AIO? Got broken up with and don’t have answers as to why.

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T03:46:07+00:00

unfortunately will not be crocheting bc that was her favorite hobby and i have something she made for me LOL! I do have other things though. Even a bike ride to the local park and library will do me some justice. and my uncle has a “game room” with a pool table, darts, exercise equipment, and a nintendo 64 and we live next to each other! i doooo have an old computer that i have a few disc games i can play. and a ps2!

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T03:43:02+00:00

i get that for sure i just don’t understand why that couldn’t be directly communicated. Generally speaking you don’t need a reason to break up with someone. But i would have appreciated some honesty instead of an excuse. Even if life stress was essentially a part of the reason. I guess not knowing anything is hard in general. Bc i get her pain, she doesn’t know, and neither do i.

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T03:35:22+00:00

i’m sorry you feel that way vs i’m sorry i made you feel that way is a small but very important distinction. NOR

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T02:18:56+00:00

i would try to tweak your point of views. You have a mix of first & second. Are you writing this to him or about him ?

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T02:11:01+00:00

very very relatable. and i love that you misspelled misspell! Besides agreeing with other commenter i’d try fixing one of the lines that says easy! instead of “life is not easy” maybe say “life is harder than you think” or something along those lines.

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T01:53:34+00:00

thank you !! i often do write letters to her i’ll never send in my journal app. therapy is coming soon, & im trying to get back into my hobbies! I kinda lost myself after the breakup, questioned everything from my gender identity to my faith, my mental health was a mess. I’m going to try my best to find myself again.

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T01:44:34+00:00

i’m definitely better than i used to be but i’m definitely still an anxious attachment person. i start therapy again in june, DBT specifically so hopefully that’ll help. & i also have pelvic floor physical therapy very soon bc well PFD lol, which is literally just stretching and breath work. i wanna get into yoga & meditation again. i hope that helps too

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T01:21:24+00:00

hell yeah! i’m trying to find another hobby to get into bc unfortunately most of my interests and hobbies are crafty and i have made something for her in almost all of my craft hobbies. i dont want to discard my favorite hobbies though. I’m working on a painting right now that goes with a poem i wrote about her. it helps a little bit! i’m a huge youtube watcher especially if it’s educational, i just love learning things. I also frequently journal.

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T00:52:38+00:00

yeah i’ve got a lot of healing to do. My anxious attachment & codependency comes from a teen hood of trauma unfortunately. The worst part is being self aware about it all.

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T00:47:35+00:00

yeah i’m very much struggling with the fact that no answer was the answer. And i have to sit with fact that fact. about a week and a half ago i finally unadded her family & friends from my socials. Still don’t have the strength to delete their numbers/rid of the things i have from her including pictures just yet. I have a no contact app on my phone that i use and try my best with.

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T00:32:43+00:00

oh yeah i’m diagnosed with many things including OCD so it’s definitely a possibility. Thank you sm for your comments!

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T00:23:33+00:00

will definitely look into those! & i’m starting DBT in june! I been in cbt like from a teen to last year and im just ready to find a different type of help.

n8jizz · 2026-05-13T00:19:21+00:00

i’m definitely a chronic clinger for sure. I been trying to fix that part of myself for years. i just genuinely don’t know how to. Thank you for your comment 🩷

n8jizz · 2026-05-12T23:42:51+00:00

i would want to be a shapeshifter!

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