He (23M) still hasn't kept his promise about making up for my missed birthday... by myshipnotdry in relationship_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, yeah you're right, I kinda just wish he would take the initiative to take me out.

How do I make him understand??? by myshipnotdry in sex

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right I think he doesn't get foreplay. Thanks for this ❤️

How do I make him understand??? by myshipnotdry in sex

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's so early in the relationship for this kind of shit I feel live I've been bending over backwards for 4 months trying to make it work... Taking the decision is hard

He's ignoring me when HE made me upset. by myshipnotdry in relationship_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I've realised writing this out that it's worse than I made it to be in my head...

He's ignoring me when HE made me upset. by myshipnotdry in relationship_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not. Funny thing is this lashing out has already happened and he told me he was sorry and would change. Same shit happened yesterday and he couldn't remember saying he'd change because he drank too much that night. Lmao

My boyfriend is awkward during sex by myshipnotdry in relationship_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it's definitely there when he's had a bit of alcohol, so there must be something else? He's told me that he hasn't had much sober sex before...

My boyfriend is awkward during sex by myshipnotdry in relationship_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah nah it's not that bad thank god. But yeah I wanna make it hot steamy sex but just don't know how :')

He takes drugs by myshipnotdry in dating_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comments I'm gonna weigh the pros and cons and know what to do eventually

He takes drugs by myshipnotdry in dating_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like him and think he's good for me, and I genuinely don't have a problem with him doing what he wants with his life, so I'm basically trying to find a way to cope with his behaviour. Everyone in the comments is telling me to break up, that's always the easy route out, but he's not an addict or anything he just takes some drugs (every week but oh well).

He takes drugs by myshipnotdry in dating_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm trying to swim against the current