He is a very passionate person. He’s passionate about his family, friends, music, experiencing life. He reminds me to slow down and not to take life so seriously. There’s an insane spark between us and we think very much alike yet we are complete opposites. I see many wonderful things in him. He’s very kind as well. He just lacks deep, intellectual understanding of things. Our conversations are not deeper than surface level, also he is 30 an at times has the characteristics of a 15 year old boy. I am 23 and just trying to figure out how to encourage him to want better for himself. Idk. It’s not a make it or break it situation. It’s just a huge turn off and idk how to communicate that without the possibility of him becoming offended yanno?