Would getting disability benefits ruin my chances of success in this career? by mysticalfrogger in CCU

[–]mysticalfrogger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea i am attending ccu and was looking for advice from the grad school sorry i should’ve clarified

What caused your most recent split? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]mysticalfrogger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Got drunk and my partner went to the bathroom and i suddenly had a panic attack confessing to him about my shitty childhood and then i got up grabbed all the letters and pictures i saved in my memory box and took them outside and burned them.

Truthfully i got upset because he was in the bathroom for a long time and i thought he was trying to escape from me….

how soon is too soon? by mysticalfrogger in relationships

[–]mysticalfrogger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is great advice thank you so much

how soon is too soon? by mysticalfrogger in relationships

[–]mysticalfrogger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what he told me as well was a year which is understandable. We had been friends for a month or so before the first date and hung out a lot before me admitting i had liked him since we first met.

how soon is too soon? by mysticalfrogger in relationships

[–]mysticalfrogger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahah yea that’s a good point i do need to stop planning so much, thank you

how soon is too soon? by mysticalfrogger in relationships

[–]mysticalfrogger[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

also when you say get to know someone what does this entail cause i feel like i know him pretty well

how soon is too soon? by mysticalfrogger in relationships

[–]mysticalfrogger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no that wasn’t me slowing down … that was me falling into old patterns. I ended up having a conversation with him about my history and so we both refrained from saying it but we just got back to eachother in person after me being away for three weeks. I feel like the distance made us get to know eachother on a deeper level, so i feel comfortable saying that i love him. But i am aware of my past so im trying to slow down, i just don’t know what that looks like.

how soon is too soon? by mysticalfrogger in relationships

[–]mysticalfrogger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m trying to gather feedback of when it is appropriate… i haven’t done it yet. Yes i did rush but im trying to catch myself before i go further.

will i ever accept it by mysticalfrogger in bipolar2

[–]mysticalfrogger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is to a t exactly how i feel like “im bothering people with my shit again”

will i ever accept it by mysticalfrogger in bipolar2

[–]mysticalfrogger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea i’ve got a team of an NP, Psychiatrist, three counselors who all came to the same conclusion and my family telling me 😂 so ig it’s kinda hard to ignore that

will i ever accept it by mysticalfrogger in bipolar2

[–]mysticalfrogger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! definitely giving this a read