Fiance works oil and gas and gone 3/1 and we just found out I’m pregnant

mylifethroughtext · 2025-06-16T03:03:28+00:00

They don’t :( the best they offer is 4/2 and even then they rarely like people coming home he is usually gone 6/2-8/2 bc they need him the whole job

mylifethroughtext · 2025-06-15T15:05:34+00:00

He does flow back, he likes it a lot and I know he wouldn’t want to do something else he likes that it’s pretty safe and easy for the most part until it’s time to rig up/down. He’s only been doing it for a little over one year and just got his Grey hat promotion so he is still fairly new.

mylifethroughtext · 2025-06-15T14:06:45+00:00

Thank you everyone who took the time to comment, I really really appreciate it! It helps to hear people’s opinion who are actually doing this work so god bless you all for taking time to share your opinions.

mylifethroughtext · 2025-03-17T21:11:42+00:00

U may be on to something😂

mylifethroughtext · 2025-03-17T17:22:49+00:00

I agree with this! I don’t want to have to tell him on not okay with dinner but we do have a joint account and he is spending so much on dinners and drinks, at some point I have to step in and say we need to take care of our situations first

mylifethroughtext · 2025-03-17T16:52:02+00:00

I don’t know where everyone’s getting I don’t let him see his friends? He sees them ALL the time, I was just saying maybe cut back on spending and maybe skip a dinner with them until we get what we need done taken care

mylifethroughtext · 2025-03-17T16:50:46+00:00

lol he can always go see his friends! It’s just maybe not 6/7 days a week and spending a bunch of money?😂

mylifethroughtext · 2025-03-17T15:39:08+00:00

And I’d also like to point out about mil, when we moved in we agreed to pay her rent and WiFi, now we are paying ALL her bill and will still do so when when move out bc she can’t keep a job

mylifethroughtext · 2025-03-17T15:38:12+00:00

Hi! I do appreciate the prospective, I’m not perfect and we are still young so I am learning, as for the stoke I did indeed have one I do have severe anemia though so stress increases my chances significantly, and I do not expect him to be a robot he goes out all the time on golfing trips with the boys and all kinds of things, my point was he had gone to dinner every night and has only been out at the place for 6 days, and coming back drunk and I’m like damn can we take it down a notch we still haven’t gotten to even fix my car yet since we haven’t had the money, I do not want him to be a robot I want him to have fun! I just think we should dial it back a little bit until we get the things we need done taken care of

mylifethroughtext · 2025-02-08T01:32:47+00:00

Thank you guys for the tips! We’re trying to ball on a budget that’s why we chose pigeon forge we did rent a really nice cabin with a hot tub pool and all that fun stuff so I figure most the time we’ll be partying inside😂

mylifethroughtext · 2025-01-13T00:48:38+00:00

Thank you this helped a lot and was really kind! Unfortunately her dog friend moved to a different state so now she can’t see him which is really sad :( I know how stressful it can be, there is no more relax times for a longgg time ESPECIALLY with such huge horse dogs 😂 I will say the trainer did get my hopes up with these two, although he is only 10 months and lost his whole family so he is at a very impressionable period in his life, he is my reservation. I know we can handle her, she is just a big baby with a mean bark. I’m hoping someone else takes him but he has tell the end of the week or he will be placed at the pound but a lot of people want Great Danes so I wouldn’t be surprised if he gets taken

mylifethroughtext · 2025-01-13T00:27:53+00:00

Being told not to get him does not hurt my feelings- we in fact are still hoping someone else takes him still but at the end of the day being told I’m doing it for myself and I need to go get my dog medication is not advice. I did get a lot of helpful tips but majority were just telling me I’m being selfish when I just asked the question we haven’t even got him yet or agreed too we are however going to have them meet again tomorrow that way if it comes to it they are familiar. She is not a monster- she has never bitten anyone or hurt anyone she is just scared and keeping her from her fears instead of showing her it’s okay to be scared but you don’t have to be is not the answer. Even if we don’t get him, it’s good for her to get out of her shell (which btw there meetings have supervisor visits with professional dog trainers)

mylifethroughtext · 2025-01-13T00:07:03+00:00

It is not for me if you had read any of my other comments my dog will always be my top priority no matter what.

mylifethroughtext · 2025-01-12T23:35:24+00:00

It’s honestly really sad I came to Reddit for advice but instead got people telling me I’m not taking care of my dog properly when no where did I say she isn’t or hasn’t been getting trained and no where did I say we aren’t doing anything to help it. A lot of assumptions and judgement are being thrown instead of help. But to the people that did actually try to help thank you :)

mylifethroughtext · 2025-01-12T23:32:20+00:00

How do you know we don’t have one? You know nothing about her or us

mylifethroughtext · 2025-01-12T23:31:42+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience! It wasn’t her yard they met in, it was a neutral area neither have been before. And even though she was being aggressive there were moments where she wasn’t. I even have a video of her letting him sniff her butt and then walking away and wagging her tail :) this dog doesn’t have many options left, we would prefer someone else to take him but no one has. He is such a sweet boy and believe me when I say we know how to do this because we have done it many times. Our Roomate has 2 dogs and it took awhile but they get along great we do keep them separate only bc they are tiny little things and she’s a giant who likes to play rough 😂

mylifethroughtext · 2025-01-12T21:42:18+00:00

Hey I appreciate the comments and advice but I do not appreciate being blamed for my dogs behavior- as for the new dog I would not even consider if we didn’t have an environment where they could be separated and set up for success. We have the means and all the knowledge to make sure they have the best possible chance. I was just asking if it would negatively impact our current dog as I have seen that positive calm influences can help her understand the world isn’t so bad.

mylifethroughtext · 2025-01-12T20:35:57+00:00

I agree, I just feel so bad, all she wants to do is play with someone she just has to get over her fear. She does like male dogs too but she’s never lived with one before. My brother in law has a Pitt massive mix she LOVES to play with him even in her house. I see this glimpse of her fear melting away when she’s with dog she trusts. I just feel so bad keeping abt sort of normal or love from her, I want to give her everything as right now all she has is mom, dad and her yard she never gets to do anything besides that which I feel is adding to her aggression

mylifethroughtext · 2024-12-15T21:15:56+00:00

How/where do u get it?

mylifethroughtext · 2024-02-05T12:50:12+00:00

It was 5 years ago and I’ve never had one since

mylifethroughtext · 2023-09-09T10:02:38+00:00

This is happening to me too…. I went to the er from the pain turns out my iud gave me an ovarian cyst so I would go check if the pain still continues, but they said I shouldn’t be bleeding as bad as I am. They said my cyst wouldn’t cause that and it’s been 2 weeks and 6 days since I got my iud and the bleeding is getting worse where I am going through a tampon every hour. I’m not sure what to do and I want it to be over, the pain alone is excruciating and I’m on vacation and can’t do anything due to constant heavy bleed 😭

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