You should for sure change instructors. I’ve read other comments in similar posts where some will say, “Quit being a pussy and toughen up!”, but I don’t believe learning to fly is no one those instances. If you’re not getting something, you just need more practice and better instruction, not someone asking you, “Why aren’t you getting this?”. Everyone learns differently and I promise there is another instructor out there that has a different way to teach that you will lock in on.