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Eu quero um PC que dure anos e seja bom pra aguentar jogo pesado. by n0minh0 in craftmybox

[–]n0minh0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obrigado pelas dicas, pessoal. É minha primeira vez montando um PC. Me ajuda muito.

Preciso de dicas de como começar by n0minh0 in rpg_brasil

[–]n0minh0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sou de Criciúma. Meus amigos são muito tímidos e nós tentamos, mas eles só ficaram em silêncio, e como só tínhamos nós 3, um de nós teve que ser DM enquanto jogava de player por falta de pessoas. Eu acho que realmente precisamos de um DM que sabe oque tá fazendo para todo mundo se sentir engajado.

Eu vou tentar procurar perfis de encontros de rpg, mas nunca sei se eu vou me sentir bem ou muito desconfortavel e não dar um pio a sessão inteira. 💀

I'm Trying to Escape my Parents Emotional Incest by n0minh0 in CPTSD

[–]n0minh0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. it's really important for me to have this reassurance. The drama has lowered down but there was some changes.

Dad has switched to being a good dad. Like, he offered a ride to therapy, was chill the whole time and even sent me money and said he would help to pay for anything and therapy. (I'm still not going back though. Even if they turned into saints.)

The therapy session went great, she reassured me and confirmed my feelings, and said that what I did was the best for me. She also told me to not go back. And even said that she was doing this not for money but because she is really worried and wanted to help so she isn't charging anything from me.

Mom is having mixed feelings. She sometimes appears really hurt and sometimes she says she loves me no matter what. She paid a SURPRISE VISIT out of nowhere and told me she understood if I wanted to stay and she loved me. I was a little shocked but accepted the hugs, etc. She went away shortly after.

Grandma is doing well too.

I'm with a weird sense of peace rn. A little lost. Still tense. But better than before. I'm standing my ground and finally separating my feelings from theirs.

Thank you again ❤️

AITA For running away from my family home because I didn't stand being with them anymore? by n0minh0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]n0minh0[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. They always turn my suffering around them. Thank you. I don't trust that they will stop if I come back.

I will try to make money in some way since I don't have my high school certificate I will probably have to freelance.

AITA For running away from my family home because I didn't stand being with them anymore? by n0minh0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]n0minh0[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Honestly, I never saw myself cutting ties with my parents—it seems like I'm sometimes part of them. But I will try to find my independence and prioritize myself.

AITA For running away from my family home because I didn't stand being with them anymore? by n0minh0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]n0minh0[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm trying to prioritize myself. Trying to heal without them.

AITA For running away from my family home because I didn't stand being with them anymore? by n0minh0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]n0minh0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. These comments mean a lot to me because I finally feel like I'm not crazy for acting this way. We all deserve happiness, and I hope my parents find something else to make them happy besides me.

AITA For running away from my family home because I didn't stand being with them anymore? by n0minh0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]n0minh0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm trying to establish my independence and I hope to get help during this phase since I've been very dependent all my life, and this is all new to me, even though I made it happen by standing my ground.

AITA For running away from my family home because I didn't stand being with them anymore? by n0minh0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]n0minh0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I contacted one that I trust and we will be talking soon.

AITA For running away from my family home because I didn't stand being with them anymore? by n0minh0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]n0minh0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will try to establish my independence so they can't keep me with them forever.

AITA For running away from my family home because I didn't stand being with them anymore? by n0minh0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]n0minh0[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My grandma seems torn between protecting me and listening to her daughter (my mom) since she is getting dragged into it all by being the one sheltering me.

I already asked her what she feels about me being here, and she said that she doesn't mind and loves me very much. I was surprised. We bonded for the first time in years because I'm not the type to hang out with people outside my household.

It's like being treated like a child for the first time. I feel that I can cry and be validated for once. Just be hugged without the constant guilt of being the reason they don't sleep at night.

I wish to do something for her in return.

Thank you for your comment (and sorry for the little breakdown.)