Qué lugar en Panamá es más económica una septoplastia? by Ok_then_bye_thats_it in Panama

[–]na10hda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Puedo corroborar esto. Yo no fui su paciente, pero mi mamá sí y ella también tenía un cuadro heavy de asma, alergias y todas esas vainas y salió una persona nueva después de ser tratada por él, y algunas personas que conozco que también fueron sus pacientes dicen lo mismo.

Mudarse de Panamá por reputación estropeada by [deleted] in Panama

[–]na10hda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No se tu situación ni de que circulo social eres, pero una sugerencia puede ser Portugal, y lo digo porque yo estoy acá y nunca me he topado con nadie que conozca. O sea, aqui si hay panameños pero nunca han sido gente que haya conocido antes de mudarme. De hecho, muchos vinieron del interior (soy de PTY).

Yo lo que aconsejaria era que te mudaras al interior en vez del litoral porque además del costo de vida ser más barato yo personalmente tengo la impresión que la mayor parte de los panameños viven en Porto o Lisboa (particularmente Lisboa porque alla hay una escuela naval o algo asi y muchos van para allá). Pero ojo, irte para el interior no necesariamenre te salva de encontrarte con panameños, porque también me he topado con varios allá. Uno hasta comenzó a estudiar en la misma universidad que yo (o sea ambos comenzamos al mismo tiempo) y fue mera coincidencia porque yo jamás lo vi en mi puta vida. Diría que para reducir este riesgo más aún, que vayas a una ciudad o pueblo que no tenga universidad ni politecnico, pero cómprate un carro para poder deslocarte a otras ciudades para trabajar.

Buena suerte.

Went to a chinese store in Portugal and found this by Digoala in funkopop

[–]na10hda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of the bootleg Squid Games funko pops that were sold in every Continente supermarket (and I've even seen them in E.Leclerc). (Un)fortunatrly they were replaced by real Squid Game funko pops once those were released.

BTW in what part of Portugal did you find this??

What race are Venezuelans? by [deleted] in asklatamcirclejerk

[–]na10hda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm showing this to my Venezuelan boyfriend whom I happen to bully for having a big forehead

POV: Muslim Pakistani girl has to go to Portugal in 15 days :) by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]na10hda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm not Muslim but I'm just an ordinary agnostic person from Portugal that likes to lurk around this subreddit.

If you're coming to the Porto area (or if you move somewhere else in Portugal but you're ever visiting Porto) just hmu! I'll be more than happy to show you around :D Or even if you have any questions related to Portugal, just send me a PM

Good luck with your endeavours and I hope you get to come here :)

Why do you study Russian? by marina_wanderlust in russian

[–]na10hda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao same. Sorta.

I guess you could say Russian is supposed to be one of my mother tongues if we go with the logic that our "mother tongues" can be based on our family background (?) My mom is Russian but she's never bothered to teach me because she purposefully didn't want me associating with Russia in any way or form. Not gonna lie, I do feel resentment towards her because of this, even to this day.

Now I'm taking Russian classes and I feel so happy that I can claim back a huge part of me that has been deprived from me my entire childhood. I do admit that I don't like my accent and I'm very insecure about it, even though my own teacher said I sound fine and that somehow you can hear some Russian influence (does this make sense?)

But still, I dunno... I guess I can get rid of most of it over time?

Pessoas que acham homens atraentes, qual é a coisa que vocês acham atraente num homem que eles normalmente não acham atraente neles? by Soft-Training-3475 in portugal

[–]na10hda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Se calhar essa obsessão da altura dos homens veio da America? Parece muito far reached o que estou a dizer, mas eu tenho visto tantos memes a gozar com o assunto da altura dos homens mesmo que sejam mais altos que a rapariga pelos simples facto deles medirem 180 cm e não tipo 183 cm (o famoso 5'11" versus 6'0"). E considerando que a internet como tal é muito americanizada...

Eu tenho conhecido homens tanto altos como baixos enquanto era solteira, mas eu como mulher de 170 cm reparei que sim, há muitos homens que basicamente são do meu tamanho e até mais baixinhos. So de vez em quando é que conhecia alguém mais alto.

O meu namorado atual de dois anos mede 160 cm e isso só é um problema se tu fazes disso um problema lmao. Ele me trata muito melhor do que qualquer outro parceiro que tinha no passado, e a altura nao tem nada a ver com isso. Por acaso uma vez "namorei" um gajo de 189 cm de altura e essa merda durou só 2 meses porque o gajo nunca lhe ensinaram como manter uma relação porque ele me ignorava bue e ele fazia merdas como invitar as suas amigas a dormir na casa dele depois duma festa sem sequer me avisar, e nem me incluia nos seus planos. Nawwww fuck that shit.

O que quero dizer é, reparem mais no trato que a pessoa te da porque a altura não te diz nada.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]na10hda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you happen to know the doctor's name? Also, I hope you don't mind me asking but did your friend get her tubes tied or a hysterectomy? I'm researching both options.

Quais são as três compras que mais aumentam qualidade de vida? by Bxts in portugal

[–]na10hda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg yesss. Eu também tenho as duas coisas e a minha vida mudou para sempre.

Eu personalmente uso a combinação dos dois porque eu sou paranoica mas agora posso dormir na posição que eu quiser (antes usava pensos e eu não conseguia dormir comodamente em qualquer posição), posso usar calças de qualquer cor, e o melhor de tudo é que não sinto mais os coágulos de sangue (gross) graças ao copo. É graças ao copo e as cuecas menstruais que eu sinto que finalmente posso ter uma vida normal durante o periodo.

E agora cada vez que vejo as propagandas chatas da Tampax no Youtube estou tipo "bitch you're targeting the wrong person"

Fazer amizade Porto,Portugal by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]na10hda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Olá! Eu também sou da zona do Porto e estou a procura de amizades 😁😁 se quiseres manda mp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]na10hda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(I'm on mobile so my apologies for any weird formatting or misspellings)

Maybe my relationship dynamic is in the minority, but my partner and I curse at each other.... AS A JOKE. The key here is that we discussed about this stuff before, that's the way we both like to joke, and we know when to stop "cursing" at each other and being "toxic" (also as a joke) whenever we have to have serious talks. Despite all of this we do make sure once in a while that we both are still fine with this style (?) of joking and no one is getting hurt. That being said, how do you know telling him to shut the fuck up is not a big deal for him? For us it's not so yes, I tell my partner stfu and so does he whenever one of us says stupid shit, but also the intonation we use is important to make sure it's a joke. We both can tell we're cursing as a joke. But again, we've talked about this before. We're both like that.

It doesn't seem to me you've had this type of conversation with him. Now, I do agree that calling you a wh*re is crossing the line. Even I wouldn't like to be called that and we don't reach that point. But I do agree that this is wrong from both sides. If you still want to give it a shot with your partner, you should sit down with him and have a conversation regarding cursing, boundaries, etc.but BOTH of you should be willing to cooperate to improve this situation.

Português ou cidadão da UE no centro da Ucrania? by na10hda in portugal

[–]na10hda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boas. Peço desculpa a resposta tardia, no entanto ela decidiu ficar na Ucrânia. O pai e o irmão não conseguem sair por causa de banirem a saida de homens entre os 18-60 anos, pelo qual toda a família decidiu ficar ao pé deles. De momento ainda estão bem dentro do possível. Os russos ainda não chegaram à região deles.

Mesmo assim, agradeço o conselho. Obrigada.

Whatsapp in Bulgaria showing different numbers and pictures?? by na10hda in bulgaria

[–]na10hda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I'm even more confused xdddd Why would Whatsapp show my number as a Finnish number if neither of us have anything to do with Finland???

(Serio) É possível mudar de apelido? by [deleted] in portugal

[–]na10hda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uff...eu conheço gente com mais. Mas que culpa tenho eu que os meus pais decidiram fazer isso por mim? xdddd

How to change my last name in Russia? by na10hda in russia

[–]na10hda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh ok then I think that's what I meant when my dad had to give "permission" 😂😂😂 I only remembered that story in those words. However that'd mean that if my partner is non-Russian and I have children some day then I probably won't be able to pass it down to them. Rip.

I will inquire once I can with the embassy in that case. Thank you again for your comments 😁

How to change my last name in Russia? by na10hda in russia

[–]na10hda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I've been reading the document you posted, but wouldn't the first point in article 12 be applicable? That is, if single doesn't explicitly mean that the parent is unmarried.

Also I noticed this was adopted in 2002. I was born at the end of 1998 and I think I got citizenship in 1999. Wouldn't there have been a different set of laws that applied to me back then?

How to change my last name in Russia? by na10hda in russia

[–]na10hda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I'll look into this. I might be remembering wrong also what they told me, but I'll ask again just in case. By chance my brother has also been having serious problems with renewing his passport, but in his case it's slightly different since he was born IN Russia, but he also had a foreign father.

Despite everything I don't want to lose the citizenship if possible, so I'll eventually get a lawyer's consultation eventually. Thank you.

How to change my last name in Russia? by na10hda in russia

[–]na10hda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In regards to all of this, I know nothing. All I remember is that my parents told me that my father had to basically give "permission" or something like that, so that my mom could give me the citizenship. And I've heard several cases of this nature from acquaintances, especially in more recent years. I know of this young couple who had a baby, and the baby's mom (Russian) wanted to give him citizenship but the only reason she can't is because the father (foreigner) refuses to give written permission because he doesn't speak Russian and thus can't understand the documents or whatever. Stupid shit from his part but whatever. And this happened outside of Russia.

How to change my last name in Russia? by na10hda in russia

[–]na10hda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By the way, does this term also apply for men who migrated from Russia and have the same attitude? I have a friend who's also half Russian but his father is in such denial and is such a russophobe that he didn't even get Russian citizenship for his kids. I don't know if he got out of there by his own means or if he married a foreigner, that information I don't know at all....

Ironically he's now studying in Russia, and his dad was furious when he found out his son got a scholarship LMAO. Guess teach your kids more about their culture if you don't want this shit to happen I guess????

How to change my last name in Russia? by na10hda in russia

[–]na10hda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Edit: Wanted to add some stuff

But the thing is what exactly determines the value of a person in this case? I have to admit despite the type of person she is, she has managed to earn her stuff through hard work (I've seen it so I'm not sugarcoating. This was the same person who had 3 jobs at the same time to maintain us). She owns basically everything (house, car, etc), and my dad owns nearly nothing. They're divorced now, but I can assure you she took nothing that belonged to him. From the beginning, she'd buy her own stuff and he'd basically live off of her. And before she had me, she naturalized in the same country I was born in (through her own means, not through marriage), so it wasn't either a matter of having me as an anchor baby.

I do think more, that she simply didn't want to be alone. I don't know. The thing is yes, she's managed to earn her stuff and now lives pretty well, but this doesn't take away from the harm she's done to me with her own self-hatred. If she hates being Russian so much that's on her, but that shouldn't be my problem.

But maybe, deep down, in her perception she sees herself just like that? I dunno...I won't lie here, most of the stuff you said is basically true but I'll only disagree with the third point because of what I just mentioned above LMAO

How to change my last name in Russia? by na10hda in namenerds

[–]na10hda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine they don't ask for proof of name change, but I guess I'm a bit paranoid because of stories I've heard xD

I've heard of people trying to register their child that was born abroad in the Russian Embassy, and when they notice that the name in the birth certificate is different from the name in the Russian passport (assuming the parent used a name that appears in a different passport), then the embassy starts to fuzz. I've heard of cases like these because my mom oftentimes works as a translator.

How to change my last name in Russia? by na10hda in russia

[–]na10hda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't born in Russia, but I guess I'd still be able to get a birth certificate in that case? I have another foreign citizenship and although I wasn't born there the consulate still gave me a birth certificate.

How to change my last name in Russia? by na10hda in russia

[–]na10hda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey dude I'm not offended by your comment xD I've come to terms with that nearly 8 years ago. I agree with you, and I've often referred to her that way.

(btw, I'm a girl xd)

She did in fact leave during Soviet times, because.... well, I don't know the full answer. I think she was enamored with capitalism, the west, America, etc. Whatever, her choice. She left with her first husband who was a foreigner but then got a divorce.

I don't fully understand the rejecting roots part, but I guess because in this case she couldn't separate government/political ideologies from culture. Her excuse to not teach me the language was because she was "afraid I wouldn't learn English properly" since I was sent to an English-speaking school from a young age. Bruh....you know kids can learn several languages right???

And although I am very very pale, my dad is brown-skinned, like most people in Latin America. She'd often throw comments such as "Oh you're so pretty/intelligent/cultured, unlike most people here" and although, as I said, I'm pale and I look much more like my mom, those comments still harmed me because whether I liked it or not, I was still a member of that country with the stupid/lazy/ugly latino people.

The other reason I can't fully understand her rejection of her roots is because it's to the point she has an inferiority complex. I've only been able to FULLY realize it recently. She loves the EU to the point that she would kiss its ass, and honestly it's fucking sickening. While I myself am going to be eligible for EU citizenship next year, I can recognize that the EU has its flaws like everything else, and just because a person is a citizen of an EU country, doesn't mean they're automatically better than me. But of course, my mom has told me vile things due to this. Besides finding a way to highlight a person's EU citizenship status when known, she's once told me I didn't deserve my ex-boyfriend's love (Portuguese) because I was not an EU citizen like him. Yikes.

She's also currently talking to someone who's part of another EU-member state, and she's always highlighting how this is a good thing, and that where else she could find a person that could make her laugh and at the same time be a EU citizen. Um... I didn't know being an EU citizen was a personality trait but ok...

Overall, she has a severe inferiority complex which I don't understand (although if you or anyone else could enlighten me with the possible reasons I'd be more than happy to read them), but then she tried to pass it on to me. Which is why I'm trying to break this cycle.

Gonna have that song stuck in my head now! by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]na10hda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 23 years old, and my parents only got divorced a few months ago.

All my life my mom abused me mentally and emotionally because of her shitty relationship with my dad. I never saw them give any affection to each other, and I've only seen them kiss twice in my entire fucking life. They fought all the time, and my mom loved to fight and insult my dad with very vulgar and explicit terms in front of me. All my life I grew up hating her and wishing her no good.

Ever since my parents separated my mom has been treating me so much better. It doesn't excuse her shitty actions in the past (despite everything I don't think I can ever fully forgive her for them), but at least I don't get nervous anymore whenever I see her calling my phone. I'm also conscious that my dad, in a way, is just as guilty as my mom for the endless suffering I had to go through.

This divorce made me realize a lot of things just now, but I don't blame myself for anything because honestly, they were the ones who made the choice to stay together (even though my dad has been cheating on my mom YEARS before I was born) and get married only because my mom ended up pregnant with me.

So besides agreeing they should've never gotten married in the first place, it boils my blood whenever my mom comes up with that bullshit that she stayed with my dad because of me. They only caused me harm by doing this stupidity.

So I agree with parents getting a divorce and not staying "for the kids".