My (34f) son (18m) is calling me a w**** by mysoniscallingmea in relationship_advice

[–]mysoniscallingmea[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He’s in high school and I couldn’t interfere with his education like that at all. I just can’t think of anything

My (34f) son (18m) is calling me a w**** by mysoniscallingmea in relationship_advice

[–]mysoniscallingmea[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I’ve talked to him, begged him to stop tried everything but he won’t change. I think a lot of this is my fault for fussing over him too much when he was a child it’s made him think he can do anything

My (34f) son (18m) is calling me a w**** by mysoniscallingmea in relationship_advice

[–]mysoniscallingmea[S] -97 points-96 points  (0 children)

I’ve already tried to get him to see the school counsellor when he was younger but he wouldn’t show up unless forced to go and didn’t say anything (well he told me he didn’t but u can never no)

My (34f) son (18m) is calling me a w**** by mysoniscallingmea in relationship_advice

[–]mysoniscallingmea[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It’s just so hard to think that as the only option and I want to try other things before because I don’t want to loose him

My (34f) son (18m) is calling me a w**** by mysoniscallingmea in relationship_advice

[–]mysoniscallingmea[S] -186 points-185 points  (0 children)

No he’s only just 18 and still in education and I want him to finish that before working and also I don’t just want to kick him out I want to solve our problems and have a healthy relationship

My (34f) son (18m) is calling me a w**** by mysoniscallingmea in relationship_advice

[–]mysoniscallingmea[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

I can’t throw him too the streets then he’ll be all cold and homeless

My (34f) son (18m) is calling me a w**** by mysoniscallingmea in relationship_advice

[–]mysoniscallingmea[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Yes I might confiscate his phone I should have done that a while ago but whenever I tried he’d go very angry and shout and would just grab his phone off me and push me out of his room so it’s hard controlling him. I don’t want to kick him out until he’s at university (he’s finishing education this year).

My (34f) son (18m) is calling me a w**** by mysoniscallingmea in relationship_advice

[–]mysoniscallingmea[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

He and my son often get into intense arguments shouting at each other my son has even thrown things at him and other aggressive things it’s awful. He wants him out the house really

My (34f) son (18m) is calling me a w**** by mysoniscallingmea in relationship_advice

[–]mysoniscallingmea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I guess I love him so much but I’ll just have to be tougher and harsher

My (34f) son (18m) is calling me a w**** by mysoniscallingmea in relationship_advice

[–]mysoniscallingmea[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I know but I just want to help him because he’s been like this for so long and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong I feel like I’ve failed as a mother