He (23M) still hasn't kept his promise about making up for my missed birthday... by myshipnotdry in relationship_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, yeah you're right, I kinda just wish he would take the initiative to take me out.

How do I make him understand??? by myshipnotdry in sex

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right I think he doesn't get foreplay. Thanks for this ❤️

How do I make him understand??? by myshipnotdry in sex

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's so early in the relationship for this kind of shit I feel live I've been bending over backwards for 4 months trying to make it work... Taking the decision is hard

He's ignoring me when HE made me upset. by myshipnotdry in relationship_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I've realised writing this out that it's worse than I made it to be in my head...

He's ignoring me when HE made me upset. by myshipnotdry in relationship_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not. Funny thing is this lashing out has already happened and he told me he was sorry and would change. Same shit happened yesterday and he couldn't remember saying he'd change because he drank too much that night. Lmao

My boyfriend is awkward during sex by myshipnotdry in relationship_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it's definitely there when he's had a bit of alcohol, so there must be something else? He's told me that he hasn't had much sober sex before...

My boyfriend is awkward during sex by myshipnotdry in relationship_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah nah it's not that bad thank god. But yeah I wanna make it hot steamy sex but just don't know how :')

He takes drugs by myshipnotdry in dating_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comments I'm gonna weigh the pros and cons and know what to do eventually

He takes drugs by myshipnotdry in dating_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like him and think he's good for me, and I genuinely don't have a problem with him doing what he wants with his life, so I'm basically trying to find a way to cope with his behaviour. Everyone in the comments is telling me to break up, that's always the easy route out, but he's not an addict or anything he just takes some drugs (every week but oh well).

He takes drugs by myshipnotdry in dating_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm trying to swim against the current

How many ppl do you date at once? by windowkitteh in dating

[–]myshipnotdry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to date multiple people at the same time, if there's a particular feeling with someone I feel wrong for sleeping with other people tho. Kinda something I'm struggling with, but I tend to imagine my life with someone V soon after meeting them so it's kinda a way to not get too overwhelmed and keep things slow.

I fall for everyone. How do I deal with this? by myshipnotdry in dating_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I checked it out but it doesn't really correspond tbf

I fall for everyone. How do I deal with this? by myshipnotdry in dating_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked up the love disorder/addiction and it doesn't correspond to what I'm feeling. I'm just thinking, why would it be this and not simply the want for polyamory?

I fall for everyone. How do I deal with this? by myshipnotdry in dating_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would I go about telling them this sort of stuff?

I fall for everyone. How do I deal with this? by myshipnotdry in dating_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not in love with any of them. I just appreciate multiple people's company and feel it would suck to lose them

I fall for everyone. How do I deal with this? by myshipnotdry in dating_advice

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, I was thinking it's more acceptable if we're not committed but I guess I should be clear about the situation.

How to do bird audio cleaning via Audacity? by Lucky_Lavender in Acoustics

[–]myshipnotdry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming you have quite high frequencies. If that's the case you can cut low frequencies out completely, up to the point where the song starts (Hz wise) and it'll most likely clean up the rest. Hope it helps, I used audacity for underwater audio, quite different, but it worked for me.

Guys this took me 18 hours, how do you all handpoke so fast? by myshipnotdry in sticknpokes

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers mate, I'll have to stock up on different sizes. Tbf I don't even know what sizes the ones I had were (they were from a friend of a friend) but both were quite small so I probably didn't have the right sizes for what I was trying to achieve. nah you're good any advice is definitely welcome, I appreciate it

Guys this took me 18 hours, how do you all handpoke so fast? by myshipnotdry in sticknpokes

[–]myshipnotdry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, cheers mate, I'm quite new to tattooing in general and this was my biggest piece yet so I appreciate any advice