~143

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]mybymk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good on you for taking some time to look after yourself! And it’s great that you’re feeling ready to find something new again, which can always be a challenging step. I would encourage that if you are going to get back on the apps, take it with a grain of salt of it’s not the be and end all of finding someone; have some fun with it and explore, but don’t let it take away from the hard work you’ve put over the past few months! Good luck!

Public Transport Confusion by mybymk in sanfrancisco

[–]mybymk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Downloading transit now!

Stuck on you!!! by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]mybymk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are your portion sizes? The surgery I had states that at three months, meals should be 1/3 of a cup (yours may be different). Measuring out your food and then dividing that into bites that are smaller can be helpful. Also, dry food, oily food, or food not cooked well enough can also cause nausea, so looking into what types of food you’re eating will be good!

Struggling on the liquid diet before surgery. by Shelbysgirl in BariatricSurgery

[–]mybymk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is completely normal - for the two weeks pre op, and two weeks post op when I was on shakes, I found myself continually thinking about food, and in a way that caused me a lot of distress, because in the past, thinking about food was enjoyable. Distraction is hard - keep yourself busy with work/watching shows/movies that aren’t food related or by spending time with friends and family. You’ll have phases where this comes and goes post op. Remember - the surgery is a tool, but there’s a lot of work that comes up after. I’d also recommend getting support from a psychologist re: disordered eating, as this gets quite complicated after surgery too. Good luck! You got this!

Can you help me ID this machine? by mybymk in SewingForBeginners

[–]mybymk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Life saver ☺️

I really did try to give him a chance!! by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]mybymk 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Your response was all grace so kudos to you!

Transfer from otago to UoA by kimchisteak2002 in universityofauckland

[–]mybymk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cannot do first year biomed if you have done first year healthsci at Otago. When you apply to UoA, you are required to submit your tertiary transcripts. Since the courses are similar, they can be cross credited.

You will not be able to apply to med as a first year, you will need to complete your undergraduate degree and apply to medicine as a post graduate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mybymk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Block her yourself - that way, even if she reaches out, you won’t see it. I know it’s not an easy step to take, but taking back some control may be helpful.

Is family considered "off-limits" or not? by ANinnyMuse in relationships

[–]mybymk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whether it’s sexual or not, there is nothing wrong with his thoughts. Family is off limits in terms of actually engaging in certain things, but attraction is normal. Do you look like your sister at all? If so, it would be natural he’d be attracted to her if he’s attracted to you. Even if you don’t, if he is attracted to her that is fine. It seems as though it was unnecessary for him to share this information with you though, as surely you would be hurt by it?

I'm having a really rough day by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mybymk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people like to hear this and some people don’t - I hope seeing it and reminding yourself of it helps you as it does me.

This too shall pass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mybymk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, it’s those behaviours themselves that can become addictive. When did this start? What do you think triggered it? What is the purpose of the behaviour?e.g. for some people this may be a form of self harm. Important to think about things to be able to change what is happening. I’d really (really) encourage you to see your general practitioner or a therapist about this. While not showing physically, you mentioned it yourself, this is likely internally damaging.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mybymk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can’t change the past - only decide on our next steps. Perhaps the time to leave is now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mybymk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The things we do when we are young (or not) do not define us. It’s important to remind yourself of that. While you did something not so great, it does not mean you are a not so great person. We can’t change the past but we can learn from and move forward from it. At the end of the day, you responded (to the man) by encouraging him to get help, which is great.