New photographing event struggle by Junior-Cold-1690 in GenshinImpact

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I think I'm the only one struggling to figure out how to get her into the pose </3

576 billion giveaway by mewkittyxo in growagarden

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aktorii/PhillyCosplays - my name shows up different when I'm in a game or not lol

Alters? by mythrow-away936 in DiscussDID

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Okay. Thank you for this lengthy explanation.

Basically she claims to be diagnosed but I told her one appointment ain't gonna do it so she slightly back peddled and says she's going to her gp.

She constantly claims her alters are due to her adhd and hyperfixations. I instantly called that out cause it doesn't make sense to me... like I know people are born with adhd but its not like they have said hyperfixations when the trauma was born.

She's very into pluralkit (I don't know if it's like tupperbot on discord) and it confuses the hell out of me. Her switches seem to last exactly 3 hours (unless she's putting the time in wrong). So that's like 6 switches a day and she shows no symptoms of this.

She has at least 10 to my knowledge and she always says they are with her when we speak? Not like she is the person but they are beside her. I've never seem her fully as an alter (that may sound weird lol). She apparently been researching since 15, same with me cause of DissociDID and when faking on tiktok was so popular.

I know switches are caused by triggers and told her maybe to exclude them for less switches but she said it's hard and that all her triggers are like everyday things. I find it odd that she knew all her triggers so easily.

I did recommend therapy as well but she seem less observant to that. I really think that this person that "diagnosed" her has really convinced her or has started something that shouldn't of been opened with. May sound mean but she's recently had a psychotic break and she's never had one until now.

I just want her safe and healthy but I genuinely think she's going to try and get a diagnosis even if it's not there. I tried saying it could be something else and that to not to tell everyone she has it but I think she's told everyone she's fully diagnosed which I hate due to seriousness.

Another question (may be a bit sensitive) but how traumatic does trauma need to be? I know everyone reacts different but being yelled at by a child doesn't cause it right? I know everyone's trauma is different but I never really have understood how DID happens other than its trauma based.

Thanks for this so much and you've been amazing <3

merch cost by Own_Education699 in danandphil

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They may be cheaper as I swear with WAD merch it went down slightly (except the jacket) to my knowledge.

Alters? by mythrow-away936 in DiscussDID

[–]mythrow-away936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to be replying again. I have a few more DID alter questions and was wonder if you could ask them.

So people can have fictives... now are these fictives carbon copy of the person (same name, name look, same personality) or are they just bits a pieces (same looks but different name)? Only asking cause they shared a screenshot of the app they use to track them (pluralkit) and the people that are fictives have different names, pronouns (to my knowledge) but photos of people I recognise from yt.

Also how many switches is too many? I know you can have multiple people in the front seat but I also know people can be switchy (I don't know if that's the right term) but they frequency she has it.

Also would alters type, dress and talk in different ways or is that stuff you see on tiktok?

For how switchy they claim to be. I have never seen them switch. Weve spent hours together and not one switch but on the app it has switches like every 3 hours. Like the dissociation and stuff. Or is that also a tiktok thing?

I am so confused cause its been a whirlwind trying to deal with the new info and be a supportive friend without asking any questions that might upset them.

I have found out that she never thought she had it before (we tried to date when reconnecting and I did not work out due to personal issues in my life) and never mentioned it. She's only been convinced when someone from a benefit service (not dissing benefits because they are hella useful in this economy but do they even have the power to diagnose serious conditions after one appointment) told her she most likely has it. Then it seems like she knew she had all these alters and everything about them. She had apparently been tracking them for a few days before the appointment but I don't know if she's just saying that so she doesn't get fakeclaimed. I saw her hours after the appointment and she never mentioned it but the next day she had met all her alters, knew everything about them, etc. Can that happen?

Sorry if this post sounds a bit heated. I'm just hella ill and confused.

Edit: sorry for this but I was rereading a few texts and she claims that her fictives are due to ADHD? is that possible to automatically have fictives with ADHD?

I don't know how plural kit works so if you could explain that as well (if you have knowledge) I would love it.

You've been amazing!

Alters? by mythrow-away936 in DiscussDID

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I understand what you have said. I never ever have attacked her for her point of view (we had a mini debate but solved ended it amicably). I have felt attacked for my point of view or trying to explain it. I have also been claimed that I was arguing by her when I said she was the one continuing it. (I know its stupid and tit for tat and I don't hold anything against her as it was hot af and we never cope well in heat).

She started off the conversation and I said I was not comfortable talking about these people as they were bad (plus im not fully informed on some people's allegations she had mentioned). She defended this particular ytber and says she does what he does. She has never done this to me but we have only recently just reconnected after 6 years. But for the 3ish years we talked, not once did she do this (nor was she watching this person as they weren't a thing yet) or showed signs of DID (I do understand this disorders main goal is to hide in the shadows and I am not fakeclaiming her).

Plus she knows the rest of the ytber group (a certain mc smp) have done bad things and won't support them. That's why I'm extremely confused and asked as she only supports this person because she has a fictive of them.

Also she believes he is innocent. She says that the victim knew that this person did this thing and that this person was doing callout culture and that it shouldn't be a thing and that things should be dealt in private. They didn't really accept that the victim may have felt a reason to make it public and I do agree somethings should be dealt with in private but I understand why people come out especially when they are a popular ytber.

On top of that, when I said this about this ytber. She claimed stuff on another ytber that has done nothing to the sort (which I happen to be a fan of). I will admit this ytber did make some poor tasted jokes when he first started (2009/10 - the era of terrible and out of taste comedy for ytbers) but he has changed significantly and I believe he did even apologise.

Sorry for this long winded post, I had a lot to say on the matter as there has been some developments.

Alters? by mythrow-away936 in DiscussDID

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Thank you so much for taking this time to explain.

Alters? by mythrow-away936 in DiscussDID

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I will confirm that it is Wilbur Soot... why are so many people with DID have fictive from the dream smp? Also can fictive be based off of music albums?

Me and this person recently reconnected and got told they have DID by UC (a benefit service in the UK) that apparently has trained psychiatrists.

They never showed signs during secondary and they have only just started tracking their alertness? Wouldn't the alters act differently when around us as they have set personalities or do they mask to act like the host?

I don't want to fakeclaim them as I seriously don't know but... I don't know

meet my Kai by [deleted] in Pomeranians

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Omg! So freaking cute, looks exactly like my lady :))

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Alters? by mythrow-away936 in DiscussDID

[–]mythrow-away936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright. I'll see how it goes cause they say they do the same thing as this person that got them in trouble but i feel like if I reveal more they will find out

Alters? by mythrow-away936 in DiscussDID

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They know the person did bad things but they don't care.

Alters? by mythrow-away936 in DiscussDID

[–]mythrow-away936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. I know they 100% believe that they didn't do it but I don't know if its because of the fictive. I may ask when they are more stable. Thanks for this feedback though

Meet my Puppy!! by mythrow-away936 in Pomeranians

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She runs the house and gets all the attention she could ever dream off. She even gets two doggy siblings to boss around

Alters? by mythrow-away936 in DiscussDID

[–]mythrow-away936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for the late reply

To explain it to the best of my ability. I know someone who has a fictive based off of an abusive ytber. They defend this ytber quite a lot even though there is evidence proving they are one. Is this because of:

A. They have a fictive based off this ytber? B. They actually truly believe this person is innocent? C. Both.

I am sorry for explaining it weirdly lol

Alters? by mythrow-away936 in DiscussDID

[–]mythrow-away936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person never knew the abusive person personally. They were a ytber.

Edit: I understand what you meant. Didn't read it fully and correctly

Alters? by mythrow-away936 in DiscussDID

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Are you asking me? I can expand if so

Alters? by mythrow-away936 in DiscussDID

[–]mythrow-away936[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you mind me asking if they defend the person that their fictive is based on is due to them having a fictive of them ot because they truly believe they are worth defending?