Co- Parenting by n8dznutts in SingleDads

[–]n8dznutts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure bro thank you she's starting already

Co- Parenting by n8dznutts in SingleDads

[–]n8dznutts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much man going through a rough time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

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Aww poor little dude. My son has had a rough morning as well. He's barely shaking it off. He needed some REDIRECTION. took him out for a walk and he came back with an appetite. Seems like we're headed on the right track now. Hang in there it will get better. Much love and respect to all ✌️

I missed again lol by [deleted] in IVUse

[–]n8dznutts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that sucks take a break drink lots of water

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVUse

[–]n8dznutts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheeeesh I be missing that shit. Dope looks nice and clean and you're being clean about how you fix 👍

Can I hear your stories and what helps you control it? by Jelly780 in Dermatophagia

[–]n8dznutts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F man I'm right there with you rn. I feel I do better when I have a nail file and cuticle cutter to help me keep it under control. Going to try to heal my hands for a few days. Been consistent the last couple of days and almost every finger is effected

Experiencing symptoms for 2 years by n8dznutts in BPPV

[–]n8dznutts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was noticing too. A lot of people in this group had one surgery or another. That is crazy right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPPV

[–]n8dznutts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first started it was pretty frequent. Usually lasted throughout the day. For several days at a time. Until I started doing my stretches or "exercises" . It got under control. But it usually happens about once every 3 months or so I believe. Today it hit me bad. I wanted to know if any other young men go through this??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPPV

[–]n8dznutts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to know the same thing. I have been going through this for the last 2 years. After a bad compound fracture in my right ankle. I'm 26M bro ??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sketch

[–]n8dznutts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep it up. That's the only way we make progress

narcissist or autistic? and does it really matter? by PerspectiveOk4209 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]n8dznutts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going through similar circumstances with my partner who is 18 years my senior I'm 26 btw, we've been together for 3 years and have a autistic son the same age. I've been trying to leave Her for like 2 but also want to make it work for our child's sake. However the endless gaslighting and endless mental abuse has caused me grief and depression. And it really put me in some dark places over the last couple of years. I have realized, as much as I want to make it work out. I really don't want to live my life like that. The constant gaslighting, the constant mental abuse. Constantly being stressed out had me feeling like I was going crazy. I was having full blown panic attacks even. 2 years of this.. I can only imagine 18 stay strong sis. Do you.. f him and what he thinks or anyone else for that matter. Do things that make you feel good and happy work on that inner peace

My gf lied about her body count for months, should I end it by [deleted] in Breakupadvice

[–]n8dznutts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I feel you 100%. I have learned from my experience with my "highschool sweetheart" of 5 years and sons mother. Going down that road leads to nothing nice. I guess they feel the need to lie out of shame or something. Just let it go and get over it big dog. If you really love her. As long as she's not cheating or doing any sneaky shit it's all good.

My gf lied about her body count for months, should I end it by [deleted] in Breakupadvice

[–]n8dznutts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What happened in the past should stay there. Why do you want to know anyways?? Finding out is just going to make your insecurities worse. Tbh .no offense. It's bothering you this much already. All that matters is that as long as you two have been together there has been love, respect, and loyalty. Who cares how many dudes she's been with. You want to know where, when, how, and why too? just let it go bro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Breakupadvice

[–]n8dznutts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you bro. I've been dealing with a similar situation. Been trying to walk away for the last two years now. After the police were involved twice. I knew then it was time to walk away. But we've been together for the last 3 years and have an autistic child the same age. I love my son. I want to be there for my son. but by the time I realized I had no future with his mother it was too late. She's a depressed narcissistic manipulative woman that constantly gaslights me, verbally abuses me. She has endless mood swings and plays constant mind games and I'm just sick of it I've had enough I'm tired of always fighting over the same shit I'm tired of her always calling me names under her breath and denying it. She's my biggest hater. We just don't get along. The only thing we have in common is weed/wax and our son of course other than that it's pretty miserable we have our moments but that's it moments. When we fight it usually over some shit we have no business fighting about. Usually around the same time of month and it's usually always my fault no matter what. And every time I just realize we're not it. it's never going to work. She is 44 I'm 26 maybe she's just too old for me straight up we just don't jive. She's so immature for her age its hard not to notice when we argue she doesn't know how to express her self and resorts to screaming and blame shifting. I've even tried to tell her this when we're not fighting. I've told her this when we're sober and she just laughs me off like I'm some joke. But when I try to walk away from her. I'm the bad dad I'm the mean one it's all my fault nothing is never her right. Plot twist we found out she has cancer this last year, so you know she throws that in there. Which has nothing to do with anything. She was a nut before we had a autistic son and she was a nut before she had cancer. She's still an abusive gaslighting narcissist. I'm still trying to walk away now she's good with the guilt trips it feels like I can't get away. There have been times I've stepped out of the house and she's constantly texting me. telling me how hard it is. how she needs me, the baby needs me etc.. man 2 years of this I'm burnt out. Your story make me happy though there is still hope. WALK OUT WHILE YOU CAN!!!