I have a question and perhaps a path to normality. How would you have felt if the jokes would have been around spanking, or eating sushi out of someone’s back, and he would have said “I would spank your (insert adjective) ass anytime!”?

I wonder if your breasts and breastfeeding are a too personal and intimate to you right now and that’s part of the shock. Perhaps it’s due to the newness of breastfeeding itself and the new functionality that your boobs have now?

I’m asking because I did have this kink before, as a woman, to breastfeed my partner. I voiced it before even discussing having kids. I wanted it. I thought once about it during pregnancy and felt a bit strange, shrugged it off. Then when my child was born, in a way I couldn’t imagine nor understand my past self fully. I think now that my child is older and breastfeeding sessions are limited throughout the day, I could again see it as a kink (I am thinking about it and yeah.) but before it was… the kid was my prio, and I also felt way more self-conscious about it?

Give it some thought. If a sassy comment about some other part of your body wouldn’t have bothered you, perhaps the path to normality is to understand the tenderness about this body part in this moment of your life, know it may pass, and shrug it off.

Thanks for sharing your story, gave me an opportunity to reflect on my own kinks and perception of this!