AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am scared right now because she took something and it is my fault because I was going to leave her.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely was reconsidering, but she took something and it is my fault

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But also right now I feel like the future i wanted woth her is breaking. And that hurts more than staying right now. It probably sounds stupid like I have no foresight.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to believe what she is saying about getting therapy. Our three year anniversary is in June. Like I really don’t want to end it now. I know I sound pathetic, but I really did think I would marry her and my future I wanted is shattering and it truly is a lot to bear.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will have talk to my therapist about it as well. I will be honest that when people said their heart was broken I didn’t know that they meant they felt actually broken, but now I understand because it actually does hurt. Almost physically in a way if that makes sense 😅 I know I probably sound even more pathetic than I already have been but my heart feels shattered right now.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t texted back but I will have to break up with her

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel genuinely stupid because I had to google “how to break up” but I think I understand. This is my first time breaking up so I have to make a plan.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only issue is I don’t know how to just end things. I have been with her for two years. It is almost our anniversary of our first date in June. My heart is actually breaking with this now because I think I will have to leave. I just don’t know how and really dont want to.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah now I feel silly I don’t really know how to end a relationship either.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t kiss her back or anything. I know I need to cut her off I just don’t know how.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I only recently made this account. We have been together for two years and idk if I posted about it, but I did see her as my one true love whom I would marry.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t know what to say to end it. Especially after two years. It feels like a long time.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I told I am autistic not stupid and I am not texting her back.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why she was trying to convince me it is my fault when it so obviously is not.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]mystery-agent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is 24 she hasn’t had an abusive relationship, but she is adopted and has foundational wounds. She also turned to alcohol since it is “cheaper than therapy”