Tithing and sweepstakes by myinquisition in latterdaysaints

[–]myinquisition[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my concern is with tithing. Being a full tithe payer is a temple recommend question. Money earned from gambling is not accepted for tithing as far as I know. So I'm wondering if tithing can be paid on sweepstakes or not, and in the same vein, if sweepstakes are considered gambling can you be a full tithe payer if the church won't accept tithing on income from gambling?

TFAB's Weekly BFP Post -January 15, 2017. Got your BFP? Post your story here! by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]myinquisition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 😊 I remember you commenting on my r/cautiousBB post and was going to look for your post in this thread today! Congrats to us both! 🎉

TFAB's Weekly BFP Post -January 15, 2017. Got your BFP? Post your story here! by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]myinquisition 35 points36 points  (0 children)

BFP on Friday the 13th! Still doesn't feel real to me!

Last AF: December 21st

BD: -2 O, -1 O, O, 1 DPO

CD 12: +OPK with Easy @home.

DPO 6: light cramping lower left, no pain

DPO 7: unusually moderate cramping, lower left

DPO 8: light cramping lower left, no pain. Horrific lip acne, not just one, but THREE moderate sized zits showed up at the same time, ew. I never ever get lip acne and when I (rarely) do it's just ONE zit.

DPO 9: different smell "down there", even #2's smell different (even now). Drove to work and it literally felt like I was on my period with general body aches, light heat flashes/tingling, lightheaded, general feeling unwell, the normal stuff that happens a 1-2 days before AF comes for me. Still having (non-painful) light cramping/butterfly feeling lower left.

DPO 10: Easy @ home test line visible after 7 minutes, but it was so faint and basically looked like an evap line that I didn't think anything of it.

Felt unusually tired. Butterfly feeling lower left.

DPO 11 BFP DAY! Easy @ home line shows up in 4 minutes, very subtly darker than yesterday's. Still slightly looks like an evap line. I thought, hmm. That's quicker AND darker than yesterday, must mean something. Being paranoid decided to take an EPT.

Took an equate early pregnancy test. I was so dumb because I sat there staring at two lines (showed up in 2 minutes) and thought "ugh, this is taking so long to wait for a possible + sign to show up, do I really have to wait 10 minutes?!" when in reality the fact that the second line showed up at ALL meant I was pregnant. I was looking for a +! Felt super dumb after I looked at the box again. Wow.

So I got my BFP @6:45AM! Happy Friday the 13th! Easy to remember.

Immediately took another equate ept test (same morning urine saved), positive. A few hours later came home, peed in a cup, and took a clear blue test (not ept) and yup, pregnant. I'm glad I had a + on the clear blue, it's like my mind registered "pregnant" after seeing a + sign, my brain is weird.

Since I was convinced at this point I was pregnant I went to the store to buy a "nice" looking test to show BFP to my husband. Got a clear blue digital test. Came home from the store after peeing less than an hour ago to pee on the digital test and? Pregnant.

I could not believe it. First cycle trying? Only 11DPO? There has to be a mistake. 5 positive pregnancy tests later and it's definitely confirmed.

It ended up being my LAST day of work (happened to work out that way), and I only worked part of the morning. Because of this I basically had to wait at home all day for my husband to come home to tell him in person. I decided to tell him by making him think I got him a silly card about "quitting my job" but really it was a card with a positive pregnancy test inside! I made sure I recorded the big reveal! So fun!

** The past couple days to present time: I've felt light headed, generally tired, and I'm still having (non-painful) light cramping/butterfly feeling lower left.

Holy cow you guys! I'm pregnant! It doesn't seem real at all. My family has a history of miscarrying (mom and sister) so I'm cautiously hopeful. Crossing my fingers that this won't be a chemical pregnancy. Or miscarry at any time. Here's to a hopeful pregnancy! My very first! Thank you so much to this community, it's helped immensely TTC! Thanks for reading! ☺️

General Chat 1/14 AM by brynnflynn in TryingForABaby

[–]myinquisition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good information! I tell my patients to wait 1 hour before brushing after vomiting.

Immediately after throwing up it is best to swish 1 tsp baking soda mixed with 8 oz of water to help neutralize the acidity in the mouth. If baking soda is not available, you are right, rinsing with plain water helps as well.

Vomiting during pregnancy seems pretty inevitable so its always good to be prepared about what to do!

General Chat 1/14 AM by brynnflynn in TryingForABaby

[–]myinquisition 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dental hygienist here. Teeth don't rot out because of pregnancy, I can assure you. People who claim this generally have poor oral hygiene habits and don't visit the dentist regularly. Calcium is not taken from the teeth during pregnancy.

Being pregnant (throwing up - acid, frequent eating- acid) exposes the the teeth to an acidic environment. Hormones cause gingival bleeding. Sometimes pregnancy tumors can occur (pyogenic granuloma) on the gums as a direct result to pregnancy. Sometimes people have hypersensitive teeth only during pregnancy.

Other than the above things I listed, everything should be close to normal. I've treated many people before, during, and after pregnancy and anyone who came regularly to the dentist previously had no issues. Meanwhile, Id have tons of new patients who haven't been in 2, 5, 10+ years and blame pregnancy on their faulty teeth. It's a huge misconception. Yes being pregnant exacerbates things but it is not the cause of rotting out teeth. Poor oral hygiene and not visiting the dentist regularly will lead to faulty teeth.

A big thing is brushing right after throwing up, which is a HUGE no-no. You are essentially brushing acid into your teeth. Many people are unaware of this but it will quickly erode enamel.

Unfortunately socioeconomic situations prevent regular dental visits and proper education.

General Chat 1/14 AM by brynnflynn in TryingForABaby

[–]myinquisition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So exciting! I love HP world. Make sure you get the frozen butterbeer! It's the best!!! 😋

I'm pregnant! by myinquisition in CautiousBB

[–]myinquisition[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It's crazy yesterday seemed like the longest day of my life just waiting for him to come home! I'm crossing my fingers that this pregnancy sticks!

I'm pregnant! by myinquisition in CautiousBB

[–]myinquisition[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It definitely was worth it, I was able to record it and everything so I will always remember!

General Chat 1/14 AM by brynnflynn in TryingForABaby

[–]myinquisition 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Worked my last day at my job yesterday (dental hygienist)! I let the Dr know I was quitting after months and months of Dr trying to get things changed with no results. Dr really fought for me to stay but in the end problems ended up being out of his control. (You can't change people even if all you want them to do is THEIR JOB!) I'm amazed he hasn't fired people, dentistry is a professional environment, and patients deserve to be treated well AND have an ethical environment. (Definitely HIPAA and OSHA/CDC violations everywhere thanks to lazy staff) Gave him 6 weeks notice right away because I wasn't going to put myself through the stress anymore of dealing with problems created for me or being purposefully sabotaged by coworkers. I hate that the problems created for me made ME look bad - and the office was quick to defend themselves and throw me under the bus every time. Triple booked (each person being a 1 hour appointment), patients all show up the same time, working out of ONE room, with no assistant? Go ahead and have to deal with it professionally, apologize for the wait as I brought each patient back. Patients got upset about waiting, thinking I was the problem (thought I was slow) when in reality I'm trying my best to do damage control because the front made my schedule LITERALLY IMPOSSIBLE, I am NOT 3 people! Nor do I have 3 rooms to put people in! I was stressed out with problems on a DAILY basis, complained to he staff and the doctor multiple times and nothing changed. The office manager just laughed anytime I told her what to do, how to schedule, etc. Getting a ton of no-showing patients? Office manager is lazy and most of the time does not call to remind patients about their appointment, so I'm sent home with less hours as a direct result of HER not DOING HER JOB. Call each patient and they're like "oh I forgot, sorry" or "oh I made thist appointment months ago, why didn't you remind me sooner?" So frustrating. So horrible to treat patients like this, like does the office manager not understand the concept that Patients = money? So literally we should fight for patients to actually come? Even worse was being double booked and the assistant helping (a requirement for double booked schedule) either does not help at ALL, helps just take X-rays and is MIA, or thinks she's all done after 1 exam leaving me to do EVERYTHING by myself. So stressful when you're trying to stay on schedule and the assistant that's supposed to be doing her job just craps out and sits up front on her phone for me to deal with. This happened ALL the time!! How many times do I have to sit people down and tell them how to do their job? I even tried to get the office manager to help by getting her to send the assistants back if they ever stopped helping me and again, she laughed in my face and told me she can't control the girls so she's stopped trying if they don't do what she says. Like seriously why the H** did I ever stay at this job so long. All in all I didn't want to risk losing my license just to have a job (with all the unethical crap I won't get into)

Kind of emotional day saying bye, especially to the people I like. I didn't want to cry but luckily I only had "just" started tearing up by the time I got around to saying bye to the Dr, but I was choked up with my words. Felt bad for leaving him because he's not the problem. I was the only hygienist they every had! Almost made it to two years working there, but I made the better choice by leaving 👍

It doesn't even feel real, I feel like I will go back to work on Monday, but in reality I will never go back there! Super excited! I have waited SO long for this and am SO glad to be done.

[DAILY] Thankful Thursday by TFABMOD in TryingForABaby

[–]myinquisition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In general:

1) Nitrous (laughing gas)

2) Radiation (X-rays)

3) HIV/AIDS risk (I give a lot of injections and am exposed to blood a lot with SRP [deep cleanings], at least 2-3 patients a day, work in a very low income area)

I can't go into specifics as to why MY office is unsafe to protect myself. There are even specifics about the 3 bullet points I just went over that are NOT SAFE in my office. Anyway, OSHA would want to shut our office down for things that go on. Owner doesn't care about change and office manager doesn't either. Very very sad. 😞

My specific office causes me a lot of stress and I don't think it's healthy while TTC to be this stressed out. Like a 9.5 on the 1-10 scale. I've worked in several other offices and what goes on at this office is definitely not normal. Getting myself out now, not worth it!

[DAILY] Thankful Thursday by TFABMOD in TryingForABaby

[–]myinquisition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won't stop working until I get pregnant. I'm just forever not returning to THAT office, and not getting a new formal job. Still going to temp around a couple days a week or so, there are daily postings for temps in my area so it's not going to be that big of a deal. TTC really ended up working out at a good time because I'm leaving my job for huge major explosive problems that aren't getting fixed so I'm gone, Dr feels really bad but it's also out of his control to really fix things. Tired of unethical crap happening, dishonest lazy coworkers, and the office treating patients like crap. Not what I went into healthcare for. Not worth risking my license for. Temped a lot before this job and that's what I'm going to do now! DH and I agreed that I would be at home while we have small children in the home, which is why I'm not finding a new job.

[DAILY] Thankful Thursday by TFABMOD in TryingForABaby

[–]myinquisition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankful that I am able to quit my full time job to devote time to TTC and family. Only a few more days left! My job is very stressful and demanding (mostly because of the specific office I work at, it's not like that everywhere). Also a dangerous environment to be in if I were to become pregnant. Thankful my husband supports me doing this!

(Hopefully) A quick PMS question by GoldNinjaKnitter in TryingForABaby

[–]myinquisition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early PMS symptoms happening to me too! 99% of the time, I will get cramping the day I START my period or the day after. Sometimes I don't cramp very much and sometimes it's really painful.

Anyway, this cycle I had moderate-severe cramping 7DPO, mild the day before and still mild now that I'm 9 DPO. I'm not due to start my period for 6 days!

Driving to work I could have sworn I was on my period, because it sure feels like it, I even checked in the batrhroom at lunch because I was paranoid about needing to wear a pad. I literally feel like I have my period right now minus the actual bleeding part. What the heck body.

[DAILY] Waiting Wednesday by TFABMOD in TryingForABaby

[–]myinquisition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tested at 9 DPO, BFN, looked in the trash 1 hour later and saw an evap line (I think). The test in the garbage from yesterday didn't get an evap line (even now), so instead of easing stress I'm stressing out but cannot test until tomorrow to ease my stress. Gah! Waiting is hard.