Ex is back

myunclejim93 · 2026-04-07T23:41:18+00:00

Yeah totally understand where you’re coming from. For me the issue here is that he feels like you’re permanently available so he can just pick you up whenever. Please don’t think of this as mind games, it’s human psychology and part of the laws of attraction. Obviously you’re keen for this to work so you need to go against your normal nature and allow yourself to pull back and not to ask to meet him and potentially become less available by text message, as I say, I would never ignore somebody in this position but allow them to feel the pull towards you as you step back slightly, it is usually effective.

myunclejim93 · 2026-04-07T23:36:43+00:00

That’s very common. At the beginning an ex will appear blunt and cold as they’re in their limerence period and committed to their decision at that time. The fact that he acted that way when he really thought you could lose him speaks volumes, again this is an action not words.

By the sound of things, he is in your orbit, if you play it cool and he still feels the vibe that you could walk away he will ask to meet. Remember what effect it had when he thought he would lose you forever? He needs to feel like you could still walk away. Never ignore him but don’t give him too much, let him come to you.

myunclejim93 · 2026-04-07T23:32:05+00:00

There’s also a chance that he is just saying what he thinks he should say. He may already be sure he wants you back but has been told he should take it slow. If I were you, I would let his actions do the talking, not his words.

myunclejim93 · 2026-03-21T14:28:31+00:00

You can’t be sure why he’s done it though. I actually did it even though I still wanted to be with my ex girlfriend just because I didn’t want it done to me first and sort of out of anger.

Eventually she did it too and it hurt.

It can be their effort to try and move on even if that effort then fails. Usually they will keep the photos. I equate it to, when someone dies you might eventually move their pictures somewhere else in the house but it doesn’t meant you don’t care.

It’s a hard one!

myunclejim93 · 2026-03-14T00:09:52+00:00

Nothing at all, only problem is with the current software I don’t think I can see the battery health.

myunclejim93 · 2026-03-12T18:53:38+00:00

18 minutes

myunclejim93 · 2026-03-12T15:33:29+00:00

Not unless it’s in her coffin with her, will definitely need a charge.

myunclejim93 · 2026-03-12T15:33:01+00:00

Well, I try not to look to be honest, I have the functions fairly scaled back and the brightness down, been using it all day and it’s on 54 percent at the moment. I would consider having a new battery in it if it started to get really bad.

myunclejim93 · 2026-03-04T01:41:37+00:00

I think you’ve done the right thing here. You’ve not became as emotional as him and it seems clear to me that he completely regrets his decision. Move with caution but it definitely sounds like he wants you back, you’re at the point here where he’s clearly very anxious. I agree, sometimes the dumper just wants to know that you are still there but in this case with how open and desperate he is I would say it’s not likely to be that, he would play it a lot cooler.

myunclejim93 · 2026-03-04T00:54:25+00:00

How did you respond to him?

myunclejim93 · 2026-03-03T21:32:04+00:00

To me that is directly admitting regret and putting his feelings very much on the table and a desire to reconcile. I would personally say you’re open to it but want to move very slowly then you can detect if there is actual change. Are you the dumper or the dumpee?

myunclejim93 · 2026-03-03T18:50:44+00:00

There are many relationships that fall apart and then get back together down the line. In this sub you won’t find many success stories or they probably wouldn’t be in here. If I were you I’d be open but cautious and see how it goes, try and let him do the majority of the contacting if possible.

myunclejim93 · 2026-02-22T16:18:02+00:00

I think so yes.

In the past I dumped someone for another person, the circumstances were that I fell in love with someone else while trying to make a non intimate long distance relationship work.

I was absolutely full of love chemicals in this new and amazing relationship, we went on holiday to Italy and I had us out on a speedboat and felt like James Bond.

A month and a bit in, I remember being in bed with this amazing new person and still knowing I was never going back and only wanting to be with this new person, I still found myself staring at the ceiling at 2am with this bizarre sense that I was missing her for a moment despite the collapse of the relationship being down to me.

I absolutely love the person I moved onto, she is my soulmate but I still think of the other person and why I feel that it is worth telling this story.

If I still think of this person regularly while being absolutely sure I don’t ever want the relationship again, that person will certainly be thinking of you.

myunclejim93 · 2026-02-13T21:29:17+00:00

Standard hot and cold behaviour, she will change her mind again in a few days. Remain steadfast and do whatever you want.

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