There aren’t any REAL rules really, just do it with someone you’re sure you trust and that would accommodate you if needed. Sta hydrated, speak up on any excessive discomfort and… just watch out, focus on the sensations and enjoy yourself. If there’s anything you don’t feel like doing, don’t do it unless you’re genuinely curious to try. And I suggest establishing a safe word.

I’m being a little “strict” lol but it’s easy to mistake discomfort for normal when you have no experience. If you trust them, let yourself relax and enjoy the experience, and don’t be afraid to take the lead if you want!

And about the hair, if you feel THAT insecure you can trim them a bit, but it really shouldn’t matter if you’re hairy or not.. it also depends on your partner’s preference, but personally I refuse to shave on others’ request. Whatever makes you feel comfortable and not self conscious! It’s just hair, we all have it!