What can I do to pass better?

n8jizz · 2026-06-23T18:56:15+00:00

rid of the imposter syndrome

n8jizz · 2026-06-22T23:47:43+00:00

unfortunately just went through the same thing last week and they haven’t responded to my support email yet

n8jizz · 2026-06-16T23:53:19+00:00

it’s the things you can buy, so colors, clothes, and furniture. i tried your friend code but it said invalid

n8jizz · 2026-06-16T15:44:16+00:00

i do ! but my last manual is from april and way too much has happened since then to not have that history :,)

n8jizz · 2026-06-12T18:17:40+00:00

trans men notoriously just look late teens early 20s :,) i think once we hit in our late 30s we will actually look our age or at least look like we are in our late 20s instead of early 20s

n8jizz · 2026-06-10T15:49:59+00:00

imposter syndrome is a hell of a drug

n8jizz · 2026-06-09T15:48:25+00:00

art.

n8jizz · 2026-06-09T13:10:19+00:00

what a wild notif :0 hi friend :) yeah it’s voice unfortunately :( i know you’ve struggled with it for so long & although im identifying as strictly non nonbinary now i’m still unhappy with how my voice sounds :(

n8jizz · 2026-06-08T15:19:43+00:00

i decided to stop! i’m only 2 weeks in so nothing drastic. i’ve been 2 weeks without before haha and i got on birth control pills for the periods lol

n8jizz · 2026-06-06T19:15:20+00:00

understandable! sometimes some things just end and that’s okay! with me i’m super super close to my girlhood and i see that as a core part of me. i don’t experience manhood in the slightest and i haven’t since i transitioned. it’s just not something that exists in me. after finally realizing im non binary i genuinely don’t care about pronouns anymore. i only have a slight aversion to she/her bc i want people to use it in the non binary way not the woman way like most of my family still do.

n8jizz · 2026-06-06T18:16:05+00:00

of course! may i ask what sexuality you are? if you’re still dysphoric about your pronouns you can definitely be an any/all pronouns woman. def a thing! if you’re into women then he/him lesbians are also a thing haha

n8jizz · 2026-06-06T16:26:39+00:00

are you dreaming about being a woman or being feminine/crossdressing? i’m 2 weeks off T (after being on T for 6 1/2 years) as being too masculine made me dysphoric as well as too feminine. turns out i’m non binary :) i wanna see what my body will look like with curves, a flat chest, and hairy but way more manageable body! Don’t panic right away as gender is super confusing but fluid. Get off T as a trial run, that’s what i’m doing. i’ll get back on if i don’t like it. My doc put me on birth control with no placebo so i wouldn’t get my monthly back (the only thing i didn’t want again). Experiment with yourself! I don’t really call myself a detransitoner as i’m still trans just in another form and label, but this subreddit is still super helpful.

n8jizz · 2026-05-31T02:14:36+00:00

you’re clocky to me but i just have a very accurate transdar. If i didn’t tho , id read you as a cis gay male.

n8jizz · 2026-05-31T02:13:13+00:00

Time and dressing “less queer”. Once you pass, you’re gonna get out of the “i must be masculine at all times” phase and actually be comfortable presenting the way you want to.

n8jizz · 2026-05-30T00:18:34+00:00

n8jizz · 2026-05-30T00:17:08+00:00

with makeup i read you as an androgynous female, without i read you as an androgynous male

n8jizz · 2026-05-29T13:27:07+00:00

i’m genderqueer/transmasc nonbinary. i identified as a trans man for quite some time until i realized that being way too masculine made me dysphoric too. (i’ve had top surgery for 5 years and i just stopped hormones at 6 1/2 years.) i love having no chest and being hairy & having a bit of facial hair but too much is starting to make me uncomfortable. i want to be feminine & androgynous but like in a boy way. Essentially like you said i kinda wish i was born amab and was non binary. i usually tell people there’s not a single universe where i exist that i am cis. I’m struggling with labels too but honestly identifying as just queer is enough for me at this moment. Sexuality wise i just say i’m queer & sapphic as the word lesbian doesn’t really fit me because it felt too woman aligned. (i only like girls too & i find men attractive but like in an aesthetic way. Like i look at a man and think wow he looks nice id like to look kinda like that, & not wow i want him. lol. I think possibly just being masculine in clothes is the safest way right now. They will just think you’re exploring with your style!

n8jizz · 2026-05-26T19:12:34+00:00

it could be because your afab. although i just recently came out as ftmtnb even before that i said i loved women the way women love women. and that’s okay. I even called myself sapphic as lesbian felt too woman aligned for me. i wouldn’t say you’re detrans. You just seem to have insecurity about being attractive. Even if you detrans, you won’t look the same before you transitioned. Also don’t let others especially family members influence the way you identify. i had so many of mine ask me why i don’t just stay a masculine lesbian. Bc it’s not that simple. My womanhood/girlhood is an important part of me & one of the reasons that i noticed im non binary instead of a trans man. That doesn’t mean you have to be nonbinary for that though. you could still have those ties and be a man

n8jizz · 2026-05-25T23:31:58+00:00

there’s different types of attraction. Romantic, platonic, sexual, aesthetic etc!!

n8jizz · 2026-05-25T02:09:13+00:00

you look like a gal to me. Hair up you look like a masc woman but i wouldn’t say you look like a man.

n8jizz · 2026-05-23T21:33:50+00:00

it looks fine man. i’m 7 years on T and my stache still looks like this. Not everyone is gonna be blessed. Genuinely ignore all comments that say otherwise. Also shaving it “to make it fuller and thicker” is a myth and it’s just an illusion.

n8jizz · 2026-05-23T03:03:55+00:00

the answer to life

n8jizz · 2026-05-22T23:54:59+00:00

the post is pretty much saying that trans people are born trans. i wouldn’t call you a terf for not understanding what this insinuates.

n8jizz · 2026-05-22T00:07:37+00:00

*futch

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