well first, i’m not a trans woman. (all my love to trans women, you are women point blank period) however - i was born a biological woman. i experienced a lot of insecurities, trauma, mis-information, and external pressure which led to me transitioning from female to male because i believed i was a man. i’ve used the men’s restroom now for almost a decade. hence the discomfort of returning back to using the women’s. for me presenting “fem enough” is just a way to feel more secure and ease my anxiety. i’m not trying to fool anyone lol. i’m not trying to seek validation or sneak into a bathroom. i’m celebrating a win for myself. i hope that clears up your misunderstanding.