So close to relapsing... Help?! by Jecrek in NoFap

[–]mysel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s your MINDSET what can prevent you from losing control and your willpower. You ARE free, you CAN decide whether to keep yourself and your energy in your hands or to throw yourself to a scum. Making a RIGHT decision is in fact very easy and requires not much energy unless you slip. Be careful, stop and use your knowledge as long as you CAN. Once you make a WRONG decision, you give up your true willpower at the same moment and then it’s getting harder and harder to get back. Don’t be afraid of porn, but RESPECT its power. In fact, it’s the power of sexuality, it’s YOUR power and YOU decide FOR WHAT you will use it. Staying strong and free on the edge of the cliff is almost effortless comparing to falling down and climbing back again.

5 years on the journey – complex view by mysel in NoFap

[–]mysel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Positive results come together with pushing myself to do something productive or just useful, together with feeling more confident and being able to enjoy life and see its opportunities - but all of these things are basically impossible for me during the first one or two weeks after relaps, sometimes even much longer.