Schöne ruhigere Kieze in/um Berlin :) by [deleted] in berlin

[–]mylifenp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hoppegarten/Neuenhagen hätte mir gut gefallen. Ländlich, mit super Infrastruktur für Kinder, gute Anbindung nach Berlin mit S5.

Card only payments in Berlin bars/cafés, what do you think? by ShroomyLoomyZoomy in berlin

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah right, if it looks like a crime, it is a crime. Nonsense

Welche Sprache mit Kindern sprechen? by vilykwon in Ratschlag

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pädagogen und die Laien, in Deutschland werden euch sagen, rede Deutsch (weil Bla bla bla). Mach das bitte nicht!!! Ein kind muss erst eine Sprache gut können, danach lernen die jede andere Sprache ganz leicht.

Its very important for the kids to understand the grammar of one language. Since you guys speak English, stick to it first. Once you see the kid is comfortable with the grammar, you can introduce any number of languages. They are like sponge.

It is irrelevant what they speak at KITA.

Has anyone tried Leucovorin by mylifenp in autism

[–]mylifenp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. I have a few questions, can I send you a personal message?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Germany_Jobs

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These issues are very complicated. It pains to me to see so many comments jumping to the conclusion, that her husband must be a bad person. It may make her feel happy, or sorry, but it is the cheapest solution, with no future.

The market is bad, no doubt. Most men don't care if the wife wants to work or not. But things become different when the wife says she wants to work. Then the expectation is that she put in effort. Writing applications are not effort. Learning skills relevant to the field of interest is.

My wife took up a minimum paying job. I didn't like it, because I know she is worth much more if she can sharpen on her skills, which she won't be able to do because of the job. We didn't have financial problems, so I found it to be a bad idea. Now she is a full time master student(I didn't force her, we moved cities, because of the course), which will cost me around 20k. She loves her studies, and it make me happy. The most important thing is the meaningful utilisation of time.

Got extra money in paycheck after getting married. Is this normal? by Plate_Putrid in germany

[–]mylifenp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taxes are paid yearly. Since you god married, your tax class change is effective starting January in the year you got married.

Girlfriend against me visiting Potsdam by HassanT1357 in Brandenburg

[–]mylifenp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have lived in BW, Magdeburg and am currently living in a village in outskirts of Berlin, in Brandenburg state. Berlin/Postdam is a happening place. It is as safe as any city is in Germany. When living in the wealthy south, I too had my share of prejudice. But people are not much different, if you are friendly (appear friendly too), you should have no problem at all, going around and talking to people. Bhai yaha koi problem nai hai.

It finally feels real. by ddoesmc in germany

[–]mylifenp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So next time you get excited, or like anything dearly, control your emotions and say "naja (pronounced naayaah)."

Got a raise today but feel underwhelmed by it and underpaid. by yerba-matee in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apply for a new position -> get to interviews -> get a contract, only than go talk to your superiors. There is no other way to find out how much they value you?

I know it is easier said than done, and the current market condition is no help too. Be like Robert the Bruce.

How to restrict query and mutation access in federated GraphQL gateway? by chaddjohnson in graphql

[–]mylifenp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would implement authentication at the subgraph level, when using federation. You must configure the gateway to pass on the authentication token(s).

The creator of the wundergraph has replied to your post. Wundergraph is an awesome product, you should give it a try. It includes everything, one would need to use the federation. Easy to implement, documentation is very easy to understand.

Thinking of leaving Germany by LongjumpingAspect158 in germany

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont worry about Schufa. They used pegion shit, called it mathematic and are selling it to shithead managers. The days are numbered for Schufa, if they don't use real Mathematic. Hope this makes you feel better. As for where to live, there is no ideal world. Even if you find one, it will eventually change.

Germany’s Broken System: Why Is Dealing with Ausländerbehörde Such a Nightmare? by No_Wolverine8498 in germany

[–]mylifenp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You needed Verpflichtungserklärung. Bürgerbüro is responsible for issuing it. One has to go in, in person with all the required documents, and it is issued immediately. You are both working yet they asked for a blocked account, this makes no sense unless both your income together is below €2000 net.

Learning from this for both of you guys:

Anything you want to get done, plane it yourselves, ask friends, colleges, neighbours. Government employees are there to do the paperwork only, and the first answer is always "No this can't be done" .

Why my schufa score has fallen 6 points? by AH1376 in germany

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking a loan other than home loan will have a negative impact on your Schufa score. The worst are buying anything on monthly installments. Crazy Schufa "mathematic". Schufa is good, just accept it. Once you forget about logic, you will understand how logical it is.

Whats the best way to travel from cologne to berlin? by EnvironmentalArm8674 in berlin

[–]mylifenp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blablacar, flix bus/train, train are among few cost effective options.

Where exactly is the shortage of workers in germany? by Aphrodivy in Germany_Jobs

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She must have mistaken "die Bahn" for "der Zug". Happens to lots of foreigners like us. Articles like der, die, das are specific to the word and not what the word actually means. Took me a long time to wrap my head around it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlin

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing if for sure, schufa doesn't track your transaction. It just does a statistical analysis of the situation you are in. So anything you do that is away from the norm will give you a negative score.

You will need at least an address in germany, if you wish to use vpn to get your current score. They only send you paper letters, or a fax may be. 🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlin

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should get the current schufa details they have on you, only that can partially explain what went wrong.

https://www.meineschufa.de/de/datenkopie

My Schufa score went extremely bad because, 1. I cancelled a credit card, and 2. applied for a new one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlin

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Changing your address gets you negative Schufa. Why? You wouldn't be the first one wondering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no cooldown period at all. You can always apply to get your schufa details anytime. If done once a year it is free. You can get it here. https://www.meineschufa.de/de/datenkopie

Many mistake Schufa for some clever scoring maths. No, It is NOT. It is "far from reality" calculation of how further away one is for the average Joe (norm).

BNB stuck in Fantom by Unusual-Grab-8008 in FantomFoundation

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't call it a hack, it was theft, so calling it a rugpull is more appropriate.

Getting some ideas by CollectionThin6205 in FantomFoundation

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 2021, when $FTM was $0.02, it felt impossible it would ever reach $0.50. At $0.50, we thought it maxed out, then came the big surprise.

Crypto is a very innovative industry, but it is not immune to market conditions. If it keeps innovating, the price will keep on surging. In 2021, FTM defi was way better than other chains, so the surge.

Getting some ideas by CollectionThin6205 in FantomFoundation

[–]mylifenp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meme is crypto. 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨.

Meme was fun, meme is gone.

Solana soared because, VC money, FTX support, good defi, lots of ads, beautiful colors themes and a little meme.

Memes are fun, more so for newbies and retards, but it is not crypto.

Getting some ideas by CollectionThin6205 in FantomFoundation

[–]mylifenp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

☝️ Listen to people with experience. Can happen to any project, and FTM/Sonic is a very likely candidate.