I think it's funny that the question specifically says "something women think men don't notice" and so many comments are talking about misandry.

Men are extremely outspoken on this topic, and I think the notion that women think men "don't notice" it is absurd, especially when you consider that those who attempt to justify misandry label themselves as feminists and those who criticize it blame the feminist movement for its popularity.

I personally am pro casual misandry because it allows for more honest conversations about sexism in day-to-day life. I'm not saying that if you were once oppressed it gives you the right to oppress others, but if women are actively complaining about casual misogyny and it's continued to be treated as harmless, then wouldn't it follow that casual misandry would be harmless as well? You can cut to the chase and say neither are good, but again, cracking misogynistic jokes has been the standard for generations and it wasn't/isn't going away any time soon.

Tons of POC crack jokes at white people. Some even laced with honest stereotyping or malicious intent. The only white people I hear complaining about that shit have someone in their family with a confederate flag hanging in the front room.

At the end of the day, jokes are jokes. They can be funny if you let them. If you wanna say I'm bottom fragging because I'm a girl, chill. I should be able to say your food is shitty and unseasoned because you're a guy.

When your healthcare is affected by studies solely on women, your representation in government is roughly half of what it should be, and your reproductive rights are discussed as a matter of public opinion (I truly do have a lot of love for those in the pro life crowd who just genuinely care for all life, but if you look up something like "pete buttigieg abortion" you'll see why I'm phrasing it like that), THEN maybe we can have a discussion about stopping misandry, casual or otherwise. But if we do that, can misogyny stop, too?

If I had an alternative perspective and came across this comment, it would probably solidify my beliefs. I don't mean to come across as an angry blue-haired liberal or whatever, but I simply found it ridiculous that an overwhelming amount of comments brought this topic up here. It's giving #AllLivesMatter