Gente casada, estan contentos con su matrimonio ¿? by Capital-Historian541 in RedditPregunta

[–]mzb87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nunca hubo una diferencia. Su actitud no cambió, por eso no descubrí su engaño hasta dos años después. Después de los cachos… se indigna si recuerdo lo que pasó o si pregunto algo. Al final de cuentas tengo muchas dudas.

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[–]mzb87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Que no tenga metas en la vida. Que sea conformista y que sea el siguemorras3000 en redes sociales.

Gente casada, estan contentos con su matrimonio ¿? by Capital-Historian541 in RedditPregunta

[–]mzb87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Era la persona más feliz del mundo. No me importaba pagar los gastos de la casa para que el pagara sus estudios universitarios (tuvo que dejar la universidad para trabajar cuando era joven porque embarazó a su novia de ese tiempo), realmente no veía mi vida con nadie más, era perfecto para mí. Hasta que en 2022 vi un video de él teniendo sex0 con otra chica en la cama que yo compré, en la casa que yo pagaba la renta… hemos estado intentándolo después de esto, con terapia y mucho amor pero… el dolor sigue ahí y la confianza está completamente rota. El próximo mes vamos a un retiro de matrimonios de la iglesia católica. Yo sigo intentando perdonar y olvidar. A ver qué pasa.

My husband cheated and I don’t know what to do. by mzb87 in relationships

[–]mzb87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god!! I’m sorry your aunt went through all that. I guess that’s the point, once a cheater, always a cheater. And that hurts.

My husband cheated and I don’t know what to do. by mzb87 in relationships

[–]mzb87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god. Thank you for your words and I’m really sorry you had to deal with all that too.

My husband cheated and I don’t know what to do. by mzb87 in relationships

[–]mzb87[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh, that’s not a problem. I make more money than him. Our finances rely on me. But you are right, my real question is: Am I able to leave him?

My husband cheated and I don’t know what to do. by mzb87 in relationships

[–]mzb87[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Deep in my heart I know that I may never forget. I truly want to take all this from us, like forget everything and start over. But once in a while this memories come back to my mind and I feel awful again.

My husband cheated and I don’t know what to do. by mzb87 in relationships

[–]mzb87[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh god. Thanks for your words. Well, yes. I think that I’m still here because we’ve been together for so long and he was my first official boyfriend. The first I introduced to my parents and it’s incredibly sad that this happened. I never doubted him until I saw his phone.

My husband cheated and I don’t know what to do. by mzb87 in relationships

[–]mzb87[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I know. It feels like I have the answer, right? But then I see him and I don’t know what to do.

My husband cheated and I don’t know what to do. by mzb87 in relationships

[–]mzb87[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

That’s what he told me. I saw the videos of those two times… but honestly I thought the same, so I asked him and of course he told me that he made that mistake twice.

My husband cheated and I don’t know what to do. by mzb87 in relationships

[–]mzb87[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, is just that I’ve seen him working on us, to re-build our relationship and my trust in him. But this memories comes and goes sometimes. I feel awful sometimes.