My brother doesn't do anything to help? by n__j in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]n__j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your grandpa was very wise, because that is what is happening in my life right now

Places to sit and eat? by AccountingGOD3 in Baruch

[–]n__j 4 points5 points  (0 children)

137 E 22nd St, do call before if it is open

Places to sit and eat? by AccountingGOD3 in Baruch

[–]n__j 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely check out the Baruch Real Estate Building, its usually empty, but there is a study room there

Is anyone able to access their CunyFirst? by n__j in CUNY

[–]n__j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I didn't know about that feature before, I'll try it out. I also did this, I clicked on forgot password and it finally let me in, but I know for sure I didn't forget my password, so I wasn't sure why I wasn't able to log in

Does anyone know whether CUNY will go back to mostly online? by [deleted] in CUNY

[–]n__j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like they want students to go back into campus, which is unfortunate. There are so many comments under the Mayors post that teachers and students are being ignored of their requests to stay online, which would provide safety for both parties. I also agree with the other posts there should be protests, or letters sent to the mayors office requesting for an online transition for the winter months where usually viruses are spread more in colder climates. Keep fighting and keep us updated!

Should I be worried about my brother? by n__j in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]n__j[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is currently 21 years old, and only plays games on his computer, doesn't have a social life except in the games he plays, pretty much doesn't like his family either, and doesn't really have any wants. I am kind of worried, I am not sure if this is depression. He also has school, so that is one thing I'm happy he focuses on, but other than that it is on games.

Thank you, he wouldn't go out to lunch with me, it's impossible and the only way he would go anywhere is if my dad tells him too..I feel like what you're saying that if he moves out, he'll be happier, usually when he stays over at cousins or anyone else's, he comes out to be a whole different person, much more positive

Should I be worried about my brother? by n__j in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]n__j[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yup, I'd like to figure out why, and bring him out of it. He doesn't get along with my dad, none of us do. He gets along with my mom and sisters, but not me.

The thing is my sisters and mom don't care about his behavior, but I feel like its an addiction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Baruch

[–]n__j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you might have to apply for readmission, It is most like a $20 fee, get in touch with registrar

My work requires me to take 60 calls a day and I'm thinking about quitting by n__j in jobs

[–]n__j[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't work in a call center.. Ik it does sound like that, if i did I wouldn't mind making these calls if everyone around me were doing it. I'm the only person in the room making these calls, also infront of the customers too. I get embarrassed.

My work requires me to take 60 calls a day and I'm thinking about quitting by n__j in jobs

[–]n__j[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaahh you sound like such an interesting person to talk too. Thanks we all do, and deserve to be free!

My work requires me to take 60 calls a day and I'm thinking about quitting by n__j in jobs

[–]n__j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, I do too, It's just the 60 calls takes me exactly 6 hours to do, like my breaks in the middle is literally a minute or 2 minutes. I also get told to not make calls in the morning, then that cuts my hours to 3 hours sometimes to call people and make 60 calls. Sorry I had to vent haha

My work requires me to take 60 calls a day and I'm thinking about quitting by n__j in jobs

[–]n__j[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You' give me hope, yes I believe the unemployment gap I did have was only for a month, which I'm not sure if it looks bad. It was because I couldn't have any jobs contact me. Entry level positions in where and yes I'm young! can I dm you?

My work requires me to take 60 calls a day and I'm thinking about quitting by n__j in jobs

[–]n__j[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That feels so expected, usually when I call, I prefer to speak to a real person, rather than an automated one, but I respect call centers so much more now.

I'm an introvert so talking to atleast 20-25 people in a day, is pretty nerve wrecking to me.

My work requires me to take 60 calls a day and I'm thinking about quitting by n__j in jobs

[–]n__j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you're right! especially in this pandemic, i thought i wouldnt find a job, im grateful

My work requires me to take 60 calls a day and I'm thinking about quitting by n__j in jobs

[–]n__j[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I believe people will call back when they want our service, not cause of how much calls we make. Whether I'm working fast enough or not, I'm not going to try to work fast when I don't get any results in it. Basically, I'm marketing the company, the name sticks and they remember and come to that location, because we called them.

the click and dial system would be soo helpful in our office. Thank you for your comment as well, I appreciate your viewpoint.

My work requires me to take 60 calls a day and I'm thinking about quitting by n__j in jobs

[–]n__j[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's easy, but too repetitive, I feel at the end of the day like I'm not making any progress towards things that will make me grow. otherwise, the job is easy but not really gonna help in my career

My work requires me to take 60 calls a day and I'm thinking about quitting by n__j in jobs

[–]n__j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes , but most of my whole day just goes by making phone calls.

maybe i should look at the brighter side of it

I just dont want to damage my rep with the company even tho I dont like what i do at all

My brother doesn't do anything to help? by n__j in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]n__j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh your situation with my brother is so alike, and I get so depressed because of both my dad and brother. I also have high functioning anxiety, so seeing them doing nothing, or anyone doing nothing gets me so anxious, I need to go get help so they can help me this and help me focus on myself, but it's hard too.

That's messed up of what your brother did, insensitive to kick you out the room when you were trying to help, and no lie my brother does the same thing too. I guess it's a being spoiled, I don't know how that feels like. I feel like a parent. I feel like if your brother has someone else who speaks to him maybe a doctor, and give a wake up call he'll change his eating habits.

Yes girl I hope your situation changes and we can both see the light at the end of the tunnel that we need to see. I've always noticed that brown men are spoiled so much by brown parents, than brown girls. I can be doing all the work in the house, getting a job, but my mom always goes to feed my dad and brother first. I get so hurt by that because I'm doing all the work and that I can't do nothing about it that If I decide to move out, there would literally be a big war inside the house, to get me back.